Shamitra Lefebvre v. Jared Lefebvre

Supreme Court of Vermont·Decided August 21, 2026·No. 25-AP-373·Unpublished

Opinion

VERMONT SUPREME COURT Case No. 25-AP-373 109 State Street Montpelier VT 05609-0801 802-828-4774 www.vermontjudiciary.org

Note: In the case title, an asterisk (*) indicates an appellant and a double asterisk (**) indicates a crossappellant . Decisions of a three-justice panel are not to be considered as precedent before any tribunal.

ENTRY ORDER

AUGUST TERM, 2026

Shamitra Lefebvre* v. Jared Lefebvre } APPEALED FROM:

} Superior Court, Orleans Unit, } Family Division } CASE NO. 23-DM-00078 Trial Judge: Justin P. Jiron

In the above-entitled cause, the Clerk will enter:

Mother appeals from the family court’s final divorce order. She challenges the court’s parent-child contact (PCC) schedule. We affirm.

I. Procedural History

A. Merits Decision

The parties married in 2013 and separated in 2023. They are the parents of a daughter, born in 2013. Mother has two other children; father has one other child. The parties stipulated to the division of marital property and agreed that mother should have primary legal and physical parental rights and responsibilities for daughter. The sole contested issue was PCC.

Following a July 2025 hearing, the court set forth a PCC schedule. It made numerous findings, including the following. The parties have a history of conflict. Mother described abuse by father that occurred in daughter’s presence or earshot. Mother alleged that father engaged in marital rape and that he repeatedly exhibited rage toward her and daughter, which included screaming and breaking things. Mother asserted that father struck her on more than one occasion.

Mother obtained a relief-from-abuse (RFA) order against father in 2019. This order allowed father to have supervised contact with daughter at least once a week. The parties reunited, and the RFA was vacated at mother’s request. Mother sought a second RFA order in January 2023. She obtained a temporary order but continued to have contact with father. This order was also vacated at mother’s request. Mother sought a third RFA order in February 2023. The court

granted mother’s request in March 2023 for one year, and the order was later extended for another year. The parties waived factual findings in all these orders. The third RFA order was extended for a second time in March 2025. Father did not testify at the hearing on the extension request. Based on mother’s testimony at that hearing, the court found in the RFA extension order that father caused mother physical harm and sexually assaulted her.

At the final divorce hearing, the court rejected mother’s attempt to introduce a complaint and affidavit she filed in the 2019 RFA case to establish, as a matter of fact, what the parties’ “lived experience” had been and what daughter had “been exposed to . . . for multiple years.” The court agreed with father that these documents were inadmissible hearsay because mother offered them to establish that the alleged events occurred. The court noted that mother was free to testify about what occurred, which mother did. The RFA orders were admitted as exhibits without objection. Father’s counsel emphasized that he had agreed to final RFA orders with the findings waived and that he later waived the opportunity to testify at the 2025 RFA extension hearing given pending criminal cases. The court noted that it was not considering testimony from other hearings in deciding the case before it.

In its written order in the instant case, the court explained that the RFA hearing and final divorce hearing were for different purposes and father did not testify at the RFA extension hearing.1 The court did not find that mother presented sufficient evidence at the divorce hearing to support her allegations that father sexually or physically abused her. It found that father yelled at mother more than once in daughter’s presence and that this behavior was likely emotionally upsetting for the child, who would sometimes suck her thumb or hold a blanket as a coping mechanism. This behavior decreased after father moved out in 2023, but it increased more recently.

The court found that mother began looking for a therapist for daughter in 2025. At the time of the final divorce hearing, the child completed four therapy sessions. The court recounted in detail the therapist’s interaction with the child and her assessment. The child did not report being physically harmed by father or observing father abuse mother.

Father’s visits with daughter in the eighteen months leading to the final divorce hearing were overwhelmingly positive. The child displayed affection toward father; she was outgoing, talkative, and engaged. They participated in activities together, and the visit supervisor did not observe that the child was anxious, fearful, or nervous during the visits.

Mother sought a PCC schedule that included a lengthy transition period from supervised to unsupervised visits. Father proposed a brief transition period. He sought immediate overnight visits on the weekend for four weeks, following which he would have PCC every other weekend.

1 In its decision, the court found that father had a pending sexual-assault charge for acts committed against mother at the time of the 2025 RFA extension hearing and that that charge was later dismissed based on mother’s refusal to testify. In ruling on mother’s motion to reconsider, the court clarified that the charge against father had in fact been dismissed at the time of this RFA hearing. It added, however, that the dismissal was without prejudice and was based specifically on mother’s refusal to testify. The court found that both of those things provided father with a motive not to testify at the RFA hearing.

Father sought to share summer vacations evenly and have additional time with daughter during other school vacations.

Father described his relationship with daughter during the time he lived with the family as very close. He testified to various activities that he and daughter engaged in together. Father reported that daughter got along well with his other child. There was a separate bedroom in father’s home where daughter could stay during visits. Father worked full-time and had the same job for thirty years. Mother was unemployed. She did some traveling as an “influencer,” which required father to care for daughter in her absence. Mother also attended yoga frequently and was comfortable leaving daughter with father during these sessions.

Based on these and other findings, the court considered the statutory best-interests factors, including whether there was evidence of abuse and the impact of the abuse on the child and the abusing parent. The court found that father had yelled at mother in daughter’s presence, which caused daughter fear and anxiety. This had likely damaged father and daughter’s relationship, and daughter had expressed hesitation and fear about beginning unsupervised contact with father. The court found this tempered, however, by the entirely positive interactions the parties had during visitation. The court was not convinced that unsupervised visits and a transition to overnight visits would be emotionally damaging to daughter. It concluded that increased contact between father and daughter was in daughter’s best interests. It reiterated that daughter had positive visits with father over the prior eighteen months. Mother only recently, and possibly in anticipation of the final hearing, attempted to obtain counseling for daughter. If daughter was experiencing significant emotional issues after father moved out, the court would have expected a more timely effort to obtain counseling for her. Notwithstanding the unexplained delay, the court expected that counseling would be helpful to daughter as she transitioned to increased contact with father.

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