Ream v. Ream

2025 UT App 105
CourtCourt of Appeals of Utah
DecidedJuly 10, 2025
DocketCase No. 20230799-CA
StatusPublished

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Ream v. Ream, 2025 UT App 105 (Utah Ct. App. 2025).

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2025 UT App 105

THE UTAH COURT OF APPEALS

DEBRA JEAN REAM, Appellant, v. JACOB M. REAM, Appellee.

Opinion No. 20230799-CA Filed July 10, 2025

Fourth District Court, Provo Department The Honorable Derek P. Pullan No. 230400484

Ryan J. Schriever and Daniel G. Shumway, Attorneys for Appellant Asa E. Kelley and Vanessa A. Vietz, Attorneys for Appellee

JUDGE AMY J. OLIVER authored this Opinion, in which JUDGES RYAN M. HARRIS and RYAN D. TENNEY concurred.

OLIVER, Judge:

¶1 Debra Jean Ream was granted a temporary civil stalking injunction (the Temporary Injunction) against her ex-husband, Jacob Ream. 1 Several hours after being served, Jacob emailed Debra a question related to their child’s health insurance. He was arrested a few days later for violating the Temporary Injunction. An evidentiary hearing was held to determine if the Temporary Injunction should be made permanent. Debra argued it should be made permanent because Jacob engaged in a course of conduct that caused her emotional distress and because he violated the

1. Because the parties share a surname, we refer to them by their first names, with no disrespect intended. Ream v. Ream

Temporary Injunction. After hearing the evidence, the district court dissolved the Temporary Injunction and declined to impose a permanent injunction. Debra filed a motion to alter or amend the findings or for a new trial under rules 52 and 59 of the Utah Rules of Civil Procedure (the Rule 59 Motion). The district court granted the motion in part—correcting two factual findings and clarifying its ruling on the course of conduct—and otherwise denied Debra’s motion. Debra appeals both orders. We affirm.

BACKGROUND 2

Debra and Jacob’s Relationship

¶2 Debra and Jacob divorced in early 2020. They have two adult children, Ryan and Jessica, and a minor child, Will. 3 After getting back together and “act[ing] as if they . . . remained married,” the relationship eventually soured again, and Debra began exclusively dating her boyfriend (Boyfriend) in 2022. The relationship between Boyfriend and Jacob became strained as well, and in February 2023 Jacob sued Boyfriend for defamation, slander, and electronic communications harassment and Boyfriend counterclaimed for electronic communications harassment. Debra and Jacob also remained involved in contentious custody proceedings.

Stalking Injunction

¶3 In March 2023, Debra filed an ex parte petition for a civil stalking injunction (the Petition), which alleged that Jacob had engaged in a course of conduct that amounted to stalking. Debra

2. “In the context of a civil stalking injunction, we will recite the facts in a light most favorable to the [district] court’s findings.” Anderson v. Deem, 2023 UT App 48, n.1, 530 P.3d 945 (cleaned up).

3. We employ pseudonyms for all three children.

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included a declaration from Boyfriend; it was signed on the same day he was served with Jacob’s defamation lawsuit. Debra filed the Petition the day after she emailed Jacob to ask if he remembered who did Jessica’s Halloween makeup the year before. Debra signed the Petition immediately below the statement, “I declare under criminal penalty under the law of Utah that everything stated in this document is true.”

¶4 The court granted the Temporary Injunction, which ordered Jacob not to “contact, phone, text, mail, e-mail, or communicate in any way with” Debra, and to stay away from Debra’s vehicle and home. The Temporary Injunction also ordered the parties to communicate about Will “only through the co-parenting app, ‘Our Family Wizard’ with the tone meter setting enabled and in use.”

¶5 Jacob was served with a copy of the Temporary Injunction a few days after the court granted it. Several hours after he was served, Jacob emailed Debra in the same email thread as Debra’s makeup question and asked, “Could you please take a picture of the front and the back of . . . my healthcare card and send to me thank you.” Jacob was later arrested for violating the Temporary Injunction by sending this email.

Evidentiary Hearing

¶6 The district court held an evidentiary hearing to determine whether Jacob had stalked Debra and whether the Temporary Injunction should be made permanent. At the hearing, Debra, Jacob, and Boyfriend testified, and the parties presented evidence regarding the eight incidents alleged in the Petition.

¶7 Wyoming Incident. In the Petition, Debra described this event as follows:

[Debra] and [Boyfriend] had traveled in his truck to stay at a hotel so they could watch [Jessica] compete

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in the national high school rodeo finals. The room was booked in [Debra’s] name with a credit card on file to pay for the room. . . . On the day they checked out, the front desk had informed them that the room had been paid by . . . [Jacob].

Debra did not testify about this incident at the hearing, but Jacob did. Jacob testified that Debra contacted him about flying her to Wyoming to watch Jessica compete at the national high school rodeo finals. Jacob agreed and paid for the flight. Debra and Jacob had a discussion over text about whether Debra could stay in Jacob’s trailer or if she should get her own room. Then, rather than flying, Debra drove to Wyoming with Boyfriend and stayed in a motel. Debra and Jacob got along well, which prompted Jacob to pay for Debra’s motel room. However, he testified that he did not end up doing so because someone else had already paid for it.

¶8 Moving Vehicle Incident. Jessica was driving Debra, Jacob, and Will in Jessica’s vehicle that was pulling a horse trailer. During the drive, Debra “ma[de] some derogatory statements about [Jacob’s] sister or niece.” Jessica pushed back on Debra’s comments and an argument ensued, with both Debra and Jessica yelling and screaming. Jacob began to record the argument for around thirty seconds but stopped after Will told Debra that Jacob was filming her. As the argument escalated, Debra demanded Jessica pull over and let her out. Jessica pulled over but there was not enough room to pull off the road all the way, so the trailer was in the road to some degree. Jacob told Jessica to continue driving, and Debra did not get out. A dispute occurred about whether Debra would take Will with her and ultimately, Jessica drove to Debra’s house where Debra got out of the vehicle.

¶9 Home Incident. Jacob returned Will to Debra’s house after his parent-time, but she was not home. Ryan was inside with some friends, and Jacob asked everyone if they had anything to eat and offered to buy them something from a fast food

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restaurant. Jacob bought food and brought it back to the house. Debra and Jacob disagreed about whether Jacob “entered the house and sat on the couch or not.”

¶10 School Christmas Party Incident. Boyfriend saw two cars that he thought belonged to Jacob drive by the elementary school, but he was unable to identify who was driving the cars.

¶11 First Police Station Incident. Words were exchanged between Jacob and Debra at one of their parent-time exchanges at the police station. Jacob accused Debra and Boyfriend of being intoxicated, and as he got back into his car, he angrily directed a police officer to search Debra’s car. The officer spoke with Debra and Boyfriend and ultimately did not find them to be intoxicated.

¶12 Second Police Station Incident. Debra and Boyfriend picked Will up from Jacob at the police station. While Debra was buckling Will into his seat in Boyfriend’s truck, Jacob “got into his vehicle, did a U-turn and pulled up alongside the truck, then rolled down his window” and took out his phone.

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