Sheikh v. Haji

2011 ME 117, 32 A.3d 1065, 2011 Me. LEXIS 115
CourtSupreme Judicial Court of Maine
DecidedNovember 29, 2011
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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Bluebook
Sheikh v. Haji, 2011 ME 117, 32 A.3d 1065, 2011 Me. LEXIS 115 (Me. 2011).

Opinion

JABAR, J.

[¶ 1] Haji Haji appeals from a judgment of parental rights and responsibilities entered in District Court (Lewiston, Lawrence, J.). Haji contends that the court erred in awarding Habibo Sheikh primary residence and final decision-making authority for their three minor children and erred in imputing income to him for the purpose of establishing a weekly child support order. We affirm the judgment.

I. BACKGROUND

[¶ 2] Both Habibo Sheikh and Haji Haji were born in Somalia and immigrated to the United States in 2004 and 2005, respectively. They participated in a marriage ceremony performed by an Imam, according to Muslim tradition, in Hartford, Connecticut in August 2005. Habibo and Haji are the parents of three minor children.

[¶ 3] Habibo filed a complaint for divorce against Haji on September 11, 2009. The Court held three days of trial proceedings on September 8, 2010, January 5, 2011, and January 7, 2011. During the September 2010 trial proceeding, the court learned for the first time that although Habibo and Haji had been married according to their religious tradition in Connecticut, they had at no point obtained a legally enforceable marriage license. The parties and the court agreed that the complaint for divorce would be converted into a petition to determine parental rights and responsibilities. On the second day of trial, January 5, 2011, Haji moved without objection to include the youngest child, who had been born after Habibo had filed her September 2009 complaint for divorce, in the parental rights determination. The court issued its Judgment of Parental Rights and Responsibilities on February 3, 2011. The defendant filed a timely M.R. Civ. P. 52(b) motion for additional findings of fact and conclusions of law on February 11, 2011. The court summarily denied the motion on February 16, 2011. See M.R.App. P. 2(b)(3). Haji’s timely appeal followed.

[¶ 4] Throughout the trial proceedings, the court faced a difficult task of navigating through language barriers and significant cultural differences among the parties and their witnesses. Habibo and her family are part of and supported by the Maay Maay-speaking segment of the Somali community, while Haji is part of and supported by the Bantu-speaking segment of the Somali community. The proceedings required the use of no fewer than three translators to interpret testimonial submissions of eleven witnesses into the two dialects for the benefit of the parties, and into English for the benefit of counsel and the court.

[¶ 5] The testimony of all the witnesses established that after their August 2005 marriage ceremony, Habibo and Haji lived together in Hartford, Connecticut for nine months until May 2006, when Habibo moved with her parents, Jabril Abdi and Khadijo Ali, to Lewiston, Maine. The couple’s first child, Safiya, was born in June 2006 shortly after Habibo moved to Lewi-ston. Haji left his position at a manufacturing plant in Connecticut and followed Habibo to Maine approximately nine months later in February 2007. The couple initially resided with Habibo’s parents at a residence on Shawmut Street in Lewi-ston before Haji was able to secure housing at an apartment on Knox Street.

[¶ 6] The court found that while Habi-bo and Haji were living together, Haji physically abused Habibo and their oldest daughter, Safiya. In December 2007, after an incident in which he allegedly kicked Habibo in the stomach while she was pregnant with the couple’s second daughter, Haji was arrested, charged with assault, and prohibited from contact with Habibo [1068]*1068and the oldest daughter for a period of five months.1 Although the assault charge was later dismissed, Habibo testified that the couple’s oldest daughter, Safiya, had witnessed this abuse. Based on Habibo’s testimony, the court also found that Haji had beaten her with an electrical cord and had assaulted Safiya on two occasions, although the dates of these incidents were unspecified.

[¶ 7] Haji maintained that while he and Habibo were living together at the Knox Street residence, he performed most, if not all, of the child rearing duties. Haji testified that Habibo was incapable of caring for the children on her own. As part of what became a pivotal inquiry in the litigation, the court found that Habibo suffered from “cognitive issues that at minimum may include a significant learning disability.” This finding was corroborated by Ha-bibo’s own trial testimony, which indicated that she could not read or write in Somali or English and had significant problems understanding basic math and calculating the ages of her children. In the summer of 2006, Habibo submitted documentation to the Social Security Administration that ultimately qualified her to receive Federal Supplemental Security Income benefits on account of an “organic mental disorder.”2

[¶ 8] In the summer of 2009, taking her two daughters with her, Habibo moved back in with her parents. Shortly before the filing of the complaint for divorce, Habibo filed a complaint for protection from abuse (PFA) on August 12, 2009, and the court granted a consent order on August 28, 2009. According to the terms of an April 2010 amendment to the August 2009 consent order, the two daughters were to live with Habibo four days a week and with Haji three days a week.

[¶ 9] Haji and Habibo both testified at trial that they felt it was important for the other parent to have a relationship with the children. During the time of the parties’ separation, following the August 2009 PFA, the parties successfully worked together, with the help of their respective support groups in the Somali community, to perform their parenting obligations under the amended consent order. By the second day of trial, on January 5, 2011, Haji and Habibo had successfully worked together to enroll Safiya in school. Haji put on evidence, largely through his own testimony and the testimony of a Bantu community elder, establishing that he was a good father and was able to consistently attend to the needs of his children. The record establishes, and the court found, that Habibo received consistent and substantial support from her family in caring for the children.

[¶ 10] The District Court’s February 2011 judgment ultimately established “parallel, but not fully shared, parental rights and responsibilities.” The court awarded [1069]*1069Habibo primary residential care of the children “provided she continues to reside ... in the same apartment building as her parents and siblings,” and awarded her “the right to make final binding decisions” to the extent there was disagreement between her and Haji. The court ordered that Haji be kept “fully informed,” in advance, as to all significant decisions involving the children and afforded the opportunity to comment. As part of recognizing the significant cultural divide among the parties, the court incorporated into its judgment a dispute resolution component that embraced the values of both the Maay Maay and Bantu segments of the Somali community. To the extent the parties remained in a deadlock on any decision regarding the children, the court ordered Habibo, before exercising final decision-making authority, to make an effort to mediate the disagreement with the assistance of both Maay Maay and Bantu community elders through Youth Alternatives Ingraham Mediation Services. The court allocated to Haji reasonable rights of contact that, at minimum, consisted of caring for the two oldest children from Monday morning through Thursday morning of every week.

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