Stefanie Bennett v. John Xitco

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedJuly 2, 2013
Docket42275-1
StatusUnpublished

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Stefanie Bennett v. John Xitco, (Wash. Ct. App. 2013).

Opinion

F I L. . L OU'YIT OF APPEALS MVISIOM 11 2013 JUL -2 AM 9-05 IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE GIAMCSOMSK& - By DIVISION II PITY

STEFANIE JEAN BENNETT, fk/ /a No. 42275 1 II - - STEFANIE XITCO,

Appellant,

V.

JOHN MICHAEL XITCO, UNPUBLISHED OPINION

WORSWICK, C. . — J Stefanie Bennett appeals the trial court's parenting plan modification

reducing her residential time with her children and increasing the residential time given to the children's father, John Xitco,and designating Xitco as the children's primary residential parent.

Bennett argues that the trial court erred because (1) trial court's findings that the children's the

environment was detrimental was an abuse of discretion, and (2) trial court's findings do not the

support its conclusion that the benefits of modification outweighed the harm to the children. We affirm.

FACTS

A. Procedural Facts

Bennett and Xitco have two children: NX,age 12, and CX, age 10 at the time of trial.

The parties divorced in 2002, and a court entered a parenting plan.

The parenting plan was modified in 2008, providing that the children would normally reside with Xitco from Sunday through Tuesday or Wednesday and with Bennett for the rest of the week. The 2008 plan called for the parents to jointly decide issues of non emergency - No. 42275 1 II - -

medical care, with disagreements being resolved by Dr.Larry Larson. Issues of religious

upbringing were also to be decided jointly. The plan also called for the children to remain enrolled at St. Patrick's School unless the parents mutually agreed otherwise.

Xitco filed a petition to modify the parenting plan in 2010. The case proceeded to a

bench trial. The primary issues developed at trial were:

Bennett's unfounded domestic violence petitions and her calling the police on Xitco without good cause; Bennett unilaterally pulling the children from Thursday morning mass at St. Patrick's; The children's excessive tardiness and absence from school during Bennett's residential time; and Bennett's unilateral medical decisions for the children.

Clerk's Papers (CP)at 104. The facts adduced at trial relevant to each of these issues are set forth below.

B. Substantive Facts

1. Bennett's Domestic Violence Petitions and Calling the Police

Bennett filed two petitions for domestic violence protection orders against Xitco. The

only evidence regarding these petitions was the testimony of witnesses; documentary evidence was not submitted. Bennett filed for the first order in December 2009. Bennett claimed that

Xitco " refused to give the children back and then [she] basically was fed up with being

constantly threatened and [she]had had enough. And [she] felt like it was within [ er]rights and h

in [ er] best interest to stand up and say, you know, she needed] protection from this person."4 h [

Report of Proceedings (RP)at 492. Bennett's petition for a protection order was denied, and Xitco was never served in connection with this petition.

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Bennett petitioned for the second domestic violence protection order in February 2010.

According to Bennett, she filed for the order after an incident where Xitco screamed at her in front of the children at her house. In that same petition, Bennett also described a different

incident outside on her porch where Bennett thought Xitco was going to hit her. Bennett

admitted that she had hit Xitco in the stomach during this incident,but she claimed that it was

only because he frightened her by coming close with an upraised hand. Bennett obtained a

temporary protection order, but the court denied her petition for a final order.

According to Xitco, Bennett had charged at him and punched him in the abdomen during .

the incident, leaving a bruise, after he mentioned her decision to unilaterally pull the children

from mass at St. Patrick's.James Cathcart, the guardian ad litem who interviewed the parties,

was unable to conclude that Xitco committed domestic violence.

Bennett also called the police on one occasion for a " ell child check."4 RP at 504 05. w -

On that occasion, NX was having a birthday party at Xitco's house. NX drove his dirt bike up a

one lane private road that he had been forbidden to ride on. Xitco confronted NX,and took

NX'" dirt bike away as punishment. NX threw a "fit" called his dad an " sshole"and started s and a

to run away, but Xitco grabbed NX's wrist and told him not to talk to adults that way. 1 RP at

107. NX then ran away down the beach. Xitco immediately e- mailed Bennett to explain what

had happened.

NX then called Bennett, and he hysterically told her that Xitco had called him an

asshole," that Xitco had twisted his arm behind his back and hurt his shoulder. Bennett and

called the police. Bennett did not read Xitco's e mail until later. The police, on arriving at -

Xitco's house, found nothing amiss.

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2. Unilateral Withdrawal from Mass

NX and CX attended St. Patrick's,Catholic school, in accordance with the 2008 a

parenting plan. St. Patrick's held weekly mass on Thursday mornings. According to the

school's principal, Frances Jordan, the Thursday mass was part of St. Patrick's curriculum.

Jordan testified that mass provided benefits for the children; the children had a chance to lead

prayers, which improved their public speaking, the children heard bible readings and a homily

and had the opportunity to reflect on the readings, and the children learned to stay quiet during

the services. About 20 percent of St. Patrick's students were not Catholic, but they were still

expected to attend mass to learn " bout respecting the Catholic faith, and]being tolerant of a [

other religions."2 RP at 196. Students were graded for mass attendance.

Bennett was unhappy with NX and CX attending St. Patrick's. 2010, Bennett sent In

Jordan a letter informing her that NX and CX would no longer attend Thursday mass. Bennett

stated in the letter that her lawyer advised her that the school could not force the children to

attend. Jordan testified that in her ten years at St. Patrick's, other parents had formally pulled no

their children mass as Bennett had done. At Bennettclaimed that her reasons for

pulling the children from mass were, we're all covered by the First Amendment," that she " and

did not think the children should be taking a Catholic communion. 3 RP at 459 60. Bennett -

admitted that she did not follow the parenting plan when unilaterally pulling the children from

mass. Bennett testified that she was not aware of the children being ridiculed for not attending

mass.

Xitco,in contrast, testified that the children's failure to attend mass affected their grades

and affected them socially. " hey get teased by the other kids for not going to [m]ss," T a he

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stated. 1 RP at 78. Xitco believed it was important for the children to attend mass because they

should follow the same curriculum as the rest of the school.

Cathcart, the guardian ad litem, testified, I never got a sense that [Bennett] had cancelled "

the [in] attendance for any reason other than she could."2 RP at 240. Cathcart believed that ass

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