Schaefer v. Schaefer

9 Conn. Super. Ct. 49, 9 Conn. Supp. 49, 1941 Conn. Super. LEXIS 2
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedJanuary 10, 1941
DocketFile 56673
StatusPublished

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Bluebook
Schaefer v. Schaefer, 9 Conn. Super. Ct. 49, 9 Conn. Supp. 49, 1941 Conn. Super. LEXIS 2 (Colo. Ct. App. 1941).

Opinion

INGLIS, J.

This is an action brought by a wife against her husband for support. The husband has denied liability for support and also has filed a cross complaint asking for an adjudication of the property rights of the parties. The issues on the complaint will be discussed first.

The parties were married in Ansonia, Connecticut, on July 5, 1913. After the marriage, they lived together in various places in Connecticut until about 1919. After that they lived in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Connecticut, Rhode Island and New York until March, 1924. At that time the defendant obtained a position with the Southern New England Telephone Company in New Haven. The parties then moved to New Haven and lived there together continuously until October 17, 1938.

In August, 1934, they had ceased to have sexual intercourse. At that time the plaintiff was 56 or 57 years old and the de' fendant was 47, and the cessation of sexual intercourse was strongly suggested by the plaintiff but was acquiesced in by the defendant.

The first serious quarrel between the parties occurred in September, 1935. In March of that year the defendant had been dropped from his employment in the Southern New England Telephone Company and almost immediately obtained work as a consulting engineer with the F.E.R.A. with an office in Hartford. He drove to Hartford each day for five days each week and often it was late in the evening before he reached home. On September 3, 1935, Mrs. Schaefer was told by a Mrs. McGrath that Mr. Schaefer was at the home of Mrs. Alberta C. Gesner at 101 Beers Street in New Haven, had been there frequently in’the past, and was having improper relations with Mrs. Gesner and her daughter, Frances. This story was absolutely false and without any foundation but Mrs. Schaefer, without investigating it further, believed it and went to the Gesner home. There she saw Frances Gesner and accused her of improper relations with Mr. Schaefer. On that day Mr. Schaefer had been at work in Hartford all day. Upon his return in the evening his wife charged him with *52 having been with the Gesners during the day and told him that she had upbraided Miss Gesner. He denied the accusations and tried to prevail upon her to apologize to the Gesners. She refused to believe him and refused to apologize. The next day he went to the Gesner home himself and apologized for his wife’s conduct.

Mrs. Schaefer still professes to believe that there had been something improper between Mr. Schaefer and the Gesners and although the incident did not cause a complete break between the Schaefers, it has been in the background of all of the marital difficulties they have had since. For instance, when, in 1937, Mr. Schaefer was in a slight automobile collision near Winchester’s factory, Mrs. Schaefer accused him of having had a woman in the car with him. They have also had rather frequent arguments over financial matters and in these Mrs. Schaefer has often made references to the claimed affair with the Gesners.

From March, 1935, until the spring of 1938, the defendant was employed first by F.E.R.A. and then by the National Resources Commission in Hartford in making a survey of Connecticut manufacturing plants. After that work was finished, in March, 1938, he was without employment and during the summer he took a course in air conditioning in the New York Technical Institute.

After that course was completed in August, he had no employment and didn’t seem to be able to find any. He and his wife had several arguments over family finances. Partly as a result of those conditions and partly because of sinus trouble and other physical conditions, he became very nervous. Accordingly, he made up h'is mind to go to Florida and seek employment there. He told Mrs. Schaefer of his plan and asked her to go with him. She, however, did not like warm weather and also reasoned that some one would have to stay in New Haven to manage the real estate which they owned, so she refused to go. She also was opposed to his going and tried to persuade him not to go. In spite of her arguments, Mr. Schaefer persisted in his plan and Mrs. Schaefer, seeing that there was no use in trying to dissuade him, finally acquiesced. She helped him pack and on October 17, 1938, he kissed her good-bye and started off in his car. He took with him only a relatively small portion of his clothing. After he left the home he stopped at the Union and New Haven Trust Co., *53 where he took from a safety deposit box certificates for 55 shares of American Telephone and Telegraph Co. stock which stood in his name and withdrew $600 from a joint and several checking account which he and his wife had there.

When he left New Haven at that time his intention was to seek employment in Florida and, if he found it, he expected that his wife would come and join him. If he didn’t find work by spring his intention was then to return to New Haven. He had no intention of abandoning his wife permanently. On the other hand, Mrs. Schaefer’s expectation at that time was that her husband would return not later than the following spring. She did not anticipate that it would be a permanent separation between them and certainly did not give her express consent to a separation nor still less order her husband to leave.

Apparently, Mr. Schaefer drove to Florida in a very leisurely fashion. It was not until November 5th that he arrived in Florida. Except for a brief note to the effect that he had been slightly injured on the way down, he did not write his wife until the day after his arrival and then he did not advise her as to where he was staying but simply gave her the number of a post office box to which he could be addressed. After that, he wrote only infrequently.

In the meantime Mrs. Schaefer, without adequate reason, had come to the conclusion in her own mind that her husband had deserted her. She was suspicious that he was not really in Miami at all but probably off with another woman. She was also angry that the management of the real estate, with the attendant necessity of shoveling snow, had been left on her hands. On December 15th, in order to test her husband, she sent him a telegram at Delray, Florida, which read as follows: “Drop everything. Drive home. Urgent. Wire immediately via Western Union.” To this he replied: “State nature of urgency. Will await your answer in Delray Western Union Office.”

On December 29th Mrs. Schaefer wrote her husband berating him for neglecting her and threatening to move out of his house. Thereafter, she wrote several other letters charging him with having abandoned her. On January 6, 1939, he wired her from Miami that he was “sorry about the whole mess” and that she had “got me all wrong.” In that wire he *54 also told her to take all she needed and sell property if she wished and keep property for support. He also told her he was still traveling over the state so kept his post office box in Miami and did not expect to return to New Haven until spring “unless serious.”

In the meantime on January 5 th, Mrs. Schaefer had discovered for the first time that her husband had taken with him the 55 shares of stock and this convinced her that her husband had abandoned her. At about this time also she heard that her husband, instead of being in Florida, was in New Haven with the Gesners. There was no foundation for this rumor but she believed it.

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