Reen v. Reen

3 Mass. Supp. 355
CourtMassachusetts Probate and Family Court
DecidedDecember 23, 1981
DocketNo. 75641
StatusPublished

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Reen v. Reen, 3 Mass. Supp. 355 (Mass. Super. Ct. 1981).

Opinion

FINDINGS OF FACT AND CONCLUSIONS OF LAW

This matter came for hearing before the court on a complaint for divorce brought by Marianne Elizabeth Reen, the plaintiff (wife), against Thomas Kevin Reen, the defendant (husband), on grounds of crual and abusive treatment.

I find as follows:

LENGTH OF MARRIAGE

The parties were married on January 27, 1968 and have lived together for approximately ten (10) years. The defendant left the marital residence on March 27, 1978.

CONDUCT OF THE PARTIES DURING MARRIAGE

At the beginning of the marriage the plaintiff was working as a registered nurse at the Mercy Hospital ip Springfield, Prior to the marriage the defendant was working part-time as a lab technician at the Mercy Hospital. The plaintiff purchased all the furniture for the marriage, since prior to her marriage she was living at home with her parents and saving money for the forthcoming marriage. The parties initially lived in a five-room, two-family house at 105 Woodmont St. in Springfield Massachusetts. The defendant began working in January of 1968 for Monsanto Chemical Company as a chemical techjiicial and was attending American International College evenings to finish his degree as a chemistry major, which he completed three (3) years later.

The relationship of the parties was not without verbal arguments and fights. They fought at their wedding reception and continued that fight until they were flying to New York City that evening. The parties endured a serious sexual problem in that the marriage was not consummated for the first two months.

Both parties were working and saving money for a down payment on a house and financing the defendant’s education. The parties had one car which defendant drove, and the plaintiff took a bus back and forth to work. In June of 1969 the parties purchased a duplex house on 104-106 Savoy Avenue, Springfield, Massachusetts. The plaintiff’s parents helped them with the down payment.

After graduation from American International College the defendant decided he would attend dental school and follow in his brother’s footsteps. The parties both agreed that it would be difficult for [356]*356several years and that the plaintiff would have to give up having a family. The defendant stated that it would be to both of their advantage in the long run.

The defendant graduated from American International College in June of 1971. He started working for Litton Industries in January of 1971 and worked for them until'June of 1972. In 1969 the plaintiff stated saving as much of her paycheck as possible to pay for tuition at dental school. When the defendant first applied to dental school he was not initially accepted. During that time the plaintiff was working at Mercy Hospital. She came in contact with a Dr. Irving Meyer, who was on the Board of Admission at Tufts Dental School. The plaintiff explained to Dr. Meyer that her husband had been rejected and asked if he could assist so that the defendant would be accepted in September. Through the plaintiff’s efforts and the assistance of Dr. Irving Meyer, the defendant was accepted to dental school in September of 1972.

They decided to keep the house on 104-106 Savoy Avenue and rent it out in order to pay the mortgage. They moved to Boston and the plaintiff then secured a full-time job at St. Elizabeth’s Hospital in the dialysis unit. She also worked an extra job doing home-patient care.

The defendant was attending dental school full-time and studying evpry night at the library. He would leave at 7:00 in the morning and would hot return home until 11:30 in the evening. The plaintiff would prepare two (2) meals for him, lunch and dinner, that he would take with him when he left in the morning. The plaintiff was the sole monetary provider, paying all bills, living expenses and education loans. The plaintiff also did all, the cooking and cleaning and household duties. The defendant was busy going to school and studying late at the library. Their lives were becoming more difficult since they were spending very little time together and had very little money to go anywhere. During this time the plaintiff’s parents were sending them money to help pay expenses.

During the three (3) year program at Tufts Dental School the defendant worked part-time for a short period of time as it was mandatory as part of the educational program. While the defendant was in school the'plaintiff would organize his school files and edit his papers, read some of his assignments textbooks and brief him on their contents. She submitted to his practicing dental techniques, which were sometimes distasteful and which included replacing all perfectly good fillings just for his experience.

In December of' 1974 the defendant came home and told his wife he was leaving. He moved out of the house for two (2) months and never called to tell the plaintiff where he was. The plaintiff considered moving back to Springfield as she was emotionally distraught. In February the defendant came back home and said that he was sorry and, further, that he had applied to Northwestern graduate program for Orthodontics in Chicago. This program included an additional two (2) years of post-graduate work.

In June of 1975 the defendant graduated from dental school and the parties moved to Chicago where the defendant enrolled in the Orthodontic program. ,

The parties had little savings at the time and the plaintiff decided that they could afford to move. As soon as the parties moved to Chicago the'plaintiff began doing home duty care for her aunt who was a diabetic. The plaintiff’s aunt would give the parties $50 per week plus purchase all of their food. The plaintiff later began working at St. Francis Hospital in Evanston, illinois.

When the parties made the above move to Chicago the plaintiff’s parents helped finance the trip and paid the initial rent and security deposit for their apartment.

Living was becoming financially more difficult for both parties and they barely had Uny money for necessities. The defendant was very busy at school and did not work at all during this two (2) year period. He kept telling the plaintiff that everything would be different when he [357]*357graduated and that they would have money to do all of the things that they had missed out on all of those years and that they would be able to start a family when he graduated.

After the defendant graduated from dental school the parties had planned that if they did not have a family the plaintiff would enroll in baccalaureate program program in order to obtain a bachelor’s degree in nursing and later work toward a master’s degree in nursing so that she could join the teaching profession. The defendant always indicated to the plaintiff that as soon as he graduated and began earning money he would pay for the plaintiff’s education.

In July of 1977 the defendant graduated from Northwestern and the parties moved back to Springfield where they lived with the plaintiff’s parents from August until approximately September when the parties moved to Chestnut Towers Apartments. At this time the defendant began working for his brother. The Plaintiff was not initially working but eventually gained employment at Springfield Hospital. This was in January of 1978.

When the parties moved to Springfield the defendant seemed to have a personality change.

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