SIEDAH LEMON v. DONTE M. GRADY (FD-03-0257-20, BURLINGTON COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

• Court: New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
• Decided: October 25, 2022
• Docket: A-0681-21
• Status: Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0681-21

SIEDAH LEMON,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

DONTE M. GRADY,

Defendant-Appellant. _______________________

Submitted September 12, 2022 - Decided October 25, 2022

Before Judges Whipple and Mawla.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Burlington County, Docket No. FD-03-0257-20.

Hegge & Confusione, LLC, attorneys for appellant (Michael Confusione, of counsel and on the brief).

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM Defendant Donte Grady appeals from an October 13, 2021 order of the

Family Part permitting plaintiff Seidah Lemon to remove the parties' son from

Maple Shade to Baltimore, Maryland. We affirm.

Plaintiff and defendant are the parents of a boy, who was eight years old

at the time of the plenary hearing. The parties have joint custody with plaintiff

as parent of primary residence and defendant as parent of alternate residence.

This matter began with defendant's motion for modification of the custody order

after plaintiff moved to Baltimore with the child without a court order granting

leave to relocate and, allegedly, without defendant's consent. The Family Part

judge ordered a plenary hearing to determine whether the move was in the child's

best interests and ordered that child support be suspended pending the hearing.

The plenary hearing was conducted remotely on October 13, 2021. Each

party offered their own testimony. Defendant testified that plaintiff moved with

their son without his knowledge or consent, stating: "I actually didn't find out

that she moved to Maryland from her. I found out from [my son], and she had

already moved to Maryland by the time I found out that she did, so I think . . .

there was no communication there as far as that situation."

Under the parties' parenting schedule prior to the relocation, as the parent

of alternate residence, defendant's parenting time was every Wednesday night,

A-0681-21 2 every Thursday night, and every other weekend, Saturday to Sunday afternoon.

Defendant has a two-bedroom apartment where the child has his own room. The

child had attended elementary school in Maple Shade, near defendant's

residence. Defendant asserted that, because plaintiff moved to Maryland, he

was too far away to continue as the parent of alternate residence under the same

visitation schedule.

Defendant asked the court not to permit the removal and stressed there

was more stability for the child in New Jersey where he had many family

connections. He asked the court to consider that the child would soon be

entering his teen years and needed to spend more time with his father.

Plaintiff testified that the child had lived in New Jersey his entire life

before she moved, first living in Burlington Township, then in Maple Shade

where he attended school. She acknowledged defendant's involvement in raising

their son but complained that "[defendant] has never had him full time."

Plaintiff told the court that the child "needs stability . . . but now you're trying

to remove him from being with me full time, which he's always been with me

full time." Plaintiff testified she lives in Baltimore with her sister, who works

from home. So, if she were not able to get to her son due to an emergency, her

sister or her sister's husband or other relatives would be available to care for

A-0681-21 3 him. She said that the child was in a good atmosphere in Maryland. Plaintiff

also testified that defendant does not routinely call the child or take interest in

the child's activities such as karate and jiu-jitsu.

Plaintiff explained that, during the pandemic, she was furloughed from

her job and encountered financial difficulties. She stated:

I start[ed] applying for jobs and the jobs were not . . . as flexible [as] I needed because [the child] was not in school, so I had to do virtual school with [him], and I didn't have anybody to do virtual school with him. My brother's wife, they have four kids already so that would have been too much for me to ask her hey, can [my child] go over there so he can do virtual school . . . with you guys while I go to work. It would have been too much to ask because she just had a new baby as well, so I had to take that sacrifice with not working and doing the virtual school with [him].

Plaintiff applied for other jobs until her sister told her about opportunities

in Baltimore. Plaintiff testified that she spoke with defendant

in May . . . and I told him look, I'm looking to move to Maryland . . . and I told him and I said I was looking to drop the child support case. He was like oh, all right, thanks, I appreciate you, and I'm like all right. So then we moved out here in June, the first week of June, and I never dropped the child support case so he was upset that I never dropped the child support case.

