Shawn Paul Haren v. Nicole Frances Haren

• Court: Court of Appeals of Minnesota
• Decided: April 6, 2026
• Docket: a251394
• Status: Unpublished

Opinion

This opinion is nonprecedential except as provided by Minn. R. Civ. App. P. 136.01, subd. 1(c).

STATE OF MINNESOTA IN COURT OF APPEALS A25-1394

Shawn Paul Haren, Respondent,

vs.

Nicole Frances Haren, Appellant.

Filed April 6, 2026 Affirmed Ross, Judge

Olmsted County District Court File No. 55-CV-25-3032

Shawn Paul Haren, Mesa, Arizona (self-represented respondent)

Brian A. Gravely, Meagher + Geer, P.L.L.P., Minneapolis, Minnesota (for appellant)

Considered and decided by Ross, Presiding Judge; Bratvold, Judge; and Cleary,

Judge. ∗

NONPRECEDENTIAL OPINION

ROSS, Judge

Shawn Haren sued his former wife, Nicole Haren (now Nicole Kopsell), alleging

breach of contract and unjust enrichment premised on her failure to reimburse him for the

loan that he obtained to cover deferred mortgage payments on their marital home while

∗ Retired judge of the Minnesota Court of Appeals, serving by appointment pursuant to Minn. Const. art. VI, § 10. Kopsell continued living in the home pending its refinancing in her name. The district court

entered summary judgment favoring Haren based on the undisputed evidence that a

postdivorce agreement allowed Kopsell to remain in the home while Haren made ongoing

mortgage payments, that his mortgage-payment obligation was deferred under a pandemic-

related federal loan program that made the payments on Haren’s behalf, and that, when

Kopsell eventually refinanced the home in her name, she knowingly failed to include the

amount of debt that Haren incurred under the federal program and failed to reimburse him

for that debt. Because Kopsell argues uncompellingly on appeal that the district court

lacked subject-matter jurisdiction to decide the suit, that the district court should not have

considered summary judgment without first requiring the parties to engage in negotiated

or mediated settlement efforts, and that the district court failed in its duty to adequately

assist Kopsell as an unrepresented party, we affirm.

FACTS

Nicole Kopsell and Shawn Haren divorced in 2019 under a joint dissolution petition

that included a property-division provision with terms about the disposition of their marital

home. The stipulation provided that the “[r]eal [e]state [p]roperty is currently listed for sale

through ReMax. Mortgage on this property will be paid by [Haren] until sale of property

is concluded. [Kopsell] will occupy property until sale of property has concluded.” The

provision did not state how the parties intended to distribute sale proceeds, but the record

indicates that the parties contemplated that proceeds were to be divided between them.

After the divorce but before any sale, Kopsell decided that she wanted instead to

keep the home rather than sell it, refinance it in her name, and remove Haren from any

2 existing loan obligation secured by the mortgage. Haren accommodated Kopsell’s desire

to keep the home by agreeing to make the monthly mortgage payments until she obtained

refinancing, and Kopsell in turn agreed to repay Haren for those ongoing mortgage

payments.

Kopsell continued to reside in the home, and Haren continued to make the monthly

payments until the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, when the federal government offered

a payment-deferral program. Under that program, the government would make mortgage

payments during the deferral period on behalf of a qualifying homeowner who, in

exchange, would execute a promissory note to the federal program to cover the cost of the

payments made on the homeowner’s behalf.

Haren participated in the deferral program for a period that expired in August 2021,

resulting in his incurring a debt of $21,600.90. Kopsell was aware of Haren’s debt and

promised to include that amount in her request for refinancing so that Haren was repaid

both for the money he expended directly and for the debt he incurred to maintain the

mortgage payments. Kopsell finally obtained refinancing in April 2022. She then assured

Haren, falsely, that she had included the $21,600.90 deferral amount in her refinancing.

She never repaid Haren to cover his obligation on his promissory note to the government.

Haren sued Kopsell for her failure to include the promissory-note amount in her

refinancing or to reimburse him for that debt, alleging breach of contract and unjust

enrichment. Kopsell failed to answer the complaint, and Haren moved the district court to

enter summary judgment in his favor.

