Sablan v. Sablan

Superior Court of Guam·Decided October 31, 2014·No. DM0277-11·Unknown

Opinion

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5 IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF GUAM

6 ANTONIO ARTERO SABLAN, DOMESTIC CASE NO. DM0277-11

7 Plaintiff, FINDINGS OF FACT AND 8 v. CONCLUSIONS OF LAW (Bench Trial) 9 PATRIA UNTALAN SABLAN, 10 Defendant. 11

12 INTRODUCTION

13 This matter came before the Honorable Maria T. Cenzon for a Bench Trial on August 2, 14 14, 16, and 19, and September 5, 9, 11, 16, 26, and 27, 2013. 1 Attorney David J. Lujan 15 appeared on behalf of Plaintiff Antonio Artero Sablan ("Plaintiff'). Attorney William B. Pole '·! 16 appeared on behalf of Defendant Patria Untalan Sablan ("Defendant"). Upon review of the 17

18 pleadings, oral and written arguments and legal authorities presented by the parties, as well as

19 testimony and evidence received during the trial of this matter, the Court now issues its 20 Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law. 21 FINDINGS OF FACT 22 By a preponderance of the evidence, the Court makes the following findings of fact: 23

24 1. Undisputed Facts.

__, 25 Plaintiff and Defendant were married in Reno, Nevada on March 30, 1984, and c:::::( 26 z - 27 1 Upon request of the parties, their Proposed Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law were submitted for the Court's consideration on November 29, 2013. - 28 0:::: Page 1 of40 0 separated in March, 2009, although, during the course of the marriage, the parties often 1

2 physically separated from each other, only to reunite within one year. Shortly after their

3 marriage in 1984, on August 12, 1985, Defendant filed a Complaint for Divorce from the 4 Plaintiff citing extreme cruelty and wrongful infliction of grievous mental suffering. (Pl.'s 5 Exhibit 22, Complaint for Divorce, Domestic Case No. DM907-85 (Aug. 12, 1985)). Plaintiff 6

7 filed his Answer and Counterclaim on June 11, 1986, alleging extreme cruelty and wrongful

8 infliction of grievous mental suffering. (Plaintiff's Exhibit 23, Answer and Counterclaim, 9 Domestic Case No. DM907-85 (June 11, 1986)). Despite settlement discussions, the parties 10 reconciled and the parties did not continue to prosecute their claims arising out of the 1985 11 Complaint. 12

13 Nearly twenty-five years later, on April 7, 2011, Plaintiff filed his Verified Complaint

14 for Divorce, seeking dissolution on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. On April 21, 15 2011, Defendant filed her Verified Answer and Counterclaim for Divorce denying 16 irreconcilable differences and alleging abandonment, gross misconduct and infidelity of the 17 Plaintiff. (Def.'s Answer at fJ[ a- e (Apr. 21, 2011)). She also seeks dissolution of the marriage 18

19 on the following grounds: extreme mental cruelty, desertion, and adultery "giving rise to the

20 dissolution of the marriage."2 Defendant seeks spousal support/alimony in the amount of Five 21 Thousand Dollars ($5,000.00) per month from Plaintiff. Plaintiff answered to the Counterclaim 22 on May 16, 2011, asserting the defenses of laches, estoppel, recrimination and condonation. 23 (PI's. Reply to Counterclaim at p. 2 (May 16, 2011)). 24

-J 25 <( 2 Counterclaim at'][ 5, p. 3 (April21, 2011). Defendant counterclaimed that the Plaintiff repeatedly threatened her 26 2 with physical harm during the course of the marriage. Guam law provides under 19 GCA § 8209 that "departure or absence of one party from the dwelling place, caused by cruelty or by threats of bodily harm from which danger (0. 27 would be reasonably apprehended from the other is not desertion by the absent party, but it!§. desertion 12y the other llli!!Y·" 28 a:: c···, ""'"-· ,f Page2of40 4; There are no minor children of the marriage, as the parties' son, Paul Sablan, was born 1

2 in 1985 in Guam and has reached the age of majority; therefore, there are no issues regarding

3 child support or custody. The residency requirements of 19 GCA § 8318(a) are met, and it is 4 undisputed that both parties were residents of Guam for at least 90 days immediately preceding 5 the filing of the Complaint. 6

7 2. The Parties' Living Arrangements during the Course of their Marriage.

8 A few days after the parties' married in March, 1984, in Reno, Nevada, Plaintiff 9 returned to Guam and Defendant remained in the states for four months until July 1984, to 10 complete her studies. (Bench Trial, September 19, 2013 at 11:21:00). Sometime in January 11 1985, the parties had a disagreement and Defendant left the marital home for a night to stay 12

13 with her mother and then returned to live with Defendant. (ld. at 11 :28:00). This was to be the

14 first of many periods of separation during the course of the marriage of the parties. Later that 15 January, Defendant left Guam to visit her daughter from a previous marriage, while she was 16 five to six months' pregnant with the parties' son, and returned to Guam after a couple of 17 weeks. (/d. at 11:23:00). The parties resided together until they separated again on July 17, 18

19 1985. (/d. at 11:29:35).

20 During the marriage, the parties continued to have numerous cycles of separation and 21 reunion. Defendant testified that she lost track of how many periods of separation they endured 22 "because it happened so often," but confirmed that, until the filing of this action, the longest 23 period of time that they had been separated was for eleven ( 11) months until Plaintiff flew to 24

-J 25 California to ask Defendant to return to Guam with their son "to become a family again." <( :z 26 (Bench Trial, Aug. 19, 2014 at 11:38:46 to 11:40:20). Other typical periods of separation (!) 27 lasted approximately two months. (/d. at 11:41:22-34). Over the 24 years of the marriage, the 0:::: 28 Page3 of40 0 parties "attempted" to divorce three times before the Plaintiff filed the instant Complaint. The

2 first three attempts were initiated by Defendant, who never prosecuted the first one beyond the

3 filing of the Verified Complaint and never actually refiled again. (/d. at 11:30:46 to 11:32: 17). 4 3. The Parties' Sexual Relationship During the Marriage and Accusation of Adultery. 5 The parties engaged in little sexual relations during their nearly twenty-five (25) year 6 marriage. Defendant could not dispute Plaintiff's estimation that the parties had sex over the 7

8 course of their over 24-year marriage between 60 to 75 times in total; however, the Court finds 9 it compelling that Defendant would not immediately challenge a notion that the husband and 10 wife engaged in intimate marital relations an average of 2 to 3 times a year. Plaintiff testified 11 that although he was prescribed medication to treat his erectile dysfunction, he saw no point in 12

13 taking it if he would be continue to be refused sex by his wife. Defendant admitted that

14 Plaintiff was typically the person who initiated sex and she rarely initiated it on her own, but 15 confirmed that she did initiate it three times in nearly twenty-five years of marriage. (Bench 16 Trial, Sep. 26, 2013 at 4:53:46- 4:55:00). She did not believe that having sex with Plaintiff 17 was a "wifely duty," but stated that she only had sex if she felt affection. She further admitted 18

19 that she simply felt "no affection" for her husband. (/d. at 4:04:50- 4:06:27). The Defendant

20 also admitted that she decided that she would withdraw from the marriage and change her 21 behavior toward him, deciding she would "stand still like an idiot here and see what happens" 22 (Bench Trial, September 26, 2013 at 4:43:40 4:45:49), indicating that she willfully withheld 23 affection and sexual relations from Plaintiff during the marriage.

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