Plaintiff explained that she still wanted defendant to see the child every

other weekend and continue paying child support. She argued that the court

A-0681-21 4 should not give defendant primary custody and the move to Maryland was not

detrimental to her son or defendant.

The trial court agreed, stating:

I do find based upon [plaintiff]'s testimony that there was cause in the best interest of [the child] to move to Maryland in order to establish a better job for her and also for her—for [the child] . . . . [B]ased upon the analysis I've conducted, the testimony of [defendant], the testimony of [plaintiff] and the factors of the Bisbing[1] Court analysis, I believe . . . that the move was in the best interests of [the child], he does have support down there, he has cousins that treat him like brothers. I don't find that if [the child] was ordered to go back to New Jersey with [defendant] it would be in his best interests. That would be a very big change for him.

The court entered the October 13, 2021 order permitting the child to

remain in Maryland with plaintiff as parent of primary residence and defendant

as parent of alternate residence. On November 23, 2021, the court filed an

amplification of its decision, cited N.J.S.A. 9:2-2 and -4, and explained how the

factors identified under the statute supported the decision to permit relocation.

The court also entered a March 4, 2022 order for child support. This appeal

followed.

1 Bisbing v. Bisbing, 230 N.J. 309 (2017). A-0681-21 5 On appeal, defendant asks us to reverse the order allowing plaintiff to

move with the child. He argues that the court erred in finding removal was in

the child's best interests and that, because plaintiff never sought leave of the

court before she relocated, the court should have denied permission to move

based on a violation of the initial custody order.

Our scope of review of Family Part orders is limited. Cesare v. Cesare,

154 N.J. 394, 411 (1998). We will not disturb the "'factual findings and legal

conclusions of the trial judge unless we are convinced that they are so manifestly

unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant and reasonably

credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice.'" Rova Farms Resort, Inc.

v. Investors Ins. Co., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974) (quoting Fagliarone v. Twp. of

No. Bergen, 78 N.J. Super. 154, 155 (App. 1963)).

Substantial deference is owed to the Family Part's findings of fact because

of its special expertise in family matters. Cesare, 154 N.J. at 413. "Deference

is especially appropriate when the evidence is 'largely testimonial and involves

questions of credibility.'" Id. at 412 (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D.,

149 N.J. 108, 117 (1997)). A trial judge who observes witnesses and listens to

their testimony is in the best position to "make first-hand credibility judgments

about the witnesses who appear on the stand." N.J. Div. of Youth & Family

A-0681-21 6 Servs. v. E.P., 196 N.J. 88, 104 (2008). Thus, this court does not "'weigh the

evidence, assess the credibility of witnesses, or make conclusions about the

evidence.'" Mountain Hill, LLC v. Twp. of Middletown, 399 N.J. Super. 486,

498 (App. Div. 2008) (quoting State v. Barone, 147 N.J. 599, 615 (1997)).

Under N.J.S.A. 9:2-2, a parent who seeks to remove a child from this state

when the other parent does not consent must demonstrate "cause" for the

removal. The legislative intent of this statute was "'to preserve the rights of the

noncustodial parent and the child to maintain and develop their familial

relationship.'" Bisbing, 230 N.J. at 323 (quoting Holder v. Polanski, 111 N.J.

344, 350 (1988)).

In Bisbing, the Court interpreted "cause" under N.J.S.A. 9:2-2 as requiring

the petitioning parent to satisfy the best-interests analysis set forth in N.J.S.A.

9:2-4(c), "supplemented by other factors as appropriate." Id. at 338 (citing

N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c)). In making "the sensitive determination of cause[, a court]

must weigh the custodial parent's interest in freedom of movement as qualified

by his or her custodial obligation, the State's interest in protecting the best

interests of the child, and the competing interests of the noncustodial parent."

Id. at 323 (internal citation omitted).

