S.B.B. v. L.B.B.

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedSeptember 6, 2023
DocketA-0305-21
StatusPublished

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Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION

SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0305-21

S.B.B.,1

Plaintiff-Respondent, APPROVED FOR PUBLICATION v. September 6, 2023 APPELLATE DIVISION L.B.B.,

Defendant-Appellant. ________________________

Argued April 17, 2023 – Decided September 6, 2023

Before Judges Gooden Brown, DeAlmeida and Mitterhoff.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket No. FV-20-1159-21.

Jane J. Felton argued the cause for appellant (Skoloff & Wolfe, PC, attorneys; Jane J. Felton, of counsel and on the briefs; Michaela L. Cohen, Andrew J. Rhein and Steven B. Gladis, on the briefs).

LisaBeth Klein argued the cause for respondent.

Shira Wisotsky argued the cause for amici curiae The American Civil Liberties Union of New Jersey 1 We use initials to protect the parties' privacy and the confidentiality of the proceedings in accordance with Rule 1:38-3(d)(10). Foundation, The American Civil Liberties Union Foundation, The Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance, Sanctuary for Families, and Unchained at Last (The American Civil Liberties Union of New Jersey Foundation, and Vera Eidelman (The American Civil Liberties Union Foundation) of the New York and California bars, admitted pro hac vice, attorneys; Shira Wisotsky, Jeanne LoCicero, Sandra S. Park, and Vera Eidelman, on the brief).

Karin Duchin Haber argued the cause for amici curiae The Organization for the Resolution of Agunot, and Shalom Task Force (Haber Silver & Simpson, attorneys; Karin Duchin Haber, of counsel and on the brief).

The opinion of the court was delivered by

GOODEN BROWN, J.A.D.

Defendant L.B.B. appeals from the entry of a final restraining order

(FRO) entered against her in favor of her estranged husband, plaintiff S.B.B.,

pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-

17 to -35. The FRO was based on the predicate act of harassment. The

communication underlying the trial judge's finding of harassment was defendant's

creation and dissemination of a video accusing her estranged husband of

improperly withholding a get, a Jewish bill of divorce, and asking community

members to "press" her husband to deliver the get. Because defendant's

communication constituted constitutionally protected free speech, we reverse.

A-0305-21 2 I.

We glean these facts from the record. Following a twenty-year marriage

that produced four children, the parties, both practicing members of the

Orthodox Jewish faith, separated and have been in the process of obtaining a

divorce since mid-2019. The process has been contentious and acrimonious 2

and further complicated by a dispute over a get—a religious bill of divorce.

In the Orthodox Jewish tradition, a married woman cannot obtain a religious divorce until her husband provides her with a contract called a "get" (pluralized as "gittin"), which must, in turn, be signed by an "eid," or witness. A woman who attempts to leave her husband without obtaining a get becomes an "agunah" (pluralized as "agunot"), which subjects her to severe social ostracism within the Orthodox Jewish community. Agunot may seek relief in a "beth din," a rabbinical court presided over by a panel of three rabbis. The beth din may then issue "psak kefiah," or contempt orders authorizing sanctions, which include, but are not limited to, the use of force against a husband to secure a get.

[United States v. Stimler, 864 F.3d 253, 259 (3d Cir. 2017), aff'g United States v. Epstein, 91 F. Supp. 3d 573, 582 (D.N.J. 2015), rev'd in part on other grounds sub nom. United States v. Goldstein, 902 F.3d 411 (3d Cir. 2018).]

2 In April 2020, defendant obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO) against plaintiff. Following a protracted FRO hearing during the COVID-19 pandemic, the TRO was dismissed on March 11, 2021.

A-0305-21 3 Sometime in March 2021, defendant made a video addressing the get

dispute. In the video, defendant asserted plaintiff had refused to give her a get

and asked anyone who could to "press" plaintiff to give her a get. On March

19, 2021, after the video was made, plaintiff obtained a TRO against defendant

based on a domestic violence complaint alleging harassment. To support the

complaint, plaintiff testified at an ex parte hearing that beginning around 3:00

p.m. on March 12, 2021, he received numerous phone calls from unknown

numbers, a photograph of himself identifying him as a get refuser and calling

on others to "tell him to free his wife," and, ultimately, the actual video

defendant had composed.

When plaintiff answered one of the incoming calls, the caller identified

himself as being "connected" to various protest "networks" and pressured

plaintiff to turn over the get. During his testimony, plaintiff explained his

belief that the Jewish community reacts violently to the withholding of a get

and that identifying him as a "get refuser" subjected him to kidnappings and

brutal beatings. Plaintiff denied withholding the get, claimed he had given the

get to the Chief Rabbi of Elizabeth in June 2020, and averred that he was

"terrified" of being "harm[ed]" by the "people . . . calling [him]" in respon se to

defendant's accusation and plea in the video. To further support his complaint,

plaintiff recounted a history of emotional abuse largely by name-calling

A-0305-21 4 throughout the course of the marriage. Subsequently, on March 25, 2021,

plaintiff amended the TRO to add cyber harassment as a predicate act.

Defendant moved to dismiss the TRO, arguing any alleged dissemination

by defendant was protected free speech. Relying on State v. Burkert, 231 N.J.

257 (2017), the trial judge denied the motion. On April 8, 2021, an FRO trial

was conducted via Zoom, during which plaintiff and defendant testified. Both

parties were represented by counsel.

During his testimony, plaintiff confirmed that he and defendant were

separated. He lived with his parents while defendant remained in the marital

home with their children. He testified that he received a call on Friday, March

12, 2021, around 3:00 p.m., on the FaceTime videoconferencing app. Plaintiff

did not answer, but was able to see that thirty separate phone numbers had

joined the call, none of which were familiar to him. The group attempted to

call back roughly ten more times before plaintiff put his phone in airplane

mode. About half an hour later, when he turned his reception back on, the

calls resumed. Initially, the calls seemed "weird," but then plaintiff became

"alarmed" by the calls. Plaintiff continued to ignore the calls and blocked the

associated numbers.

Two days later, on March 14, 2021, plaintiff received a message from

his sister in Israel. The message contained a photo of himself that he had

A-0305-21 5 posted as his "status" on the WhatsApp messaging app. Above the photo was

written:

This man has refused to give his wife a get. His name is [S.B.B.]. He is holding his wife chained for over a year and a half. He lives in Elizabeth NJ. If you see him, tell him to free his wife. #FREE[L.B.B.].

In addition to his sister, plaintiff received the photo from one other person he

knew.

When plaintiff saw the photo, he was "shock[ed]," "embarrassed," and

"scared." Plaintiff explained that the photo would give community members

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