Soles v. Soles

238 A.2d 235, 248 Md. 723, 1968 Md. LEXIS 700
CourtCourt of Appeals of Maryland
DecidedFebruary 13, 1968
Docket[No. 94, September Term, 1967.]
StatusPublished
Cited by7 cases

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Soles v. Soles, 238 A.2d 235, 248 Md. 723, 1968 Md. LEXIS 700 (Md. 1968).

Opinion

Barnes, J.,

delivered the opinion of the Court.

The question in this appeal is whether there was sufficient corroboration of the testimony in regard to the reason for the wife’s leaving the marital domicile to support the Chancellor’s decree of divorce a vinculo matrimonii on the ground of desertion.

The husband and appellant, Robert E. Soles, defendant in the Circuit Court for Prince George’s County in a suit for a divorce a vinculo matrimonii filed by the wife, Marie E. Soles, appellee, on November 22, 1966, was married to the wife, then a widow, on March 30, 1957, in Montgomery County. No children were born as a result of the marriage. The wife, however, had four children as the result of her previous marriage.

The bill of complaint filed by the wife alleged that on or about March 1, 1965, the husband “by his conduct, which made plaintiff’s life unbearable, and which seriously impaired her physical and mental health and well being,” did desert and abandon the wife, which desertion had continued uninterruptedly since that time, and that there was no hope or expectation of reconciliation. Since March 1, 1965, it was alleged, the husband on numerous occasions had harrassed and threatened the wife over the telephone at her place of employment and at her home, had accosted her on the street and in her automobile, had threatened her life and the life of her daughter by the wife’s previous marriage, all of which have placed the wife in great fear of her safety and affected her physical and mental well-being as well *725 as adversely affecting the wife’s efficiency in her employment. The bill of complaint also alleged the joint ownership of various personal property. The wife prayed for a divorce a vinculo matrimonii, the restoration of her name prior to her marriage, i.e., Marie E. Larman, an injunction against molestation and threats by the husband, the adjustment of property rights and other relief.

The husband filed an answer denying the desertion. The suit came on for hearing on March 1, 1967, before the Chancellor (Parker, J.) who rendered an oral opinion ruling in favor of the wife and granting the relief prayed for in her bill of complaint. The final decree was signed and filed by the Chancellor on March 9, 1967, and an appeal was duly perfected by the husband to this Court.

The separation, and its continuance for the required period of time, was amply proved and corroborated, but the husband contends that the proof of the cause justifying the wife’s leaving the marriage domicile on or about March 1, 1965, namely the husband’s abnormal sex relations with his wife and demands upon her for such relations, were not sufficiently corroborated to support the Chancellor’s finding that the wife was justified in leaving the marriage domicile and that the husband was guilty of constructive desertion. We disagree with the husband’s contention and will affirm the Chancellor’s decree.

The wife, in addition to her testimony of threats of violence and unfounded accusations that she was running around with other men, testified that the principal reason for her leaving her husband was his abnormal sex relations with her and his demands that she submit to them. Although reluctant to give the details of the abnormal sex relations, the wife, in responding to a question by the Court, stated that the husband “gets more satisfaction from oral sex relations” than she considered normal. She testified that her husband required her to submit to this relationship, and, further, that this had gone on for a long period of time and indeed “since the day we were married.” The wife’s first separation from her husband came about, she testified, when he molested her daughter by her previous marriage, then aged 14. This molestation caused the daughter “to have a nervous breakdown” and, as a result, the daughter “had *726 to be under psychiatric care for a year.” The wife also testified to the husband’s harrassment over the telephone while she was at work and on the parking lot after she left work and his vulgar demands on those occasions for sexual intercourse.

Although the husband denied making any threats or putting his wife in fear of bodily harm, he did admit in his testimony that he had made “abnormal sexual advances” to his wife.

The wife produced two corroborating witnesses, her son by her previous marriage, John William Larman, and a co-worker, Mrs. Sally J. Lewis.

Mr. Larman, who lived with his mother and his step-father from the time of their marriage in 1957 until sometime in 1962, testified that in 1962 he was in the Armed Forces stationed at Arlington, Virginia and that during his service he visited the family home on the average of once a month. Since March, 1965, he had visited his mother at her apartment once a week and kept in touch with her by telephone. The husband was never there. He testified in regard to the husband’s accusations of his mother’s running around with other men, his calling her names, and of her fear of her husband. He found his mother a number of times sitting in her apartment with no lights on. “She was afraid even to turn the lights on.” Mr. Larman did not believe that there was any reasonable hope or expectation of a reconciliation. He testified that around 1960 there was some trouble between the husband and Mr. Larman’s sister. He stated: “My sister, younger sister, got quite hysterical and after a long period of questioning by my mother and I we found out my stepfather had been molesting her. When he was confronted with it, he never, to my knowledge, said no he didn’t.”

Mrs. Lewis had visited the wife since March, 1965, on an average of once every two weeks and saw no evidence of a man being in the home. In March, 1965, she listened on the telephone at Mrs. Soles’ request and heard him say: “How about some this weekend” and “would you like a little baby.” She also saw Mr. Soles on the business parking lot in the evening. After these episodes Mrs. Soles would “become very upset.” To establish constructive desertion and abandonment it is the Chancellor’s duty “to determine upon the evidence whether either of the parties to the suit has been guilty of such conduct *727 as would make a continuance of the marital relationship inconsistent with the health, self-respect and reasonable comfort of the other.” Geisey v. Geisey, 190 Md. 618, 627, 59 A. 2d 319, 323 (1948).

It is well established that the practice of abnormal sex relations by one spouse and a demand for their continuance is indeed inconsistent with the health, self-respect and comfort of the other spouse and justifies the other spouse’s leaving the marriage domicile in order to preserve that spouse’s health and self-respect. As Judge Markell, for the Court, aptly stated in Maranto v. Maranto, 192 Md. 214, 220-21, 64 A. 2d 144, 146 (1949) :

“Defendant’s [the husband’s] testimony, the uncontradicted testimony of plaintiff’s brother-in-law and the testimony of plaintiff’s sister indicate that sex is an obsession with defendant, regardless of time, place, or circumstance, at home or in company, or on the witness stand, in conversation and behavior, not only to an abnormal degree but in abnormal ways. The sister testified to a remark by defendant (only partly and unconvincingly denied by him) which is an admission of plaintiff’s charge.

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