Ponder v. Been

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedJuly 2, 2025
Docket24-552
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA24-552

Filed 2 July 2025

Mecklenburg County, No. 17 CVS 017308-590

MARK W. PONDER, Plaintiff,

v.

STEPHEN R. BEEN, Defendant.

Appeal by defendant from order entered 14 December 2023 by Judge Nathan

J. Poovey in Superior Court, Mecklenburg County. Heard in the Court of Appeals 13

February 2025.

Sodoma Law, P.C., by Amy E. Simpson and Caitlin H. Hickman, for plaintiff- appellee.

Womble Bond Dickinson (US) LLP, by James P. Cooney III and Patrick Grayson Spaugh, for defendant-appellant.

STROUD, Judge.

This matter is before us following a jury verdict finding Stephen Been

(“Defendant”) not liable for alienation of affections and Mark Ponder (“Plaintiff”)

liable for abuse of process. The jury awarded Defendant compensatory and punitive

damages, and Plaintiff moved for judgment notwithstanding the verdict (“JNOV”).

The trial court granted Plaintiff’s motion and Defendant appealed. We reverse the

trial court’s order setting aside the jury verdict.

I. Factual and Procedural Background PONDER V. BEEN

Opinion of the Court

The factual background and procedural history of this case were set forth by

this Court in Ponder v. Been, 275 N.C. App. 626, 853 S.E.2d 302 (2020) (“Ponder I”).

We briefly summarize Ponder I, the Supreme Court’s subsequent reversal, and the

additional facts now pertinent to Defendant’s argument on appeal. The relevant facts

from Ponder I are as follows. See id. at 626-628, 853 S.E.2d at 304.

Plaintiff met Mary in 2008, and they married in June 2010. Mary had two

children from a prior marriage, John1 and Max, and worked in the home as a stay-at-

home mother. Plaintiff owned a home in Naples, Florida and Mary occasionally

vacationed alone at the home. During one of her visits in May 2013, Mary met

Defendant, who lived nearby. Following this visit, Mary and Defendant remained in

frequent contact through text messages and telephone calls.

In November 2013, Plaintiff confronted Mary and accused her of having an

affair with Defendant. This encounter resulted in Mary seeking a domestic violence

protection order against Plaintiff. On 13 November 2013, the order was granted and

Mary and Plaintiff separated. After their separation, Mary remained in the marital

home until June 2014, when she and her children moved to Naples, Florida and lived

in properties owned by Defendant.

On 5 November 2015, Plaintiff filed a complaint against Defendant alleging

alienation of affections. Plaintiff voluntarily dismissed this action on 15 September

1 We have used pseudonyms to protect the identities of the children.

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2016 after Defendant moved to dismiss for lack of personal jurisdiction. On 14

September 2017, Plaintiff refiled his claim for alienation of affections against

Defendant, seeking compensatory and punitive damages. Plaintiff alleged “[w]ith full

knowledge of her marital status, Defendant, willfully, maliciously and intentionally

engaged in a campaign to alienate [Mary] from Plaintiff,” which severed Plaintiff and

Mary’s marital bond. In response, Defendant again moved to dismiss Plaintiff’s

action for lack of personal jurisdiction, citing a violation of North Carolina’s long-arm

statute, North Carolina General Statute Section 1-75.4.

On 29 October 2019, the trial court entered its order denying Defendant’s

motion to dismiss for lack of personal jurisdiction. Defendant appealed. On 31

December 2020, with a divided panel, this Court in Ponder I reversed the trial court’s

order. Ponder I, 275 N.C. App. at 635, 853 S.E.2d at 308. On 11 March 2022, our

Supreme Court reversed this Court’s decision in Ponder I for the reasons discussed

in the dissenting opinion. Ponder v. Been, 380 N.C. 570, 869 S.E.2d 193 (2022). Thus,

consistent with the dissenting opinion in Ponder I, the trial court’s order denying

Defendant’s motion to dismiss for lack of personal jurisdiction was affirmed.

Following the issuance of the Supreme Court’s decision, on 20 April 2022

Defendant filed an answer to Plaintiff’s 2017 complaint for alienation of affections.

Defendant also asserted a counterclaim against Plaintiff for abuse of process and

sought an award of punitive damages. The basis of his claim arose from Plaintiff’s

service of process of the 14 September 2017 complaint. Defendant alleged that on 28

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October 2017 Plaintiff appeared at Defendant’s home, allegedly to locate Defendant

to serve him with the complaint. Plaintiff was highly intoxicated when he arrived

and he initiated an altercation involving Defendant, Mary, and Mary’s son. Following

the altercation, a court in Florida issued a domestic violence protection order against

Plaintiff. Defendant alleged that Plaintiff used the service of his complaint as a

pretextual basis for appearing at his home.

The trial on Plaintiff’s alienation of affections claim and Defendant’s abuse of

process counterclaim spanned 14 August 2023 to 24 August 2023. The evidence

presented at trial regarding the background of this matter and Defendant’s abuse of

process claim tended to show the following.2

After Plaintiff and Mary wed in 2010, Plaintiff engaged in verbal, physical, and

emotional abuse toward Mary on a daily basis. The severity of the abuse worsened

as Plaintiff began consuming alcohol heavily about six out of seven days per week.

Mary’s sons, who were ages 6 and 7 in 2010, often witnessed the abuse and

experienced it themselves. Plaintiff yelled and cursed at them and occasionally hit

them. Mary’s older son, John, testified that Plaintiff would hit him across the face

with an open palm and continued to do so until Plaintiff got a reaction out of him.

When Mary tried to intervene as Plaintiff engaged in this behavior with her sons,

2 The only issue on appeal arises from the trial court’s order granting JNOV in favor of Plaintiff on

Defendant’s abuse of process claim. Therefore, we do not address the evidence presented at trial regarding Plaintiff’s alienation of affections claim except to the extent necessary to address the issue presented on appeal.

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Plaintiff redirected the abuse toward Mary. At trial, Plaintiff denied the abuse of

Mary and her children.

Mary met Defendant in May 2013, and they remained in contact through text

messages and telephone conversations. The last incident of Plaintiff’s abuse of Mary

occurred in November 2013, after Plaintiff accused Mary of having an affair with

Defendant. On 10 November 2013, Plaintiff arrived home drunk and told Mary’s sons

that they had a new father, Defendant, and they needed to leave. Plaintiff made

threatening remarks to Mary, stating he would “cut her [vagina] out so that no one

else could have her.” Mary’s younger son, Max, called the police and Mary and her

sons stayed in a hotel that night. On 13 November 2013, after Mary and her sons

returned home, Plaintiff yelled at John and made several degrading comments to

him. Max again called the police. Later that day, Mary obtained a domestic violence

protection order against Plaintiff, and he was required to leave the marital home.

During Plaintiff’s testimony, he denied what occurred on 10 and 13 November 2013.

Thereafter, Plaintiff and Mary communicated through attorneys about their

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