R.F.W. v. J.L.A.W.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided September 17, 2024·No. A-0001-23·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-0001-23

R.F.W.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. J.L.A.W.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted September 12, 2024 – Decided September 17, 2024 Before Judges Mawla and Natali.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FM-04-0309-21.

Law Office of Louis Guzzo, attorneys for appellant (Eric R. Foley, on the brief).

Weir Greenblatt Pierce, LLP, attorneys for respondent (Deena L. Betze, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

1 We utilize initials pursuant to Rule 1:38-3(d).

Defendant J.L.A.W. appeals from July 27, July 28, and August 21, 2023 orders, as well as a July 28, 2023 final judgment entered by the Family Part. Collectively, the orders and judgment awarded plaintiff R.F.W. physical custody of the parties' child, E.W., and placed the child with her paternal relatives pending completion of reunification therapy with plaintiff. We affirm.

I.

This matter was tried over the course of eleven days and the trial judge heard testimony from nineteen witnesses, including: the parties, their psychological experts, treating psychologists, family members, and other fact witnesses. The focus of the parties' divorce trial was custody of their then-six- year-old child. The central dispute was whether plaintiff had abused the child, as alleged by defendant, or if defendant was alienating the child from plaintiff as a means of prevailing in the custody dispute. The trial judge rendered a thoughtful and well-reasoned oral opinion, in which she concluded the latter was the case.

The parties were married in 2009, and E.W. was born approximately seven years later. The marriage was characterized by tumult and volatility, which emanated from defendant's accusations that plaintiff was unfaithful. Defendant's delusional behavior resulted in her insulting, threatening, and

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physically abusing plaintiff. Defendant believed plaintiff's training in the military allowed him to surveil her from long distances, including from his family's home in Alaska, through electronic devices, smoke detectors, and vents in the marital residence. Defendant accused plaintiff of wanting to have sexual relations with strangers walking on the street. On one occasion she screamed at plaintiff, claiming he was a demon and that she could see demons.

Defendant had a lengthy history of mental health problems. In 2006, she was hospitalized for attempting to overdose on pills and striking herself in the head with a rock. She was diagnosed with "[m]ajor [d]epression [s]ingle [e]pisode [s]evere [w]ithout [p]sychosis." In the past, she suffered from anorexia. In 2015, a therapist reported that defendant was hearing voices when nobody was home. Defendant testified her current diagnosis was post-traumatic stress disorder.

Both parties parented E.W. after she was born and were involved in every aspect of her day-to-day care. However, the relationship declined in August 2017, when the parties went to visit plaintiff's family in Alaska. Plaintiff's mother was dying of cancer and plaintiff wanted to see her and have E.W. spend time with her grandmother. During the visit, defendant accused plaintiff's family of making fun of her and calling her names. Defendant's conduct was so

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severe that plaintiff had to take her and E.W. to the airport to return to New Jersey while he finished visiting his family. When defendant and the child returned to the marital residence, defendant began experiencing delusions that plaintiff was communicating insults. When plaintiff returned to New Jersey, he noticed defendant had dismantled a smoke detector and she woke plaintiff up to tell him he had threatened to kill her in his sleep.

E.W. was sleeping in bed with the parties when defendant made the accusation. Prior to the Alaska trip, the child had not slept in the parties' bed, but afterward she began to regress and could not sleep independently. Defendant continued to accuse plaintiff of misconduct while the parties were in bed.

The trial judge heard audio recordings made by plaintiff of defendant's bizarre conduct in the child's presence. In one recording, plaintiff was reading to E.W. because defendant would not. As he did so, defendant interrupted by making inappropriate comments to the child regarding the parties' physical relationship, including as the judge found, "asking for permission to have an affair" and telling the child "daddy is trying to drive a wedge between them, [and] . . . that he would never take her . . . . "

The parties saw a marriage counselor in 2019. The counselor testified defendant made similar accusations about plaintiff, including claiming he was

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threatening her during their session. The counselor did not observe plaintiff threaten defendant.

Defendant disclosed she had been sexually abused in the ninth or tenth grade. The counselor suggested defendant's past trauma was influencing the marriage and suggested defendant return to therapy. However, she advised she was no longer receiving therapy and taking her medications because the medications made her tired, and she philosophically disagreed with the treatment. She also disagreed that her past trauma impacted the marriage. The marriage counseling sessions were subsequently ended.

In June 2020, defendant received a Facebook friend request from a woman neither party knew. Defendant accused plaintiff of having an affair with the woman and told E.W. the woman was "daddy's girlfriend." Defendant's comments made the child nervous, and she began to laugh and agree with defendant. Plaintiff decided to move to his sister's home in Pennsylvania because he did not want this dynamic to grow and further adversely impact E.W.

The parties' separation began defendant's process of alienating E.W. from plaintiff. Defendant controlled how plaintiff would see the child. In August 2020, E.W. visited plaintiff at his sister's home, and they enjoyed playing in the hot tub. Afterwards, the child was too tired to bathe. When E.W. returned to

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her mother, defendant noticed redness on the child's vagina. Defendant contacted the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (Division) and alleged plaintiff sexually abused E.W. Following the referral, defendant ended plaintiff's parenting time.

The Division's intake worker testified and explained the Division's investigation process. Defendant made other accusations against plaintiff, including that she saw him penetrate E.W.'s labia with his fingers and the child had pain after visiting with plaintiff. Defendant also claimed E.W. made "French kissing motions and stated that's how her dad kisses her."

E.W. did not disclose any abuse to the Division. However, due to her young age and the nature of the accusations, she was subjected to a sexual assault evaluation. The evaluation revealed no evidence of abuse, and the child did not disclose any abuse to her examiners.

Both parties told the intake worker there were two incidents of domestic violence prior to E.W.'s birth. The worker testified defendant was the aggressor and was arrested on at least one of the occasions.

Although the Division concluded the child was not sexually abused, defendant asked the intake worker how she could prevent E.W. from seeing her father. Defendant also urged the worker to speak with the child's therapist. At

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first, the therapist could not be reached. Once the worker reached her and requested her records, the therapist refused and told the worker to obtain them from Pennsylvania Child Protective Services (CPS), which opened its own investigation because plaintiff resided there.

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