Stephanie Lawder v. Steven Wade Alexander (Appeal from Etowah Circuit Court: DR-18-900122.02).

CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedMay 23, 2025
DocketCL-2024-0570
StatusPublished

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Opinion

Rel: May 23, 2025

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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2024-2025 _________________________

CL-2024-0570 _________________________

Stephanie Lawder

v.

Steven Wade Alexander

Appeal from Etowah Circuit Court (DR-18-900122.02)

PER CURIAM.

Stephanie Lawder ("the mother") appeals from a judgment of the

Etowah Circuit Court ("the trial court") insofar as it denied her visitation

with B.M.A. ("the child") and found that she owed Steven Wade

Alexander ("the father") past-due child support and interest thereon CL-2024-0570

totaling $2,739.32. For the reasons set forth herein, we affirm the

judgment in part and reverse it in part, and we remand the case with

instructions.

Background

The mother gave birth to the child in March 2016, while she was

married to the father. The trial court divorced the parties in February

2020. Subsequently, the trial court entered a postdivorce judgment in

May 2022 that provided that the parties would exercise custody of the

child pursuant to a "week-on/week-off" schedule and that the mother

would pay the father child support in the amount of $250.92 per month.

It appears that, in June 2022, the trial court modified the May 2022

judgment to reduce the mother's child-support obligation to $224.10 per

month.

On November 21, 2022, the mother filed a petition asking the trial

court to hold the father in contempt for his allegedly refusing to allow her

to exercise custody of the child during the periods when she was entitled

to do so pursuant to the May 2022 postdivorce judgment. She alleged that

the father had not allowed her to speak to the child since September 14,

2022. The father filed an answer to the mother's petition and a verified

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motion asking the trial court either to suspend the mother's visitation or

to require that her visitation be supervised because, he said, the mother

was mentally unstable and posed a danger to the child. The father's

verified motion also requested that the trial court find the mother in

contempt for her alleged failure to pay child support for the child in a

timely manner and to require the mother to undergo a mental evaluation

before she was allowed to visit the child.

In response to the father's verified motion, the trial court, on

December 8, 2022, entered an order suspending the mother's

unsupervised visitation with the child and granting her supervised

visitation with the child for three hours every Sunday and "reasonable

FaceTime [videoconferencing] visits with the … child, supervised by the

father, pending the hearing set in this case." On March 8, 2023, the trial

court held a hearing regarding the parties' contempt motions. On March

17, 2023, the trial court entered an order appointing a guardian ad litem

to protect the interests of the child; granting the mother visitation by

cellular telephone or social media on Mondays, Wednesdays, and

Fridays; ordering the mother to undergo a mental-health evaluation at

CED Mental Health Center ("CED"); ordering the mother to provide the

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trial court with the mental-health evaluation; ordering the parties to set

up a one-hour visitation each week at the Family Success Center; and

restraining the mother from entering the apartment complex where the

father lived.

On March 17, 2023, the father filed a motion asking the trial court

to temporarily suspend the mother's visitation and to amend the

restraining order to prohibit the mother from coming within 500 feet of

the child and the father because, he said, the mother had allegedly

behaved in a manner that indicated to the father that she might be

dangerous to herself, the child, and the father. He attached to the motion

a copy of a social-media post in which the mother said: "I hope people

take me seriously when I say I will kill anyone and everyone over my 2

children.[1] I 1000% percent mean that. Be smart. It's not hard. I don't

threaten or harm other people's children."

On March 3, 2023, the trial court entered an order noting that the

mother had made threats in her social-media posts, again ordering the

mother to undergo a mental-health evaluation, temporarily suspending

1The mother has another child who was fathered by a man who is

not the father of the child in this case. 4 CL-2024-0570

the mother's visitation at the Family Success Center, allowing the

mother's supervised visitation by cellular telephone to continue,

amending the restraining order to prohibit the mother from coming

within 500 feet of the child or the father, and ordering the mother to file

a notice informing the trial court when she had scheduled a mental-

health evaluation.

Thereafter, the mother, acting pro se, filed a handwritten letter to

the trial court in which she disputed the finding that she had made

threats in her social-media posts, alleged that the father was harassing

and bullying her, alleged that the father had not allowed her to visit with

the child by telephone or social media, stated that she wanted a change

of venue, and requested that the trial court order that the child be

afforded counseling. In response to the mother's letter, the trial court

entered an order on May 8, 2023, ordering the guardian ad litem to meet

with the child concerning the mother's allegations, setting a hearing for

May 31, 2023, and setting a final hearing for July 28, 2023. Apparently,

the trial court changed the date of the May 31, 2023, hearing to June 28,

2023. On that date, the trial court entered an order stating that the

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mother had failed to appear for the hearing and, consequently, denying

the relief that the mother had requested in her letter.

On July 28, 2023, the trial court held a hearing and, that same day,

entered an order in which the trial court made the following pertinent

findings:

"6. The mother has not retained counsel to date and in all proceedings since January 25, 2023, has proceeded as a pro se litigant. On March 17, 2023, the [c]ourt entered a Second Interim Order after receiving testimony and evidence and observing the mother's demeanor at the hearing. The March 17th Order appointed Stephanie Gillilan as [guardian ad litem] to represent the best interests of the ... child, provided specific FaceTime phone visits, modified the supervised visitation to be supervised by the Family Success Center's supervisory service, with the visits to take place 1 day each week after the parties coordinated same with the Family Success Center, and the mother was further restrained from entering the apartment complex where the fathe[r] lives with the ... child. Finally, the [c]ourt ordered the [mother] to undergo a mental[-]health assessment through CED Mental Health Center and for the mental[-]health assessment to be provided to this [c]ourt pursuant to a separate Protective Order entered on March 17th.

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