A-0681-21 7 Here, the trial judge appropriately applied the Bisbing standard and relied

on the factors enumerated in N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c) in deciding the motion, as

explained in the court's amplification. He concluded:

1. The parents' ability to agree, communicate and cooperate in matter relating to the child.

Historically, the parties have cooperated and communicated regarding parenting time and matters relating to the minor child. While [defendant] testified that he did not consent to the child's relocation and that he had no knowledge of the child's relocation until [plaintiff] moved to Maryland, [plaintiff] credibly testified that she verbally informed [defendant] that she was moving and would not pursue child support. [Plaintiff] believed that she had [defendant]'s consent to move. After [plaintiff]'s move, she did not "drop" child support, and [defendant] wanted to enforce the verbal agreement the parties made.

2. The parents' willingness to accept custody and any history of unwillingness to allow parenting time not based on substantiated abuse.

Neither parent has withheld or frustrated the other parent's ability to exercise parenting time. After [plaintiff]'s move, [defendant] sought to enforce the parties' prior parenting time arrangement under a prior order.

3. The interaction and relationship of the child with its parents and siblings.

Both parents have a good relationship with the minor child. While the minor child does not have siblings, the minor child has cousins with whom he

A-0681-21 8 resides in Maryland. The minor child has a close, sibling-like relationship with his cousins.

4. This history of domestic violence, if any.

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5. The safety of the child and the safety of either parent from physical abuse by the other parent.

6. The preference of the child when of sufficient age and capacity to reason so as to form an intelligent decision.

At the time of the [p]lenary [h]earing, the minor child was eight . . . years old and not of sufficient age to reason so as to form such a preference.

7. The needs of the child.

8. The stability of the home environment offered.

The minor child has support and a family network in Maryland. [Plaintiff] lives with her sister, her sister's husband, and their children. [Defendant] testified that he has family nearby, and the minor child has a good relationship with his family. [Defendant] also testified he has an aunt who lives fifteen minutes away and is involved in the minor child. [Plaintiff] testified credibly that prior to the child's move to Maryland, [defendant]'s family did not provide support to the child.

A-0681-21 9 The minor child is also involved in extra- curricular activities, including [k]arate and [jiu-jitsu] in Maryland.

9. The fitness of the parents.

10. The geographical proximity of the parents' homes.

Pursuant to a prior [c]ourt order dated August 26, 2021, the parties were meeting at a half-way point between their homes for parenting time exchanges. [Defendant] testified that it takes one to two hours to drive to the halfway point, depending on the traffic, for this parenting time.

11. The extent and quality of the time spent with the child prior to or subsequent to the separation.

[The m]inor child has resided with [plaintiff] since birth. Prior to [plaintiff]'s move to Maryland, [defendant] exercised overnight parenting time on Wednesdays and Thursdays, along with every other weekend.

12. The parents' employment responsibilities.

[Plaintiff] faced financial hardship in New Jersey and moved to Maryland to pursue employment opportunities and to find a better job. [Defendant] works fulltime in New Jersey.

13. The age and number of the children.

There is one minor child, age eight . . . .

A-0681-21 10 The trial judge concluded, based upon an analysis of the best-interests

factors pursuant to Bisbing, that there is "cause" to authorize the child's removal

to Maryland, and it was in his best interests. He additionally concluded that

returning the child to New Jersey and designating father as parent of primary

residence would not be in the best interests of the child. Returning him to New

Jersey would remove him from his school, extra-curricular activities, and

support network in Maryland. Further, the child never resided with father and

such a change would be disruptive and detrimental.

We reject defendant's argument that the trial court was barred from

permitting relocation pursuant to Dever v. Howell, 456 N.J. Super. 300, 303

(App. Div. 2018). In Dever, the plaintiff gave defendant less than one day's

notice about moving, and although the defendant objected, the plaintiff moved

to South Carolina without first obtaining an order permitting the removal. Id. at

302.

