State v. Ditenhafer

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedMarch 20, 2018
Docket16-965
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA16-965

Filed: 20 March 2018

Wake County, Nos. 14 CRS 209763 and 14 CRS 209764

STATE OF NORTH CAROLINA

v.

MARDI JEAN DITENHAFER

Appeal by Defendant from judgments entered 1 June 2015 by Judge Paul G.

Gessner in Superior Court, Wake County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 15 May

2017.

Attorney General Joshua H. Stein, by Assistant Attorney General Sherri Horner Lawrence, for the State.

Jarvis John Edgerton, IV, for Defendant.

MCGEE, Chief Judge.

Mardi Jean Ditenhafer (“Defendant”) was convicted of two counts of felony

obstruction of justice and one count of felony accessory after the fact to sexual activity

by a substitute parent. Defendant contends the trial court erred in denying her

motions to dismiss the charges and in its instruction to jurors regarding accessory

after the fact. We uphold Defendant’s conviction for obstruction of justice by causing

her daughter to recant the report of sexual abuse, but we vacate Defendant’s

conviction for obstruction of justice based on denying investigators access to the STATE V. DITENHAFER

Opinion of the Court

daughter. We also vacate Defendant’s conviction for being an accessory after the fact

for her failure to report a crime.

I. Factual and Procedural History

The evidence at trial tended to show that in 2013, Defendant was married to

William Ditenhafer (“William”). The couple had two children, a daughter (“the

daughter”) and a younger son (“the son”). The daughter is Defendant’s biological

daughter and was adopted by William when she was in the third grade. The son is

the biological son of Defendant and William.

The relationship between William and the daughter was initially positive.

However, in middle school, the daughter’s grades began to drop as a result of self-

esteem issues, and she began to harm herself. William punished the daughter for her

dropping grades with corporal punishment, which “scared [her] a lot with his anger

and his yelling, um, and the spankings.” The daughter tried to bring her self-esteem

and self-harming issues to the attention of Defendant, but Defendant grew angry

with the daughter and claimed the daughter was only seeking attention. As a result

of her parents’ anger at her, the daughter believed she was a painful burden on the

family.

During eighth grade, the daughter began sending sexually suggestive pictures

of herself by text message to a boy. William discovered the photos, and he and

Defendant grounded the daughter. Rather than seek professional counseling for the

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daughter, William, with Defendant’s knowledge, began to give the daughter full-body

massages under the guise of improving her self-image. William gave the massages

to the daughter once a week while she was covered only by a towel.

After one of the massages, the daughter took a shower to remove oil from her

body. After the shower, as the daughter was walking to her room with a towel

wrapped around her body, William called her into the living room where he was

seated on the couch. A television displayed several suggestive photographs that the

daughter had again sent to the boy by text message. William told the daughter he

had been looking at the photos and that they “turned [him] on.” He then gave the

daughter an ultimatum: either stimulate his penis with her hand or he would show

the photos to Defendant and have the daughter sent to jail. The daughter began to

cry and refused for several minutes, but ultimately relented. William then took off

his pants and instructed the daughter to drop her towel. He guided her hand along

his penis until he ejaculated. William made the daughter touch his penis at least

twice a week thereafter. William’s abuse of the daughter eventually expanded to

include making her perform fellatio on him on at least three occasions, and he gave

her a book with instructions on how to perform sex acts. The daughter did not tell

Defendant about these incidents because she feared Defendant would not believe her

and would punish her.

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The daughter turned sixteen on 27 November 2012. Thereafter, William had

vaginal intercourse with her on multiple occasions. He also penetrated her vagina

with vibrators and his fingers several times and attempted anal penetration on

several occasions. He also bought her sexually suggestive clothing to wear for him,

took sexually suggestive videos and photographs of her in those outfits and various

stages of undress, and sent her explicit email messages requesting sexually

suggestive photographs from her. The daughter attempted to hint to Defendant that

she was being abused by leaving her undergarments in Defendant’s and William’s

bed; when confronted, William told Defendant that the daughter had just been

napping in their room. Defendant grew upset with the daughter for taking naps in

her bed, making the daughter once again fearful of telling her mother the truth.

William’s abuse further exacerbated the daughter’s self-harming. She began

to cut parts of her body that William told her were attractive, such as her shoulders

and bellybutton. The daughter attempted suicide several times by slicing her wrists,

taking pills, and attempting to drown herself. When Defendant noticed the

daughter’s bandaged wrists after one such attempt, she told the daughter that she

thought it was just another ploy for attention.

In the spring of 2013, when she was sixteen, the daughter visited her biological

paternal aunt (“the aunt”) in Arizona. The night before she was to fly home, the

daughter informed the aunt that she was being sexually abused and raped by her

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adoptive father. The aunt and the daughter called Defendant to tell her of the abuse

and informed Arizona law enforcement. Rather than feeling supported after the call

to her mother, the daughter felt that Defendant was “angry at [her].”

A short time after reporting the abuse to the aunt, the daughter flew home to

North Carolina and was picked up at the airport by Defendant. Defendant told the

daughter she did not believe her, that she needed to recant, and that she needed to

stop lying because “it was going to tear apart the family and it was just going to end

horribly and that [the daughter] didn’t need to do this.” The daughter reiterated to

her mother that the abuse occurred.

The daughter and Defendant met with Susan Dekarske (“Ms. Dekarske”) with

Wake County Child Protective Services (“CPS”) and Detective Stan Doremus

(“Detective Doremus”) with the Wake County Sheriff’s Department (“WCSD”) on 11

April 2013 in Defendant’s home. The daughter described William’s abuse of her.

CPS, William, and Defendant entered into a safety agreement whereby William was

removed from the home during the investigation into the abuse. The daughter

started seeing a therapist, Elizabeth Guarnaccia (“Ms. Guarnaccia”). The daughter

met with CPS and WCSD several times over the following months with Defendant

present or within listening distance. On almost a daily basis, Defendant pressured

the daughter to recant her allegations, including yelling at her, threatening to have

her involuntarily committed to a psychiatric hospital, calling her crazy and a

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