Pirayesh v. Pirayesh

596 S.E.2d 505, 359 S.C. 284, 2004 S.C. App. LEXIS 137
CourtCourt of Appeals of South Carolina
DecidedMay 11, 2004
Docket3793
StatusPublished
Cited by23 cases

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Pirayesh v. Pirayesh, 596 S.E.2d 505, 359 S.C. 284, 2004 S.C. App. LEXIS 137 (S.C. Ct. App. 2004).

Opinion

HEARN, C.J.:

Michael M. Pirayesh (Husband) and Mary Alice Pirayesh (Wife) were granted a divorce on the ground of one year’s continuous separation without cohabitation. Husband was granted custody of the parties’ two children, but was prohibited from traveling with the children outside the United States. Wife was granted visitation rights and was ordered to pay child support. The parties were ordered to split the guardian ad litem fees and pay their own attorney’s fees. Both parties appeal this order. We affirm in part, reverse in part, and remand.

FACTS

Husband, who was born in Iran, moved to the United States in 1978 and has since become a United States citizen. On June 11, 1984, he and Wife married. The parties had two children during their marriage, a son, now fifteen years old, and a daughter, now thirteen years old. Although Wife and children have always lived together in Greenville, South Carolina, Husband worked for six months in Portland, Oregon in 1996 and thereafter in Atlanta, Georgia until 1998. At the time of the divorce hearing in March 2001, Husband had obtained a job in Charlotte, North Carolina, and had been living there for approximately one year. The children resided with Wife during the couple’s one year’s separation as well as during the pendency of this litigation.

Husband claims the marital breakdown was a result of Wife’s inability to handle the family finances and the accrual *288 of a large amount of credit card debt. When asked if he and Wife tried to budget their money, Husband testified:

Yes, we did.... Like for example, we said we don’t have ... certain money to spend on certain things.... [W]e said, if you are going to make a long distance phone call let’s just keep it under a hundred dollars.... She did not follow that. As a matter of fact, I have one conversation that she had with her mom for a hundred and twenty minutes. My ear get[s] hurt after fifteen (15) minutes.... Groceries] for example, you know. We bought groceries]; that’s fine. Half of the grocery throw away (sic). Either she burned it cooking or she didn’t like to eat left over food.

Husband also testified that Wife had been un- or underemployed for much of the marriage despite the fact that she has always been in good health.

Wife contended that the failure of the marriage was largely a consequence of Husband’s emotional and physical distance from her and the children, due namely to his out of town employment and his preoccupation with playing tennis. According to Wife, the couple’s problems began when, on the day of their daughter’s birth, Wife called Husband to inform him that their newborn had to be monitored because she had stopped breathing. Wife testified as follows:

[Tjhat evening I had fed Debra, she stopped breathing. And I tried to wake her up. And nothing was happening ----And I rang the nurse’s station from the bed.... They came and they got her to start breathing again. I called [Husband and] told him what had happened.... It was probably 10 o’clock when I called back. And his response was, “[Wife], I was asleep.” And he hung up.

Wife testified that Husband’s response to their daughter’s health problems made her “wonderf ] what kind of man [she] had married” and that their marital problems only increased from then on.

Both parties sought custody of their two minor children. During the presentation of Husband’s case, Husband and three witnesses testified on his behalf. The witnesses, all of whom knew Husband through his tennis hobby, testified that both Husband and Wife were loving parents. Husband testified that his primary reason for seeking custody was because, *289 during the pendency of the litigation, the water in the Wife’s home was cut off twice, the phone was disconnected five times, and the electricity was also turned off. He also complained that Wife was late dropping the children off to visit with him a number of times and that Wife did not effectively discipline the children while they were in her care. Husband felt he was the better parent because he had a flexible job that paid $60,000 a year, he knew how to budget his money, and he could control the children.

During the presentation of Wife’s case, seven witnesses testified that Wife was a good parent. 1 One of those witnesses was a neighbor who has lived next door to the couple for six years. The neighbor testified that he and his wife had to care for Wife after she had a hysterectomy because Husband was in Atlanta during the week and playing tennis on the weekend. 2 The neighbor also testified that Husband seemed volatile with the children. Another witness testified that she helped Wife with her daughter’s birthday party, and at the party, Husband complained to the witness about Wife. The witness testified that Husband seemed “very alienated and angry.”

Wife testified that, in addition to having primary custody of the children during the couple’s separation, she had been the primary caretaker for the children during the marriage. In addition to Husband working out of state for two-and-a-half years, she claimed Husband played tennis five days a week, no matter what was going on in their children’s lives. 3 She also testified that Husband gets agitated easily and that he was always critical of her and the children.

*290 Wife testified that she has worked during most of the marriage and that the periods during which she was unemployed occurred when the children were newborns or when they were ill. 4 While she admitted that she had trouble paying the utilities during the parties’ separation, she pointed out that she and Husband were having trouble paying their bills while they were a two-income family and that those problems were amplified during the separation. She further explained that she missed several days of work during the parties’ separation when she severely burned her leg from her knee to her hip, which put a further strain on her finances.

On cross-examination, Wife was asked about counseling appointments the children had missed. 5 Wife explained that the December visit was rescheduled because the counselor was on vacation. Wife testified that she rescheduled the next visit because she was working with a woman who was nine-and-a-half months pregnant, and Wife felt she could not leave the woman alone. On the third attempted visit, Wife and children went to the office, but when they arrived, they found out that the fee had increased from ten to fifteen dollars; when Wife did not have the extra money, she was told she would have to reschedule. On the fourth attempt at rescheduling, the brakes on Wife’s car went out on the way to the appointment.

Wife was also asked about why the parties’ daughter had not had a psychological evaluation, as previously ordered by the family court, and why the daughter had missed three dentist appointments.

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