Defendant filed an order to show cause seeking custody and the return of the children to New Jersey. The judge found plaintiff knew the statute required that he obtain an order permitting the removal before relocating to South Carolina, but he removed the children anyway, because he feared the court might grant defendant's pending motion for overnight visits with the children. After losing the trial, plaintiff sought reconsideration of the order under review, and for the first time, requested a best[-]interests analysis.

A-0681-21 11 We hold—because defendant had objected to the South Carolina move—that N.J.S.A. 9:2-2 required plaintiff to first obtain an order permitting the removal of the children before the actual relocation. The time for the judge to determine whether plaintiff had established "cause" for the removal of the children would have been before the relocation occurred. Requiring the judge to analyze whether "cause" existed after the relocation ignores the unambiguous plain text of the statute, plaintiff's ultimate burden of proof to demonstrate "cause" before the move occurs, and the important Legislative purpose for requiring a showing of cause— that is, to preserve the rights of a noncustodial parent to maintain and develop her familial relationship.

[Id. at 302–03.]

Here, the court found plaintiff credibly believed she had defendant's

consent to move to Baltimore. We defer to that finding and discern no Dever

violation.

Defendant also argues the court erred in failing to attempt to ascertain the

child's wishes. The court found at the time of the plenary hearing "the minor

child was eight . . . years old and not of sufficient age to reason so as to form

such a preference."

Rule 5:8-6 reads in part as follows:

As part of the custody hearing, the court may on its own motion or at the request of a litigant conduct an in camera interview with the child(ren). In the absence of good cause, the decision to conduct an interview shall

A-0681-21 12 be made before trial. If the court elects not to conduct an interview, it shall place its reasons on the record.

[R. 5:8-6.]

The Rule annotation explains "R[ule] 5:8-6 now provides that the judge's

interview with the child is discretionary rather than mandatory irrespective of

the age of the child." Id. at cmt. 1.4.3.

We note neither party asked the court to interview the child and the court

did not see the need to order an interview on its own motion. New Jersey, like

other states,2 permits judges to consider the preference of a child in a custody

case, as long as the child is sufficiently mature. Indeed, based upon our survey

of the practices in other states, many states require the judge to consider a

mature child's opinion. New Jersey, like most states, leaves the decision to

2 California, New Mexico, and West Virginia presume children fourteen and older are sufficiently mature. CAL. FAM. CODE § 3042(c) (West 2022); Stone v. Stone, 443 P.2d 741, 742 (N.M. 1968); W. VA. CODE § 44-10-4(a) (2022). Two states, Indiana and Utah, give extra weight to the opinions of mature children. Holt v. State, 561 N.E.2d 830, 831 (Ind. 1990); UTAH CODE ANN. § 30-3-10(5)(b)(ii) (West 2022). Mississippi, Oklahoma, Tennessee and Texas presume children twelve and older are mature enough to form a preference worth examining. MISS. CODE. ANN. § 93-11- 65(1)(a) (West 2022); OKLA. STAT. tit. 43, § 113(c) (West 2022); TENN. CODE ANN. § 36-6-106(a)(13) (West 2022); TEX. FAM. CODE ANN. § 153.009(a) (West 2022). Georgia law sets the age at eleven. GA. CODE ANN. § 19-9-3 (West 2022). No states require a court to interview a child of eight or presume they are mature enough to testify.

A-0681-21 13 judge's discretion as a factor to consider in the context of N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c). See

Lavene v. Lavene, 148 N.J. Super. 267, 271–72 (App. Div. 1977).

Therefore, it was not a mistaken exercise of discretion for the court to

decline to interview an eight-year-old after its consideration of the relevant

factors in N.J.S.A. 9:2-4(c), given the child was "doing well[,]" was continuing

to see his father consistently every other weekend, and the lack of evidence

presented pointing to the necessity for an interview. In reaching this conclusion,

we do not suggest a court should never interview a young child. Rather, the

court should exercise discretion with appropriate reasoning as it did here.

Because the Family Part judge applied the correct legal standard and

statutory factors, and because his decision is supported by adequate, substantial,

and credible evidence in the record, we see no reason to disturb it.

Affirmed.

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