Stephanie Lawder v. Steven Wade Alexander (Appeal from Etowah Circuit Court: DR-18-900122.02).

Court of Civil Appeals of Alabama·Decided May 23, 2025·No. CL-2024-0570·Published

Opinion

Rel: May 23, 2025

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ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2024-2025

CL-2024-0570

Stephanie Lawder

v.

Steven Wade Alexander

Appeal from Etowah Circuit Court (DR-18-900122.02)

PER CURIAM.

Stephanie Lawder ("the mother") appeals from a judgment of the Etowah Circuit Court ("the trial court") insofar as it denied her visitation with B.M.A. ("the child") and found that she owed Steven Wade Alexander ("the father") past-due child support and interest thereon

totaling $2,739.32. For the reasons set forth herein, we affirm the judgment in part and reverse it in part, and we remand the case with instructions.

Background

The mother gave birth to the child in March 2016, while she was married to the father. The trial court divorced the parties in February 2020. Subsequently, the trial court entered a postdivorce judgment in May 2022 that provided that the parties would exercise custody of the child pursuant to a "week-on/week-off" schedule and that the mother would pay the father child support in the amount of $250.92 per month. It appears that, in June 2022, the trial court modified the May 2022 judgment to reduce the mother's child-support obligation to $224.10 per month.

On November 21, 2022, the mother filed a petition asking the trial court to hold the father in contempt for his allegedly refusing to allow her to exercise custody of the child during the periods when she was entitled to do so pursuant to the May 2022 postdivorce judgment. She alleged that the father had not allowed her to speak to the child since September 14, 2022. The father filed an answer to the mother's petition and a verified

motion asking the trial court either to suspend the mother's visitation or to require that her visitation be supervised because, he said, the mother was mentally unstable and posed a danger to the child. The father's verified motion also requested that the trial court find the mother in contempt for her alleged failure to pay child support for the child in a timely manner and to require the mother to undergo a mental evaluation before she was allowed to visit the child.

In response to the father's verified motion, the trial court, on December 8, 2022, entered an order suspending the mother's unsupervised visitation with the child and granting her supervised visitation with the child for three hours every Sunday and "reasonable FaceTime [videoconferencing] visits with the … child, supervised by the father, pending the hearing set in this case." On March 8, 2023, the trial court held a hearing regarding the parties' contempt motions. On March 17, 2023, the trial court entered an order appointing a guardian ad litem to protect the interests of the child; granting the mother visitation by cellular telephone or social media on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays; ordering the mother to undergo a mental-health evaluation at CED Mental Health Center ("CED"); ordering the mother to provide the

trial court with the mental-health evaluation; ordering the parties to set up a one-hour visitation each week at the Family Success Center; and restraining the mother from entering the apartment complex where the father lived.

On March 17, 2023, the father filed a motion asking the trial court to temporarily suspend the mother's visitation and to amend the restraining order to prohibit the mother from coming within 500 feet of the child and the father because, he said, the mother had allegedly behaved in a manner that indicated to the father that she might be dangerous to herself, the child, and the father. He attached to the motion a copy of a social-media post in which the mother said: "I hope people take me seriously when I say I will kill anyone and everyone over my 2 children.[1] I 1000% percent mean that. Be smart. It's not hard. I don't threaten or harm other people's children."

On March 3, 2023, the trial court entered an order noting that the mother had made threats in her social-media posts, again ordering the mother to undergo a mental-health evaluation, temporarily suspending

1The mother has another child who was fathered by a man who is not the father of the child in this case.

the mother's visitation at the Family Success Center, allowing the mother's supervised visitation by cellular telephone to continue, amending the restraining order to prohibit the mother from coming within 500 feet of the child or the father, and ordering the mother to file a notice informing the trial court when she had scheduled a mental- health evaluation.

Thereafter, the mother, acting pro se, filed a handwritten letter to the trial court in which she disputed the finding that she had made threats in her social-media posts, alleged that the father was harassing and bullying her, alleged that the father had not allowed her to visit with the child by telephone or social media, stated that she wanted a change of venue, and requested that the trial court order that the child be afforded counseling. In response to the mother's letter, the trial court entered an order on May 8, 2023, ordering the guardian ad litem to meet with the child concerning the mother's allegations, setting a hearing for May 31, 2023, and setting a final hearing for July 28, 2023. Apparently, the trial court changed the date of the May 31, 2023, hearing to June 28, 2023. On that date, the trial court entered an order stating that the

mother had failed to appear for the hearing and, consequently, denying the relief that the mother had requested in her letter.

On July 28, 2023, the trial court held a hearing and, that same day, entered an order in which the trial court made the following pertinent findings:

"6. The mother has not retained counsel to date and in all proceedings since January 25, 2023, has proceeded as a pro se litigant. On March 17, 2023, the [c]ourt entered a Second Interim Order after receiving testimony and evidence and observing the mother's demeanor at the hearing. The March 17th Order appointed Stephanie Gillilan as [guardian ad litem] to represent the best interests of the ... child, provided specific FaceTime phone visits, modified the supervised visitation to be supervised by the Family Success Center's supervisory service, with the visits to take place 1 day each week after the parties coordinated same with the Family Success Center, and the mother was further restrained from entering the apartment complex where the fathe[r] lives with the ... child. Finally, the [c]ourt ordered the [mother] to undergo a mental[-]health assessment through CED Mental Health Center and for the mental[-]health assessment to be provided to this [c]ourt pursuant to a separate Protective Order entered on March 17th. This Second Interim Order was entered by the [c]ourt after receiving testimony and evidence in the case, ore tenus, and observing and considering the mother's testimony, her actions and her demeanor at the March 8, 2023, hearing.

"7. On March 17, 2023, at 4:17 [p.m.], after this [c]ourt's March 17, 2023, Order was entered at 10:45 [a.m.], the father filed a Motion to Temporarily Suspend the Mother's Visitation and to Amend the Restraining Order. The [c]ourt on March 20, 2023, suspended the mother's supervised visits at the

Family Success Center, but allowed the FaceTime visits with the ... child to continue. The [c]ourt also modified the March 17, 2023, Restraining Order adding that the mother shall at no time come within 500' of the ... child, the father, or his apartment complex.

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