S.I. v. M.I.

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedApril 2, 2025
DocketA-2641-23
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-2641-23

S.I.,1

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

M.I.,

Defendant-Appellant. ________________________

Argued March 25, 2025 – Decided April 2, 2025

Before Judges Perez Friscia and Bergman.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Morris County, Docket No. FM-14-0735-17.

M.I., appellant, argued the cause pro se.

Boaz I. Cohen (Kramer Levin Naftalis & Frankel, LLP) argued the cause for respondent (Treuhaft & Zakarin, LLP, and Boaz I. Cohen, attorneys; Ira Treuhaft, Boaz

1 We employ initials for the parties and a pseudonym for their daughter, who shares the same initials as defendant, to protect the child's privacy. See R. 1:38- 3(d). I. Cohen, and Jonathan M. Wagner, of the New York bar, admitted pro hac vice, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Defendant M.I. appeals from the April 12, 2024 Family Part order

transferring venue of all future post-judgment applications by plaintiff S.I. or

defendant to Rockland County, New York, pursuant to Rule 4:3-3(a)(4). Having

reviewed the record, the parties' contentions, and the applicable law, we affirm

in part, reverse in part, and remand.

I.

This matter returns to us after we remanded for the trial court to enter an

order enforcing a beit din 2 arbitration award, which required defendant to

provide plaintiff a get. 3 S.I. v. M.I., No. A- 2160-22 (App. Div. Mar. 22, 2024)

(slip op. at 1-16), certif. denied, 258 N.J. 504 (Oct. 3, 2024).

2 A "beit din," also known as beth din or bais din, "is a rabbinical court composed of a minimum of three rabbis." Abdelhak v. Jewish Press Inc., 411 N.J. Super. 211, 219 n.2 (App. Div. 2009). 3 A "get" is a written document, "which is a religious divorce granted by a husband to a wife." Abdelhak, 411 N.J. Super. at 218. "Unless granted a [g]et, an observant Orthodox Jewish woman is not free to marry again" under Jewish law. Ibid.

A-2641-23 2 We incorporate the salient facts and procedural history set forth in our

prior opinion. S.I. v. M.I., slip op. at 1-16. The parties married in December

1984 and share eight children. Their youngest child M.I. (Mira) was born in

March 2004 with significant disabilities. After almost thirty years of marriage,

the parties separated, and plaintiff sought to divorce defendant. On the eve of

trial on May 21, 2019, the parties settled their marital issues and entered a

memorandum of understanding (MOU). Partially for health insurance reasons,

the parties agreed to a divorce from bed and board. The MOU incorporated their

settlement terms regarding custody, child support, alimony, equitable

distribution, and the get.

After our remand, on March 25, 2024, the trial court entered an order

enforcing the arbitration award and directing defendant to "deliver a get to

[p]laintiff immediately." Approximately two weeks later, the court sua sponte

entered an order transferring any further post-judgment proceedings to Rockland

County. The court's order referenced that "[t]he parties previously filed related

proceedings in Rockland County[] and received a disposition regarding

guardianship of their youngest child, M[ira], from the [c]ourt in Rockland

County, which could only have been obtained by M[ira] having been a resident."

The court indicated it had communicated with "the Supervising Judge for

A-2641-23 3 Matrimonial Matters in Rockland County." After conferring with the Rockland

County Supervising Judge, the court determined it would "divest[] jurisdiction

over these parties and their disabled child, M[ira], who ha[d] been a resident of

the State of New York for at least six . . . months."

On appeal, the parties have acknowledged the following facts are largely

undisputed. Mira was born with significant disabilities. Defendant has primary

physical custody and "sole guardianship" of Mira. In 2019, the parties agreed

Mira would relocate with defendant to reside in Rockland County because the

disability services offered there for Mira's needs were superior. Defendant

secured an apartment and moved with Mira to Rockland County, enrolled her

"in a special needs school [in] September 2019," and established her residency.

Plaintiff moved to Rockland County in 2020. The parties also have adult,

married children residing in Rockland County. Defendant conceded his

intention to reside in Rockland County with Mira "until she is accepted into

a . . . group home" and that Mira would "never return[] to New Jersey."

A-2641-23 4 On February 17, 2023, at a motion hearing before the court, the parties

addressed venue.4 Plaintiff argued that defendant "sw[ore] to the [c]ourt in the

[New York] guardianship proceeding that he live[d] in New York." Defendant

acknowledged that the issue of jurisdiction had previously been raised before

the court because the parties reside in New York. He argued that while he

resides in Rockland County, a "difference between residence and domicile"

exists. He posited that venue in Morris County was appropriate because he had:

a home in the county, paid New Jersey property taxes, a New Jersey driver's

license, filed New Jersey tax returns, and maintained relationships in New

Jersey. He also argued plaintiff could not seek a change in venue because she

had disputed venue in a 2023 Rockland County family court matter and

successfully dismissed the action based on defendant's New Jersey residency.

Plaintiff argued Rockland County was the proper venue because defendant

resided in New York, and there had been multiple proceedings between the

4 It is unclear exactly what motions were pending before the court, but the transcript memorializes that the parties argued whether venue should be in Morris County or Rockland County. The court's February 17 order does not address venue. Before the court, the parties acknowledged that: this matter has a long and tortured history; there were matters pending in both Morris County and Rockland County; and there would likely be further applications in these matters.

A-2641-23 5 parties in Rockland County family court. Defendant had obtained a New York

order of protection against plaintiff for visiting Mira at her Rockland County

school, which plaintiff alleged was summarily dismissed. The parties

acknowledged plaintiff had a New York final restraining order (FRO) against

defendant. Further, plaintiff argued New Jersey no longer had jurisdiction over

the parties "since the guardianship proceeding occurred in New York[, and] the

child . . . liv[es] in New York."

The court explained at the motion hearing that because the parties had a

divorce from bed and board, and it was unclear whether New York would accept

such a divorce, venue was proper in Morris County until the court entered a final

judgment of divorce. The court inquired as to the status of the parties' divorce

and stated it could not "put a blanket" ruling that it was "going to retain

jurisdiction indefinitely" in New Jersey because Mira and defendant resided in

New York.

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