3 Kopsell appeared at the summary-judgment hearing without legal counsel, saying

that she had received “the letters and forms from the lawyer” but was not aware she had to

file anything in response. The district court observed that Kopsell had been properly served,

that she had failed to file an answer to the civil complaint, and that she had failed to respond

to the summary-judgment motion. When Kopsell asked whether she was “allowed to get a

lawyer and fight this,” the district court answered, “The time to do that, Ms. Kopsell, was

before today.” The district court granted summary judgment favoring Haren based on the

facts just recounted.

Kopsell appeals.

DECISION

Kopsell raises three arguments on appeal. She argues first that the district court

lacked subject-matter jurisdiction to modify the property division established in the

dissolution decree. She argues second that the district court should not have considered

summary judgment without first requiring the parties to engage in negotiated or mediated

settlement efforts. And she argues third that the district court improperly granted summary

judgment without sua sponte granting a continuance for her to obtain legal counsel. For

the following reasons, none of her arguments convinces us to reverse.

I

Kopsell contends that the district court lacked jurisdiction to rule on the parties’

postdivorce agreement because the court’s decision improperly modified the final

dissolution decree. We review de novo challenges to the district court’s subject-matter

jurisdiction. County of Washington v. City of Oak Park Heights, 818 N.W.2d 533, 538

4 (Minn. 2012). It is true that the district court’s jurisdiction over a divorce “is purely

statutory” and that its power extends no further than that which is statutorily delegated.

Kienlen v. Kienlen, 34 N.W.2d 351, 354 (Minn. 1948); see also Gannon v. Gannon, 102

N.W.2d 677, 679 (Minn. 1960). And a district court has limited authority to modify a final

dissolution decree after judgment is entered. See Shirk v. Shirk, 561 N.W.2d 519, 522

(Minn. 1997). The sole avenue available to a party seeking judicial modification of a

property division in an otherwise final dissolution decree is a motion to reopen the decree

under Minnesota Statutes section 518.145, subdivision 2 (2024). Id. A district court

attempting to modify a decree’s property-division provision without reopening the decree

is “without jurisdiction” to do so. Stolp v. Stolp, 383 N.W.2d 409, 411 (Minn. App. 1986).

On these jurisdictional foundations, Kopsell builds her case that the district court lacked

jurisdiction, arguing that its summary-judgment decision effectively modified the

dissolution decree.

Kopsell’s jurisdiction argument fails. Although the district court could not modify

the decree’s property division itself, these jurisdictional limits on its authority do nothing

to prevent the divorced parties from entering into a new agreement about the disposition of

the home. That their postdissolution agreement concerned a home that had been part of the

property division in their dissolution decree is merely an incident establishing a factual

circumstance underlying their agreement. A postdissolution agreement between parties that

modifies only a decree’s property-division requirements is “essentially a debtor-creditor

matter which does not require continuing family court jurisdiction[.]” Nelson v. Quade,

413 N.W.2d 824, 828 (Minn. App. 1987), rev. denied (Minn. Dec. 22, 1987). The

5 enforceability of the agreement about the property becomes simply a matter of “whether

all necessary elements of a contract are satisfied.” Id. The undisputed facts here established

that they were, under the terms we have already summarized. Kopsell’s contention that the

district court’s enforcement of the parties’ postdivorce agreement was invalid fails as a

matter of law. The district court did not lack jurisdiction over the action overall or over the

summary-judgment dispute.

II

Kopsell next contends that the district court should not have decided summary

judgment without first requiring the parties to engage in negotiated or mediated settlement

efforts. She specifically contends that the parties should have pursued alternative dispute

resolution (ADR) before resorting to litigation under either rule 114.01 or 310.01 of the

Minnesota General Rules of Practice, which require parties to engage in ADR in civil cases

(rule 114.01) and family-law cases (rule 310.01). She relatedly argues that Haren should

not have filed his summary-judgment motion before satisfying meet-and-confer

requirements of general-practice rules 303.03(c) and 115.10, each of which requires parties

to either confer regarding settlement or certify as to their efforts of doing so before filing a

motion.

