Sarah Kathleen Graff (Kna Riley) v. John Gregory Bowman

Court of Appeals of Kentucky·Decided October 3, 2025·No. 2024-CA-0548·Unpublished

Opinion

RENDERED: OCTOBER 3, 2025; 10:00 A.M.

NOT TO BE PUBLISHED

Commonwealth of Kentucky

Court of Appeals

NO. 2024-CA-0548-MR

SARAH KATHLEEN GRAFF (K/N/A RILEY) APPELLANT

APPEAL FROM CAMPBELL FAMILY COURT v. HONORABLE ABIGAIL E. VOELKER, JUDGE ACTION NO. 19-CI-00820

JOHN GREGORY BOWMAN APPELLEE

OPINION

AFFIRMING

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BEFORE: CALDWELL, ECKERLE, AND MCNEILL, JUDGES. CALDWELL, JUDGE: Sarah Kathleen Graff (known now as Riley) (“Mother”) appeals from a Campbell Family Court order which requires that Mother exercise her parenting time in Kentucky despite Mother’s living elsewhere until a therapist recommends that visits occur at Mother’s home. She also appeals from the family court’s increasing Mother’s child support obligation. We affirm.

FACTS

Mother was married for several years to John Gregory Bowman (“Father”). Mother and Father had two children together during their marriage. The parties were divorced in early 2020. The divorce decree incorporated the parties’ settlement agreement, which provided for joint custody of the children and equal timesharing with the parties to split expenses evenly and neither party to pay child support to the other. Both parties lived in the Northern Kentucky area at the time of the divorce.

Several months after the divorce, Mother filed a motion to modify timesharing, stating she planned to remarry and move out of state to wherever her fiancé would later be stationed. She requested that she be designated the primary residential parent for school purposes. Father objected to her request that the children relocate with her, asserting the children should continue to attend school in Fort Thomas, Kentucky.

The trial court entered an agreed order in early 2021, providing that the children would finish out the school year at Fort Thomas. Sometime that same year, Mother moved to Okinawa, Japan, where her new husband was stationed with the Marine Corps. The parties continued to litigate timesharing matters and a Friend of the Court (“FOC”) was appointed.

Mother’s request for the children to live with her in Japan in subsequent school years was not granted. However, the family court entered orders providing that Mother have frequent contact with the children via phone calls and in-person parenting time, especially during school breaks. Apparently, Mother’s parenting time occurred in Kentucky for the first year or so after she moved to Japan due to COVID-era travel restrictions and passport requirements.

Father later objected to Mother’s request that the children travel to Japan for Mother’s summer 2022 parenting time. The family court ordered that Mother have two weeks’ parenting time in the United States and three weeks’ parenting time in Japan.

In July 2022, Mother filed a motion to set additional parenting time and for the children to visit her in Japan the next summer, asserting Father denied her any parenting time unless specifically ordered to do so. The FOC filed a report, noting the children had made some complaints about their time in Japan, including alleging their stepfather inappropriately disciplined the younger child by aggressively laying hands on the child.

Meanwhile, Father filed a motion for child support to be established under Kentucky statutory guidelines. He attached a supporting affidavit in which he asserted he was now the children’s primary caregiver.

After a hearing on the parties’ respective motions, the family court entered an order resolving the parties’ motions regarding timesharing and child support in October 2022. The family court noted the parties had agreed to a deviation from the child support guidelines and for Mother to pay Father $400.00 of child support each month. The court set child support at $400.00 per month based on the parties’ agreement, effective the date of Father’s filing his motion.

The family court specifically addressed how Mother and Father must split parenting time during school breaks. The court also stated that it heard no evidence showing the children had been endangered by their time in Japan, that the children would be better acclimated to spending time there due to their previous visit, and that Mother was entitled to exercise the entirety of her five weeks’ parenting time for the summer of 2023 in Okinawa. Without specifically finding whether Mother’s new husband had inappropriately disciplined the younger child, the court directed that stepparents were not to discipline the children. Neither party appealed from the trial court’s October 2022 order.

Shortly before the children’s summer 2023 visit to Mother’s home with her new husband in Okinawa, Mother gave birth to another child. The children traveled to Mother’s home and spent five weeks there.

After the children returned from Japan, Father filed a verified motion asking the family court to modify its prior orders so that the children would not

have to travel to Japan for Mother’s parenting time in the future. Father alleged the children said Mother had repeatedly bashed her own head into a table and/or wall and had screamed that the children did not listen to her and that she could not deal with them anymore. He also alleged that Mother and her new husband made verbally abusive comments to the children and confiscated the older child’s cell phone and that Mother tore pages out of the older child’s diary.

In addition to this motion to modify parenting time, Father also filed a motion to increase child support, requesting that the court set child support in accordance with the Kentucky child support guidelines. Shortly thereafter, Mother filed a motion to reduce her child support obligation. She asserted that despite her previously working as a certified teacher in Kentucky, teaching opportunities were limited in Japan, she was not able to earn as much money as a teacher there, and day care costs for her youngest child made it economically unadvisable for her to work at all.

Mother also filed a response objecting to Father’s motion regarding her parenting time and requesting that the family court order counseling for her and the children. The FOC spoke with the children in August 2023 and again in January 2024 and filed a report about timesharing and counseling issues.

The family court held a hearing on the parties’ motions in February 2024. The parties and the FOC testified at the hearing. The testimony indicated

Mother and the children (then ages nine and twelve) had not seen each other in person and had little to no phone contact since the summer 2023 visit to Okinawa. Mother also said she wished to improve her relationship with the children, so she asked the court to order that she and the children undergo counseling together.

After the hearing, the family court ordered that the children be immediately enrolled in therapy, that the first therapeutic session be scheduled for their spring break, and that Mother must attend that first session in-person with the children. (Although not clearly set forth in the family court’s written orders, the family court orally discussed how it envisioned that Mother would participate in therapy remotely from Japan after the first session.) The family court also ordered that Mother be required to come to Kentucky for parenting time until a therapist recommended that visits occur at Mother’s home. Once the therapist recommended that visits recommence at Mother’s home, two of Mother’s five weeks of summer parenting time were still required to take place in Kentucky according to the order. The court also ordered that Mother’s child support obligation be increased to $539.12 per month.

Mother filed a motion to alter, amend, or vacate which the family court denied after a hearing. Next, Mother filed a timely appeal challenging the increased child support obligation and the timesharing modification decision.

Further facts will be provided as necessary in our analysis.

ANALYSIS

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