Rhoden v. Hurt

2020 Ohio 5065, 160 N.E.3d 1284
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided October 13, 2020·No. 20CA1114·Published·Cited by 1 cases

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO FOURTH APPELLATE DISTRICT ADAMS COUNTY

HEIDI RHODEN, :

Plaintiff-Appellee, : Case No. 20CA1114 vs. :

DEVIN HURT, : DECISION & JUDGMENT ENTRY Defendant-Appellant. :

APPEARANCES:

Christina M. Strasel, Batavia, Ohio, for Appellant1. Daniel Getty, Centerville, Ohio, for Appellee.

CIVIL CASE FROM COMMON PLEAS COURT, JUVENILE DIVISION DATE JOURNALIZED: 10-13-20 Abele, J.

{¶ 1} This is an appeal of an Adams County Common Pleas Court, Juvenile Division, judgment that temporarily suspended the shared parenting time of Devin Hurt, defendant below and appellant herein, until the conclusion of his daughter’s football season. Appellant assigns three errors for review:

FIRST ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR:

“THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN FINDING THAT FATHER WAS NOT LIKELY TO COMPLY WITH THE COURT’S ORDER TO TAKE D.H. TO FOOTBALL

1 Different counsel represented appellant during the trial court proceedings.

ADAMS, 20CA1114 2 PRACTICES AND GAMES.”

SECOND ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR:

“THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN TEMPORARILY SUSPENDING FATHER’S PARENTING TIME THROUGH FOOTBALL SEASON.”

THIRD ASSIGNMENT OF ERROR:

“THE TRIAL COURT ABUSED ITS DISCRETION IN ORDERING THE CHILD PARTICIPATE IN FOOTBALL WHEN FATHER’S LACK OF CONSENT WAS REASONABLE.”

{¶ 2} Appellant and Heidi Rhoden, defendant below and appellee herein, have one child, D.H., born in 2006. On December 10, 2018, the parties’ shared parenting plan designated appellee the residential parent for school purposes. Concerning the child’s extracurricular activities, the plan required the parents to consider the child’s wishes, consult with each other, and not unreasonably withhold consent from participation in those activities.

{¶ 3} On July 19, 2019, appellee filed a motion to “review the current visitation arrangement as substantial changes have occurred since the last Order. Undersigned, on behalf of mother and minor child, requests that the Court investigate such matters by conducting a review conference by telephone with counsel.” Appellee asserted that “according to reports, minor child has been spending most if not all of her visitation time at paternal grandmother’s home, during father’s visitation. Moreover, father will not agree to minor child participating in football despite minor child’s desire to do so. As matter of point, in actuality, father has denied minor child’s participation in any extra-curricular activity.”

{¶ 4} At the trial court’s August 19, 2019 hearing, appellant testified that his main

ADAMS, 20CA1114 3 concerns about football are the time commitment and safety. Appellant would not allow appellee to take D.H. from his home to football practice on the first day because, as he expressed to his daughter, “our family time to me is more important than any one extracurricular.” Appellant stated that D.H. also plays in the band, and the previous year participated in kindness club and the school musical, and in years past soccer, softball, and basketball, “none of which ever took the amount of time that football has.” Appellant testified:

We spent all these years trying to share 48 hours a week every other week with the entirety of my family. You know, we’ve * * * tried * * * to make sure she’s got a relationship with all of her * * * family. We try to make sure we’re doing family activities together so she can spend time with her siblings, and we keep a museum membership and we keep a zoo membership and we are members at the YMCA. And we get no time to do any of these things, our whole family waits on.

Concerning the time commitment, appellant added:

Practice four days a week? Um, last year it was six to eight, they quit practicing at dark and then games on Saturdays. They’re required to be there an hour before game time. Then if the games before running over that to that much later, I mean you’re spending three, four hours at the fields every single Saturday. And you know, I mean that’s, that’s a huge chunk of my parenting time.

With regard to safety, appellant testified:

And then on top of that you got the, you know, the health issues. We pulled our son from football two years ago because you know, the health concerns with it, it’, it’s dangerous. And I feel like there’s some other compromises and alternatives that I’ve spoken to [D.H.] about that, you know, maybe we could compromise that are less risky.

Appellant continued:

Everything that I’ve read says that youth football pre high school age football, puts the kids had significantly more risk of CTE in older ages and have behavioral issues in their growing developmental years. * * * I have legitimate concerns with football. It’s * * * exhausting you know, last year for instance, they had no subs.

They had just enough kids to play a game. So, nobody had ever come out of the

ADAMS, 20CA1114 4

game, no matter how big a hit they took, didn’t matter if they got rattled, they’re right back up on their feet. Getting drug through the game.

{¶ 5} Appellee testified that D.H. played football the past two years and anticipated playing again this year. Appellee texted appellant about the upcoming season several weeks before it began and she thought the football issue had been resolved. Appellee stated that appellant waited until the first day of football practice to tell D.H. that she could not participate.

{¶ 6} Appellee further testified that appellant did offer gymnastics and karate as substitute activities, but D.H. has no interest in those activities. Appellee testified that she paid all football fees and pays a monthly band fee, although appellant recently agreed to pay half of band fees. When asked why she thought her daughter wanted to play football, appellee testified, “[I]f you seen her on the practice field, she absolutely loves it. She loves the team. She loves the, everything about it.” Appellee stated:

[D.H.] absolutely loves it. She’s played, this will be her third year and she’s she seems thrilled. She washes her own uniform every night just to make sure that she has it ready for the next day. She had it washed Friday night, hanging up, drying to make sure she was able to take it to [appellant’s] on Sunday.

{¶ 7} Appellee further testified that when D.H. is with appellant, she spends weekdays with appellant’s parents and stays with appellant on weekends, a fact that appellant conceded. Appellee stated that she is willing, and has offered, to take D.H. from appellant’s home to practice. She also offered to allow D.H. to stay at her home during football days and give appellant alternate parenting time. Appellee stated that D.H. has missed practices, and if she cannot play football, “she would be devastated.” After football season, appellee is amenable to D.H. participating in karate or gymnastics if she desires, but at the time of the hearing, “[s]he is already committed to football.” Although appellant testified that he had expressed to appellee

ADAMS, 20CA1114 5 that “[D.H.] came to me complaining of anxiety attacks due to football last year,” appellee testified that “I personally have never seen her have anxiety about it, getting into a new routine maybe, but no anxiety or anxiety attacks or anything.”

{¶ 8} At the hearing’s conclusion, the trial court pointed out appellant’s inconsistent argument that football denies him one-on-one parenting time, when he lets his daughter stay with his mother three or four nights a week during his parenting time. The court also noted the “inherent risks with football and stated that this whole life is dangerous, but we can’t bubble wrap these children.” The court then asked appellant, “how do you want to resolve this? She’s going to football practice.” Appellant responded, “I feel like my opinions and concerns are being completely overlooked,” and then expounded on why karate or gymnastics would be better. The court then asked, “Do you remember my questions?” to which appellant replied, “[a]t this point, no, I kind of got off of it.”

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