We choose not to address these arguments. We generally do not consider issues

raised for the first time on appeal. Thiele v. Stich, 425 N.W.2d 580, 582 (Minn. 1988).

Kopsell did not raise these alleged procedural concerns before the district court and has

lost the opportunity to raise them on appeal. We add that the district court enjoys discretion

in its application of the general-practice rules, and Kopsell cites no authority supporting

6 the proposition that the district court abuses its discretion by failing to strictly apply their

ADR provisions. See Minn. Stat. § 484.33 (2024); Pfeiffer ex rel. Pfeiffer v. Allina Health

Sys., 851 N.W.2d 626, 636 n.7 (Minn. App. 2014), rev. denied (Minn. Oct. 14, 2014).

Although for these reasons we doubt Kopsell’s argument would prevail on the merits, we

reject the argument as forfeited.

III

Kopsell argues last that the district court should have sua sponte granted her a

continuance to allow her time to hire an attorney to oppose Haren’s summary-judgment

motion. She recognizes that she never expressly sought a continuance but contends that the

district court should have treated her inquiry (“am I allowed to get a lawyer and fight this”)

as a motion for a continuance. She bases her contention on her assertion that the district

court had a “heightened responsibility” to assist her as an unrepresented litigant. It is true

that “some accommodations may be made for pro se litigants,” but we have nevertheless

“repeatedly emphasized that pro se litigants are generally held to the same standards as

attorneys[.]” Fitzgerald v. Fitzgerald, 629 N.W.2d 115, 119 (Minn. App. 2001). We

understand that some district court judges might, in their discretion, have construed

Kopsell’s words liberally and treated them as a request for a continuance, or perhaps

inquired further as to whether she was asking for one. But we are aware of no authority

establishing that the district court was bound to treat Kopsell’s question as a motion to

continue, and we decline to hold that it was.

And even treating the district court’s response to Kopsell’s statement as a decision

declining to grant a continuance, we uphold the decision. We review the district court’s

7 denial of a continuance motion for an abuse of discretion. Dunshee v. Douglas, 255 N.W.2d

42, 45 (Minn. 1977). Kopsell cites two cases in support of her contention that the denial

here was an abuse of discretion, Weise v. Commissioner of Public Safety, 370 N.W.2d 676

(Minn. App. 1985) and Kasson State Bank v. Haugen, 410 N.W.2d 392 (Minn. App. 1987).

Both involve materially different circumstances. In Weise, we held that the district court

abused its discretion by denying an appellant’s request for a continuance to allow time to

procure necessary witnesses, despite believing that the appellant had never received the

notice that triggered the requirement to bring forth those witnesses. 370 N.W.2d at 677–

78. In Kasson, we likewise held that a district court abused its discretion by denying a

continuance to allow an unrepresented litigant time to hire a lawyer, despite the fact that

the litigant had no knowledge of the ongoing legal proceeding until a day before the

hearing. 410 N.W.2d at 395. In both cases, the party requesting a continuance had little or

no notice of the matter at hand. In this case, by contrast, the record establishes substantial

notice that alerted Kopsell first that she had been sued and second that Haren was seeking

summary judgment on his claims. Haren’s duly served summons dated February 14, 2025,

informed Kopsell in bold print, “YOU ARE BEING SUED,” “YOU MUST REPLY

WITHIN 21 DAYS TO PROTECT YOUR RIGHTS,” and “YOU WILL LOSE YOUR

CASE IF YOU DO NOT SEND A WRITTEN RESPONSE . . . .” Kopsell filed no answer

to the complaint. Then Haren’s duly served notice of motion and motion dated May 8,

2025, informed Kopsell that he was bringing a motion for summary judgment to be heard

in July 2025, followed by his duly served supporting memorandum of law and other

documents dated June 8, 2025, detailing his claim for judgment. By the time of the

8 summary-judgment hearing, almost five months had passed since the lawsuit commenced

and two months had passed since Kopsell became aware of Haren’s motion, affording her

plenty of time to have either secured counsel or timely requested a continuance to mount a

defense. Under these circumstances, we cannot conclude that the district court acted

outside its discretion by denying Kopsell’s purportedly implied motion to continue.

Affirmed.