Richard T. Ross v. Valerie M. Ross
Opinion
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-0940-24
RICHARD T. ROSS, Plaintiff-Appellant,
v. VALERIE M. ROSS,
Defendant-Respondent.
Submitted May 5, 2026 – Decided July 10, 2026 Before Judges DeAlmeida and Torregrossa-O'Connor.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Ocean County, Docket No. FM-15-0177-18.
Law Office of Steven P. Monaghan, LLC, attorneys for appellant (Kristin S. Pallonetti, on the briefs).
Hegge & Confusione, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Michael Confusione, of counsel and on the brief).
PER CURIAM
In this post-judgment matrimonial matter, plaintiff Richard T. Ross appeals from a November 8, 2024 Family Part order, 1 granting, in relevant part, defendant Valerie M. Ross's motion seeking reimbursement from plaintiff for expenses related to the parties' children's extracurricular activities, specifically, "dance, fashion, lacrosse, baseball and tutoring in excess of $2,500 ." Plaintiff alleges he never agreed to share those costs, and the court's order ran contrary to the parties' term sheet, incorporated by reference in the Dual Judgment of Divorce (DJOD), which mandated plaintiff's obligations for the children's extracurricular activities be "agreed upon" by the parties. Plaintiff further asserts the court effectively reversed without a hearing a prior post-judgment order requiring consent of both parties to shared costs for the children's activities. We have considered the record under applicable legal principles, and we affirm.
I.
The parties were married in 2005. Their four children were born during the marriage and before the parties divorced on October 25, 2018. The DJOD incorporated the parties' May 21, 2018 term sheet. Relevant here, paragraph ten
1 The motion court's order included nineteen rulings, but plaintiff restricts his appeal to the portion of the order requiring him to reimburse defendant for extracurricular activity costs to which he never agreed.
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of the term sheet allocated obligations for the children's extracurricular activities as follows:
The parties shall share the cost of the children's extracurricular activities expenses based upon their pro rata income shares as set forth on the Child Support Guidelines. At the current time, the children are engaged in dance, fashion, lacrosse, and baseball and those are all agreed-upon activities. Extracurricular Expenses shall include tutoring if necessary. In the event [plaintiff]'s expenses exceed $2,500 per year, the activities shall be agreed upon.
Years of post-judgment litigation followed, which included disputes over the parties' relative obligations for the children's activities. A previous motion judge entered a February 24, 2023 order clarifying plaintiff's obligation under the term sheet. The order stated:
Plaintiff's obligation to pay in excess of $2,500 per year in extracurricular activities must be agreed upon in writing by the parties. If not agreed upon, plaintiff shall have no obligation in excess of $2,500 per year.
GRANTED. Pursuant to Paragraph 10 of the term sheet incorporated into the parties' [DJOD], the parties were to share the children's extracurricular activity expenses based on their pro rata shares as set forth in the child support guidelines. In the event that plaintiff's expenses exceed $2,500 per year, the term sheet requires that the "activities shall be agreed upon." 2
2 The parties have not included on appeal the record of the earlier motion. Thus, we are unable to ascertain the precise nature of the motion or the relief sought.
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On May 3, 2024, defendant moved to enforce litigant's rights seeking reimbursement from plaintiff in the amount of $21,887.63 for his share of outstanding child-related expenses incurred by defendant from December 2020 through March 2024. Defendant also sought an order directing that "child expenses reimbursable by . . . plaintiff shall include, college testing fees and prep courses, driving lessons and the marginal cost of car insurance coverage for the children."
Plaintiff opposed defendant's request and cross-moved for various other relief. The motion court heard oral argument on the parties' motions, addressing each of the parties' pending applications.
Regarding defendant's motion seeking reimbursement for the children's extracurricular activities, plaintiff argued the language of the DJOD stating if "[plaintiff]'s expenses exceed $2,500 per year, the activity shall be agreed upon," required his agreement to all expenses for any activities exceeding $2,500 per year. He contended the February 2023 order confirmed he had no obligation for contributing to expenses above $2,500 per year absent the parties' express agreement.
Defendant argued the parties agreed to plaintiff's responsibility to pay his portion of expenses for the activities outlined in the term sheet at the time the
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parties entered that agreement. Thus, defendant contended restricting plaintiff's contribution to $2,500 annually ran afoul of the clear "intent" of the agreement that preemptively provided for shared coverage of the costs of the children's activities at the time of the divorce—"dance, fashion, lacrosse, baseball and tutoring in excess of $2,500." Defendant further argued the court should also require plaintiff to contribute to the costs of the children's car insurance because car insurance is a "necessary" expense for children.
Thereafter, the court issued its November 8, 2024 order, addressing each of the parties' claims, granting in part and denying in part defendant's application related to the funding for the children's activities. The motion court first found plaintiff in violation of litigant's rights for failing to reimburse defendant for his share of certain child-related expenses from December 2020 through March 2024. The court reasoned, although the parties must agree to plaintiff's contributions for extracurricular activities beyond $2,500 per year, the parties expressly agreed in the term sheet that dance, fashion, lacrosse, baseball, and tutoring were "agreed-upon activities," for which plaintiff's agreed to share costs exceeding $2,500. Finding no agreement regarding "any other types of expenses," the court denied the application for reimbursement for activities beyond those included in agreement. The court reconciled its order with the
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February 2023 order, noting the earlier order merely confirmed plaintiff would have no obligation for expenses exceeding $2,500 unless the extracurricular activities were agreed upon in writing.
Next, the court denied in part defendant's request to direct plaintiff to reimburse defendant $21,997.63 for his percentage share of outstanding child - related expenses incurred by defendant from December 2020 through March 2024. The court found plaintiff responsible for his share of the expenses above $2,500 per year for the agreed-upon activities, but declined to order a specific reimbursement amount because "the evidence [wa]s not clear" concerning the specific breakdown of that amount attributed to "expenses above $2,500 . . . for dance, fashion, lacrosse, baseball, and tutoring." The court invited the parties to participate in mediation or submit "specific proofs" to resolve the precise amount owed.
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