Ruby Diane Barron v. Bruce Joseph Barron

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedNovember 20, 2019
DocketE2018-02257-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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Ruby Diane Barron v. Bruce Joseph Barron, (Tenn. Ct. App. 2019).

Opinion

11/20/2019 IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT KNOXVILLE October 15, 2019 Session

RUBY DIANE BARRON V. BRUCE JOSEPH BARRON

Appeal from the Chancery Court for Hamilton County No. 17-0585 Pamela Fleenor, Judge ___________________________________

No. E2018-02257-COA-R3-CV ___________________________________

Wife filed for divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences. The trial court granted husband a divorce on the grounds of wife’s adultery and other inappropriate marital conduct. Despite the many factors found by the trial court to be favorable to husband, the court awarded husband only 43% of the net marital estate. It also awarded husband one year of transitional alimony at $2,000 per month. We hold that the trial court erred in its division of the net marital assets and in its determination as to the duration of the transitional alimony awarded to husband. We modify the trial court’s judgment so as to provide husband five years of transitional alimony. We hold that the Roth IRA is a marital asset; it is awarded to husband and wife in equal share. Furthermore, we hold that the FERS pension account is to be divided between the parties as set forth in this opinion. As modified, the judgment of the trial court is affirmed.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Chancery Court Modified in Part; Case Remanded

CHARLES D. SUSANO, JR., J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which D. MICHAEL SWINEY, C.J. and THOMAS R. FRIERSON, II, J., joined.

Jillyn O’Shaughnessy, Chattanooga, Tennessee, for the appellant, Bruce Joseph Barron.

John T. Rice, Chattanooga, Tennessee, for the appellee, Ruby Diane Barron.

OPINION

I.

In July 1991, husband and wife met, in Germany. At the time, husband worked as a tour guide, and wife worked as a speech pathologist on a US military base. In

-1- December 1991, they were married; Husband was 36 years old and wife was 40. It was both of their first marriage.

The parties live in Germany. Husband is now 62 years old and wife is 67. Husband has a plural effusion of the left lung from cancer. He had chemotherapy from 2015-2016, and hernia surgery in 2018. As a result, husband can only work a job that is sedentary. Wife is in good health, and continues to work as a speech therapist for the U.S. Department of Defense school system, in Germany. Her income is listed as $11,893.52 per month.

The parties have a biological son that was born in 1993. They later adopted a second son that had developmental delays. After the adoption of their second child, husband became a homemaker. Husband has not been employed outside of the home since 2005. Throughout the marriage, wife traveled extensively without the children and husband. Husband was often left home alone to care for them.

On August 8, 2017, wife filed a complaint for absolute divorce on the ground of irreconcilable differences. On November 21, 2017, husband filed his answer and counterclaim; he alleged that wife had committed adultery and other inappropriate marital conduct. Husband stated in his response to wife’s request for interrogatories that:

My wife is rarely at home on US holidays or school vacation time. She has regularly taken overnight trips and extensive vacations without our family. This has been going on for many years. US holidays and school vacation times were normally the busy times when I would’ve worked as a tour and travel guide for the US forces in Europe. I was unable to work when she was gone because we had a young child to care for. This was starting [sic] when my wife went on a trip to Russia by herself in April Easter break of 1995.

My wife was also president of the overseas speech and hearing association which required her to travel on frequent overnight trips, sometimes from Germany back to the US. Some of the more recent trips she has taken, while I was with the kids at home, are as follows:

Oct 6-9 2017. Milan Italy Sept 15-17 Somewhere in Germany Sept 1-4 Belgium July 6-Aug 12 Florida, Tn. (Against my will, She took my youngest son went with her.) May 26-29 Mediterranean island of Cypress

-2- April 7-16 Greek island cruise Nov 23-27 2016 Thanksgiving Barcelona, Spain Oct 7-10 Stockholm, Sweden Sept 2-5 Vienna Austria July and Aug tour of China April 7-9 Croatia Slovenia Fall of 2015 Eastern Mediterranean cruise June-Aug Florida, Ms April Baltic states Latvia, Lithuania, Estonia 2014 June-August Cambodia, China and S Korea

This is only a partial list, there are many more vacations she has taken without our family. Diane has had extramarital relationships which are not appropriate or conducive to married family life. She continues to this day to be in a casual relationship with a man whom she met on the internet, going on dates with him to plays in Frankfurt, taking him shopping in the military PX, which is illegal because it is a violation on German tax laws. She puts her job and our family in jeopardy by doing this. It’s embarrassing and humiliating to me because my neighbors have informed that this man was in our house when I wasn’t there. She continually had him at our house when I wasn’t home. I know this because my kids always told me about it. I believe it hurt them emotionally.

I initiated marital counseling several years ago. The counselor told Diane she should stop seeing this man but Diane refused and quit counseling instead.

She also continues in an inappropriate relationship with an old boyfriend who used to write her letters of affection and address them to Diane’s friend so that I wouldn’t find them in our mailbox. This goes back to the days before email. She saved the letters and I discovered them when unpacking a move from Darmstadt to Wiesbaden Germany for her job. The messages were left open on our family computer indicating that they regularly planned on meeting each other. He regularly traveled from Atlanta to Germany on duty assignment with the US army. He was with my wife on the third weekend in February, 1997 while I was working on a tour at the time. I know this because he said it in the letter. He

-3- also said how affectionate and sexy she was. Diane continues to correspond back with him to this day. I didn’t feel too good about it. It had become apparent to me that Diane cared more about the affection of other men than her husband.

My wife is moody, changing her mind frequently. This is the third time divorce has been filed. The other two were withdrawn. One was in Germany and was withdrawn because she did not want to divide assets. The other in Tennessee because attorney was someone she told me that she previously had sexual relations with and that she continues to visit and be friends with today. My wife insisted on having invitro-fertilization done by a fertility specialist until she was 49 years old, even though the doctor told her that infertility was not her problem, advanced age was. This included having 2 egg donors which is not legal in Germany. We had to go to Belgium for this. This was at an expense of more than $60,000. She finally agreed that adoption was the best option. We were only allowed to adopt because I was younger than 50 at the time and told the judge and stated in our dossier that I would be able to stay at home and care for the baby while she had a professional job that would provide a good income for our family. This worked well for our family but because the nature of my work, being out of the country for days at a time, I was no longer able to work this job. When my youngest son was old enough for school, I worked at the education center on the military base but lost this job when the base closed and Diane transferred and moved our family to Wiesbaden for her new job.

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