Silver v. Silver, 2006 Ca 47 (5-25-2007)

2007 Ohio 2606
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedMay 25, 2007
DocketNo. 2006 CA 47.
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Bluebook
Silver v. Silver, 2006 Ca 47 (5-25-2007), 2007 Ohio 2606 (Ohio Ct. App. 2007).

Opinion

OPINION
{¶ 1} Larry V. Silver appeals from a Judgment Entry and Decree of Divorce entered by the Clark County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division. Specifically, Mr. Silver objects to the court's custody determination and its valuation of his business. For the reasons that follow, the trial court's judgment will be affirmed. *Page 2

{¶ 2} Larry and Jennifer L. Silver were married in 1986, and two sons were born during their marriage. The boys were 16 and 14 years old at the time of the hearing on the complaint for divorce. Mr. Silver started a business during the marriage, Contractor Marketing, Inc. ("CMI"), which specialized in employee recruiting, advertising, publications, and general consulting. Mr. Silver was the sole shareholder of CMI, which was organized as a subchapter S corporation.

{¶ 3} Mrs. Silver filed for divorce in 2003 and sought to be designated as the children's residential parent. She also sought spousal support, child support, and an equitable division of the parties' assets. A magistrate conducted a hearing on these matters over several days in the summer and fall of 2005. The magistrate found that Mrs. Silver should be designated as the residential parent. The magistrate also found that CMI was valued at $380,000, and that half of this amount, or $190,000, should be paid as a distributive award to Mrs. Silver. The trial court immediately adopted and ratified the findings and orders of the magistrate.

{¶ 4} Thereafter, both parties filed objections to the magistrate's decision. Although the court made some corrections of typographical errors, it overruled the parties' objections to the substance of the magistrate's decision.

{¶ 5} Mr. Silver appeals, raising two assignments of error.

"THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION BY AWARDING CUSTODY OF BOTH CHILDREN TO APPELLEE-WIFE BECAUSE IT IS IN THE BEST INTERESTS OF BOTH CHILDREN TO RESIDE WITH APPELLANT-HUSBAND"

{¶ 6} Mr. Silver contends that the trial court abused its discretion in naming Mrs. *Page 3 Silver as the residential parent because of her documented physical and mental abuse of the children, the children's desire to live with him, and his positive and stable relationship with the children. He claims that the trial court's attitude toward him was capricious.

{¶ 7} The trial court considered extensive testimony about the parties' relationships with their children, including testimony from the children themselves. The testimony from Christopher, the older son, revealed that he was angry about the divorce but that he loved both of his parents. He tended to fight with his mother about punishments and limitations that she imposed on his behavior, and he admitted that he had precipitated or initiated some physical altercations between them. The younger son, Nathan, cared more about living with his brother than with a particular parent. Nathan also described fighting with his mother over discipline. Mrs. Silver believed that the boys wanted to live with Mr. Silver because she was firm on discipline and because Mr. Silver lived in the family's large and comfortable house with a newly finished basement filled with games and a flat-screen television. Mrs. Silver described the new recreation room in Mr. Silver's basement as a "dream room for teenagers." She contrasted the living arrangements at the family home with the two-bedroom apartment in which she was living, where the boys did not have their own rooms or lots of games, and they had only a basic television.

{¶ 8} Mrs. Silver and her witnesses testified that she was a good mother with a loving relationship with her children. They also described very controlling behavior on Mr. Silver's part, including demands that she pray and make certain admissions before visitation. (Mr. Silver was the residential parent while the divorce was pending.) Mrs. Silver denied that she had been drinking, partying, or having sexual relationships while the divorce was pending. *Page 4 Family members described Mr. Silver's emotional abuse of Mrs. Silver and expressed fear that the abuse could become physical. They also stated that the boys' relationships with their father were based on fear.

{¶ 9} Mr. Silver's friends testified that he had a good relationship with his children and that he was the better parent, although they had very limited exposure to the children's interaction with their mother. Mr. Silver's witnesses were familiar with the religious "fellowship" in which he was deeply involved and stated that the children were not afraid of him. They testified that Mr. Silver was a man of God, and one of the witnesses expressed her belief that the father is always the better parent to provide a secure environment for children. Mr. Silver testified that neither child was afraid of him, that he did not think either boy was comfortable or happy living with his mother, and that he wanted to keep the boys living with him in the family home to provide stability for them. A guardian ad litem was appointed and provided reports to the court. The guardian ad litem concluded that the physical altercations between Christopher and his mother were not significant for purposes of his recommendation. He also concluded that the children would express a desire to live with either parent "depending on who resides in the marital home." The guardian ad litem described Mr. Silver as "a controlling manipulative person who is highly inflexible" and who used visitation in his attempts to alter Mrs. Silver's behavior toward him. The guardian ad litem concluded that Mrs. Silver would be the better residential parent and would better facilitate visitation.

{¶ 10} The magistrate agreed with the guardian ad litem that it was in the children's best interest to designate Mrs. Silver as the residential parent because Mr. Silver was "domineering" and Mrs. Silver was more likely to facilitate visitation. The magistrate found that Mr. Silver's *Page 5 alleged desire to reconcile and "forgive" his wife was not genuine and was focused on winning custody. The magistrate noted that Mr. Silver had been found in contempt of court twice during the divorce proceedings for harassing Mrs. Silver. Quoting a decision of the same court granting civil protection orders to the parties during the pendency of the proceedings, the magistrate stated:

{¶ 11} "When reviewing the testimony of [Mr. Silver] one would get the impression that he is cool, calm[,] logical and in control. In reality [Mr. Silver] is controlling and manipulative and very absolute in his thinking. Apparently, [Mr. Silver] feels that he is entitled to chide and correct [Mrs. Silver] and often points out that there is much room for improvement in her behavior as wife and mother. * * * [Mr. Silver's] harassment and constant referral to the bible and the biblical ills that will befall [Mrs. Silver] if she continues with the divorce have clearly placed her in fear of imminent physical harm * * *. * * * It is clear that [Mrs. Silver] is a timid person, who has not been sure of herself for a long time, but is beginning to assert herself. Not surprisingly she is married to a demanding spouse who often affirms he is right about a lot of things. And he has displayed a condescending attitude toward almost everyone involved in these cases."

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