Setele v. Setele CA3

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedFebruary 29, 2024
DocketC098241
StatusUnpublished

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Filed 2/29/24 Setele v. Setele CA3 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED California Rules of Court, rule 8.1115(a), prohibits courts and parties from citing or relying on opinions not certified for publication or ordered published, except as specified by rule 8.1115(b). This opinion has not been certified for publication or ordered published for purposes of rule 8.1115.

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA THIRD APPELLATE DISTRICT (El Dorado) ----

SERAIAH SETELE, C098241

Plaintiff and Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. PFL20200060)

v.

MICHAEL SETELE,

Defendant and Respondent.

Petitioner Seraiah Setele requested a domestic violence restraining order against her husband, respondent Michael Setele. After a hearing, the trial court denied the request. On appeal, petitioner contends the trial court violated the Domestic Violence Prevention Act (Fam. Code,1 § 6200 et seq.) (Act) by: (1) applying the incorrect standard for considering abuse; (2) considering statements from their minor child’s counsel;

1 Undesignated section references are to the Family Code.

1 (3) not providing a statement of decision; and (4) not providing petitioner additional assistance. We affirm. FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND Petitioner filed for dissolution of her marriage to respondent in January 2020. Later that year, the parties signed a stipulation where petitioner agreed to dismiss a prior request for a domestic violence restraining order and the parties agreed to a custody arrangement for their minor child, among other terms. The agreement was to expire on September 15, 2022. On August 31, 2022, petitioner filed another request for a domestic violence restraining order against respondent. The petition alleged respondent abused petitioner “at least 26 times a month” starting in January 2022 where respondent would disparage and harass her in front of their child when they would exchange him for visits in a sheriff’s parking lot. Petitioner also attached transcripts she prepared of audio and video she recorded between her and respondent during these custody exchanges and other prior events, described the couple’s history and her past allegations of respondent’s abuse leading to the stipulation, and provided a declaration from the child’s nanny stating respondent made her feel “uncomfortable during visitation exchanges.” The petition also requested custody modifications. On September 2 and 15, 2022, the trial court granted petitioner an ex parte temporary restraining order against respondent, modified visitation, and set a hearing for later that month. Respondent filed a response before the hearing denying petitioner’s accusations and alleging petitioner “has constantly lied to the court and abused and harassed [him]self and [their] son” and was only requesting the restraining order because she heard the child “say that he wanted to stay with his daddy.” At the hearing for the restraining order and visitation, where both parties appeared in propria persona, the trial court initially noted, “I’ve read everything you’ve submitted.

2 . . . I don’t want to hear anything about what you already have in the paperwork . . . . Don’t go into the complete history of the case. . . . I’ve gone through some of the history of the paperwork, although the amount of paperwork in this case is almost overwhelming that is in the file, so I haven’t read everything, believe me.” It also noted a child custody hearing would occur the following month so the visitation order would “only cover the time between [then] and the trial. It’s only meant to cover whatever ha[d] occurred recently.” Petitioner then explained, “[T]he . . . child is disabled and is literally disrupted by these incidents of what I am told is called secondary trauma being exposed to the constant tax of those visitation exchanges and the stress it puts me through.” The trial court asked whether she had anything further and clarified, “What I asked you to do was tell me anything that you think I need to know about this event, not past history, that you have not included in your declaration.” Petitioner stated respondent had not had supervised visits as the court required in the ex parte order. Respondent said he was not aware of the modified visitation order, communicates with petitioner only through text messages, meets her only in the sheriff’s parking lot when they are exchanging the child, and added: “I just want to say to the [c]ourt I have not harassed her. I believe if these videos have been viewed, then this decision of supervised visits wouldn’t have been made.” Petitioner then asked the trial court if she could play the videos she recorded. The trial court did not acknowledge the request and instead asked petitioner if she had anything else to add. Petitioner reiterated she didn’t feel safe at the visitation exchanges. The court asked what about the exchanges made her feel unsafe and what might happen in the sheriff’s parking lot. Petitioner started explaining how respondent drives slowly, takes videos of her, laughs, and his “behavior is odd.” The court interrupted her and asked what harm she thinks will come to her. She explained, “He may have a gun. He’s previously told me that if I spoke up, if I went to the police, if I tried to leave him, that I

3 don’t want to know what he’s going to do to me.” The court asked when the last time was that he made such a threat and petitioner responded, “[B]efore I received the restraining order in August of 2020 and was able to move out.” The trial court then asked the child’s counsel if she had any comments. The child’s counsel responded, “A restraining order was not granted to [petitioner]. She’s made allegations before. My concern is her responses to what seems to be very basic statements[;] I know I’ve said things that she’s found to be abrasive or threatening. I think, you know, she’s sensitive. Maybe we can do exchanges at a professional supervised location.” But petitioner took issue with this suggestion based on cost and her past experience with an employee at the proposed facility. After asking the parties whether they had anything else to add, the trial court stated: “I’m going to deny the request for [a] restraining order. I’m going to return visitation to the way it was before.” The court explained: “You told me nothing, [petitioner], that would lead me to believe that [respondent]’s a danger to you or anybody else there, and supervised visits are dropped. . . . [¶] . . . [¶] [W]hat I’m finding is there’s insufficient reason to grant the protective order as I don’t see you are in any danger from your husband. He may - - I’m talking now. You and he may get into it when exchanging the child or you may get into it over the phone or through texts. You are obviously disagreeing about almost everything in your lives concerning you and your son, but so far I have heard nothing that I believe puts you in any danger of anything. That’s the [c]ourt’s finding. [¶] Secondly, I don’t find anything at all that he’s done that would cause any problem with your son, that’s why I have made the order that I have made and allowed visitation.” Petitioner appeals.

4 DISCUSSION I Domestic Violence Restraining Order Law The Act’s purpose “is to prevent acts of domestic violence, abuse, and sexual abuse and to provide for a separation of the persons involved in the domestic violence for a period sufficient to enable these persons to seek a resolution of the causes of the violence.” (§ 6220.) One way the Act accomplishes this purpose is to permit restraining orders “if an affidavit or testimony . . . shows, to the satisfaction of the court, reasonable proof of a past act or acts of abuse. The court may issue an order under this part based solely on the affidavit or testimony of the person requesting the restraining order.” (§ 6300, subd.

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