S.G. v. D.R.M.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided September 20, 2024·No. A-3884-22·Unpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3884-22

S.G., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. D.R.M.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Argued March 20, 2024 – Decided September 20, 2024 Before Judges Gummer and Walcott-Henderson.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Gloucester County, Docket No. FV-08-1277-23.

Robert M. Bernardo argued the cause for appellant (South Jersey Legal Services, Inc., attorneys; Robert M. Bernardo, Cheryl Turk Waraas and Kenneth M.

Goldman, on the brief).

Respondent has not filed a brief.

The opinion of the court was delivered by WALCOTT-HENDERSON, J.S.C. (temporarily assigned).

Plaintiff S.G.1 appeals from an April 24, 2023 order dismissing her application for a final restraining order (FRO) against her former paramour, pro se defendant D.R.M., finding that although plaintiff established defendant had committed predicate acts of domestic violence, plaintiff had failed to demonstrate an FRO was required because she was in immediate danger or the FRO was necessary to prevent further abuse. See generally Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 128 (2006) (providing standard for issuance of an FRO under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35). Plaintiff also appeals from a July 28, 2023 order denying her motion for reconsideration. Defendant did not submit a brief on appeal. We reverse.

Plaintiff and defendant dated for approximately seven months. They did not reside together and had no children or property in common. Intending to celebrate her admission to a graduate school, plaintiff picked up defendant from the motel room where he had been living at the time. Plaintiff brought defendant to her home where they celebrated by consuming alcohol and listening to music in the living room. Defendant later assaulted plaintiff, causing her physical injuries.

1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the parties pursuant to Rule 1:38-3(d)(3).

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The day after the hours-long brutal assault, plaintiff applied for a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant, alleging, among other things, defendant had grabbed her by the neck several times and had covered her nose and mouth. Plaintiff also alleged that defendant had threatened to kill her multiple times, had pulled her off the bed onto the floor and then thrown her back on the bed, ripped her wig off, and pulled at her hair. Plaintiff alleged that she was naked for the entire time and that after about four hours, defendant demanded that she take him home to the motel. Plaintiff alleged that the assault continued while defendant was in her car. Plaintiff further alleged defendant excessively and obsessively called her. The TRO was granted on March 9, 2023.

On March 22, 2023, plaintiff amended her complaint seeking the restraining order. Plaintiff's amended complaint contained additional details about the assault, including that defendant had: whipped plaintiff with a string of lights; strangled her; lifted and thrown her by the neck onto the bed, causing her neck to crack; pinned her to the bed, gripping her hair and hitting her head up and down from the bed; licked all over her face; and pried her eyes open and blew aggressively into them. Plaintiff also alleged that she had lost

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consciousness several times as a result of the strangling. Plaintiff certified that the information she included in the original and amended complaints was true.

On April 24, 2023, plaintiff and defendant testified before the Family Part judge during their FRO hearing. Plaintiff testified that when they arrived at her home, they "sat at the table for a little bit . . . opened up [their] drinks, and [] were just talking," hanging out and drinking. At some point, however, defendant began to question plaintiff about her male friends, asking when she had last contacted one of them. Plaintiff testified that when she told defendant she had wished the unidentified male friend "happy birthday" one month prior, defendant "got really mad . . . . [a]nd [] tried to snatch [her] phone," before taking the phone and searching through it. Defendant called one of the male contacts from plaintiff's phone, but plaintiff disconnected the call. The parties then consumed additional alcohol.

Plaintiff further testified that she went to the bedroom, changed into an "intimate outfit," and invited defendant into the bedroom where they began "to engage in sexual contact," but then defendant stopped and instead began an hours-long attack, physically assaulting her while she was naked.

Plaintiff explained that defendant had struck her about the face and body, pinned her to the floor and strangled her, covering her mouth, and

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holding and squeezing her neck. Defendant threatened plaintiff that he was going to kill her. When she was able to get up and retreat into the bathroom, defendant followed her and sprayed water in her face. He ripped her hair piece from her head, causing hair loss, and asked her "why do you have this on?" Plaintiff further testified that when she eventually got out of the bathroom, defendant barricaded her in the bedroom with him, where he tossed plaintiff from the floor to the bed and banged her head against the bed, whipped her with decorative string lights while she was on the floor, and pried open her eyes and blew into them aggressively. Plaintiff identified photographs she had taken the morning after the brutal assault, depicting red marks on her neck, swelling to her face, bruises and rug burns on her arms, and marks on her torso that had been caused by the string lights defendant had used to whip her. Plaintiff also identified a photograph depicting the broken sink in her bathroom, which she alleged defendant had damaged during the assault which took place in the bathroom. The photographs were admitted into evidence.

On cross-examination, plaintiff recalled that the only thing she remembered defendant saying was that he was going to kill her and that she needed to answer his questions about the phone—and her contact with another

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man—and that she believed she had answered those questions, "but he [had] said [she] didn't."

The ongoing and varied assaults in the bedroom and bathroom lasted for close to five hours until defendant asked plaintiff to take him home. Plaintiff believes she lost consciousness—maybe more than once—during the lengthy time defendant had barricaded her in the bedroom with him.

Hours after the assault began, defendant asked plaintiff to take him back to the motel, and she agreed. Plaintiff testified that as she was getting into the driver's seat of her vehicle to drive defendant to the motel, defendant pulled her out and climbed over the driver's seat before sitting in the passenger seat Plaintiff drove defendant back to the motel. When they arrived, defendant refused to get out of the car. For about another hour in the car, defendant shouted at her and grabbed her. Defendant took plaintiff's glasses from her, squeezing them until a lens popped out, and punched the car ceiling and dashboard, ripping the skin on his knuckles and leaving blood marks on the ceiling. Defendant eventually exited the car.

Plaintiff testified that she went to the hospital the next day. Plaintiff had taken photographs of her injuries which were admitted in evidence at the FRO hearing. Plaintiff testified that she was "fearful of the future and [her] life, if

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[defendant] would have contact with [her]." She noted "the threat that he made" to kill her, claiming she felt "that his actions [we]re unpredictable." She also expressed concern for her "small children."

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