S.I. v. M.I.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 22, 2024·No. A-2160-22·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2160-22

S.I.,1 Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. M.I.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Argued March 5, 2024 – Decided March 22, 2024 Before Judges Smith and Perez Friscia.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Morris County, Docket No. FM-14-0735-17.

Ira Treuhaft argued the cause for appellant (Treuhaft & Zakarin, LLP, Boaz I. Cohen (Kramer Levin Naftalis & Frankel LLP), Jonathan M. Wagner (Kramer Levin Naftalis & Frankel LLP) of the New York bar, admitted pro hac vice, and Daria Schieferstein (Kramer Levin Naftalis & Frankel LLP) of the New York bar, admitted pro hac vice, attorneys; Ira Treuhaft, Boaz I. Cohen,

1 We use initials to protect the privacy of the parties.

Jonathan M. Wagner, and Daria Schieferstein, on the briefs).

M.I., respondent, argued the cause pro se.

PER CURIAM Plaintiff S.I. appeals from the February 17, 2023 Family Part order denying her motion to confirm an arbitration award entered after attending binding arbitration pursuant to the parties' memorandum of understanding (MOU). The arbitration award required defendant M.I. to provide plaintiff a get.2 Having reviewed the record, the parties' contentions, and the applicable law, we reverse and remand.

I.

The parties were married in December 1984 and share eight children.

After almost twenty years together, the parties separated. Plaintiff thereafter sought a divorce from defendant. On May 21, 2019, on the eve of trial and after extensive negotiations, the parties appeared before the trial judge advising they had settled their marital issues and entered into an MOU. The parties agreed to a divorce from bed and board, in addition to resolving custody, child support,

2 A "get" is a written document, "which is a religious divorce granted by a husband to a wife." Abdelhak v. Jewish Press Inc., 411 N.J. Super. 211, 218 (App. Div. 2009). "Unless granted a [g]et, an observant Orthodox Jewish woman is not free to marry again" under Jewish law. Ibid.

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alimony, and equitable distribution issues. The MOU also specifically addressed plaintiff's request for a get; provision thirteen stated the parties "both . . . agreed" to attend a "[b]eit [d]in"3 and "both will cooperate." The parties' attendance at a beit din provided plaintiff the opportunity under Jewish rabbinical law to obtain a get from defendant permitting her to remarry.

Before the judge, the parties placed the terms of the MOU on the record and were extensively questioned by counsel confirming their understanding and agreement. The following colloquy regarding the get occurred between defendant and his counsel:

DEFENSE COUNSEL: Both parties agree that they will . . . appear before . . . a beit din . . . and that's on the issue of the get[]. First they will try Rabbi Herbst . . . and if he accepts the parties into his jurisdiction and his beit din, that's great.

If he refuses, they're going to ask him for a recommendation as to another beit din and if he does not give them a recommendation for another beit din, then I will contact Rabbi Baldamelski . . . down in Crown Heights and get the name of a beit din for both to appear before and both will cooperate to appear before that beit din.

....

3 A "beit din," also known as beth din or bais din, "is a rabbinical court composed of a minimum of three rabbis." Abdelhak, 411 N.J. Super. at 219 n.2.

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DEFENSE COUNSEL: Do you believe that under the circumstances, [the MOU is] a fair and reasonable agreement?

DEFENDANT: Yes I do.

DEFENSE COUNSEL: Do you understand what was agreed to?

DEFENDANT: Yes I do.

DEFENSE COUNSEL: Have I been able to answer all your questions about it?

DEFENDANT: Yes you have.

DEFENSE COUNSEL: Did anyone force you to -- you actually signed this, correct, that's your signature on --

DEFENDANT: Right there.

....

DEFENSE COUNSEL: [The MOU] [e]ven includes items like the beit din --

DEFENDANT: Correct.

DEFENSE COUNSEL: . . . and the [get].

DEFENDANT: Correct.

Defendant confirmed his highest level of education was an LL.M. On June 4, 2019, the judge granted the parties a divorce from bed and board incorporating their handwritten MOU.

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After the parties began the arbitration process, in a letter dated December 3, 2019, Rabbi Herbst advised that he was "unable to do anything" and would not see the parties "until [defendant] g[ave] . . . [the parties' daughter] to a group home." The parties did not return to complete the get arbitration with Rabbi Herbst.4 Plaintiff moved to compel defendant to attend arbitration in accordance with the MOU, which was granted. Defendant had previously signed an arbitration agreement with Rabbi Duvid Twersky on April 26, 2021, and plaintiff thereafter signed on December 29 while the motion was pending. On January 3, 2022, after argument, a different judge ordered that the parties attend arbitration with Rabbi Twersky, "sign the standard arbitration agreement," and abide by Rabbi Twersky's ruling. Defendant did not appeal the judge's order enforcing the parties' agreement to attend binding arbitration.

Thereafter, in his January 25, 2022 email to plaintiff's counsel, defendant confirmed he had "already signed" the arbitration agreement with Rabbi Twersky. Defendant asserted he always "accepted [Rabbi Twersky], his bei[t] din and his protocol. [Plaintiff] had refused to accept him, his bei[t] din and his protocol for [two] years." The parties' signed "AGREEMENT TO SUBMIT TO

4 The parties acknowledged at argument that Rabbi Herbst had passed away.

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ARBITRATION" provided they "agree[d] to submit to binding arbitration . . . [to] be conducted under the auspices of Rabbi . . . Twersky" who could "decide if he s[aw] fit at any time to arrange for a [beit din] of three [r]abbis of his choice to adjudicate the controversies." Further, the agreement provided the arbitration shall "commence" and "continue until a final award is made."

On August 22, 2022, after multiple sessions with the parties, Rabbi Twersky issued his arbitration decision directing defendant to provide plaintiff a get. The written decision provided:

[T]hey signed an arbitration agreement to litigate before me. They also accepted my authority to deal with their marital harmony. I held ten sessions with them, of one hour each, for a total of ten hours, and after hearing their words and examining the nature of relations between them from all the angles I see no opportunity for blessing to come to them, and I am therefore forced to express my opinion that as far as I can see it is clear that there is no prospect of restoring peace between them and it is not at all possible for them to live together. In order to preserve and spare their dignity I shall not go into details here . . . at any rate it is an argument in favor of a finding that in such circumstances they have a duty to divorce.

. . . [T]he aforementioned legal authorities are of the opinion that the parties must divorce each other, and especially in the current case, where according to these authorities the husband is required to divorce his wife.

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....

. . . I have also presented the content of the matter last night before the world-renowned genius Rabbi Menachem Mendel haCohen Shafran and he approved it, and even said that you may be told in his name that you should certainly present your opinion and conclusions before the [civil court] judge. To which I affix my signature on Monday Menachem-Av 25, 5782 [Aug-22-2022] [signature] Rabbi Tzvi Gertner

After receiving the ruling, however, defendant refused to provide plaintiff the get.

On November 4, 2022, plaintiff moved to confirm the arbitration award.

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