P.H. v. J.H.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided July 10, 2025·No. A-2273-22/A-0145-23·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2273-22

A-0145-23

P.H., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. J.H., Defendant-Respondent.

J.H., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. P.A.H., Defendant-Appellant.

Argued May 6, 2025 – Decided July 10, 2025 Before Judges Smith and Chase.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Somerset County, Docket Nos. FV-18-0641-23 and FV-18-0563-23.

Thomas D. Baldwin argued the cause for appellant (Chiesa Shahinian & Giantomasi, PC, attorneys;

Thomas D. Baldwin and Samantha M. Weckenman on the briefs).

Mark H. Sobel argued the cause for respondent (Greenbaum, Rowe, Smith & Davis, LLP, attorneys;

Mark H. Sobel, of counsel and on the brief; Lisa B.

DiPasqua, on the brief).

PER CURIAM These back-to-back appeals arise out of a domestic violence trial between P.H.1 and J.H. J.H. secured a temporary restraining order (TRO) against P.H. and pursued a final restraining order (FRO) under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA) 2 against him. Before trial could commence, P.H. unsuccessfully sought a TRO against J.H., which was rejected by a domestic violence hearing officer (DVHO). The trial court denied P.H. the opportunity to amend or refile his TRO complaint, determining that P.H. had waived his right to do so before the DVHO. The ensuing trial took fifteen days, with the sole issue being whether an FRO should be issued against P.H. After the trial's conclusion, the court made findings and granted an FRO against P.H.

1 We use initials to protect the parties' privacy and the confidentiality of these proceedings in accordance with Rule 1:38-3(d)(10). 2 N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35.

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Compensatory damages pursuant to the PDVA were ordered in a separate hearing by a second judge, because the judge presiding over the trial had retired.

P.H. appeals, contending, among other things, that the trial court erred by making unsupported Silver3 prong one and prong two findings in J.H.'s complaint against him, resulting in the issuance of an FRO. He also contends the trial court erred when it denied him the opportunity to amend or refile his TRO complaint against her.

We affirm the court's orders granting the FRO and compensatory damages against P.H. We reverse the order denying P.H. the opportunity to amend his TRO complaint or refile it. On that issue, we remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.

I.

We obtain the facts from the extensive record, including the fifteen -day FRO trial. J.H. and P.H. were married on April 8, 2010. Prior to their marriage, the parties executed a prenuptial agreement protecting their separate premarital property interests. They have two children, now eleven and thirteen years old.

3 Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006).

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In July 2022, J.H. filed for divorce. She alleged that "[f]or years, my husband has been controlling, critical, condescending, belittling and, at times, aggressive." She further alleged that P.H. never permitted her to have a key to their current home or the ones they previously lived in. According to J.H., P.H. had sole access to their home's front door security camera, the security system outside the home, and the home Wi-Fi remote activation system.

On December 17, 2022, J.H. alleged that P.H. threw a couch pillow at her while she and the children were watching a movie. She took out her phone to record P.H.'s behavior, and P.H. grabbed her arm, attempting to get the phone away from her. On the video in evidence from J.H.'s phone, she states, "[s]top— stop, [P.H]. I'm asking you to leave me alone. Please leave me alone . . . stop it. Don't—let go of my arm." The same video reveals that a pillow is visible on the floor. The record also includes another video taken by J.H., where one of the children asks if they should call 9-1-1. In a phone call, J.H. asked her friend, R.D., to come to her home. She told R.D. that P.H. was drunk, "scaring the kids," and following her to try and take her phone. She also told R.D. that she wanted to take the children to her mother's home, and that she was afraid of what P.H. might do to her if she was alone.

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When R.D. arrived, J.H. spoke with her by the front door, inside the home, with the children present. J.H. went upstairs to pack a bag. P.H. asked R.D. to leave and, when she refused, he grabbed her to remove her from the home. J.H. came to the top of the stairs and began yelling at P.H. to let R.D. go. A video taken by J.H. shows P.H. telling R.D. to leave, grabbing her arm and dragging her to the front door. P.H. eventually removed R.D. from the home, and each of them called the police. J.H. and the children went into a bathroom, locked the door, and she called the police. J.H. testified that the children were "terrified" and that she was "scared that he was going to hurt me." When police arrived, J.H. told them P.H. grabbed her by the arm, but she also told them she did not need any medical attention.

J.H. alleged past acts of domestic violence. They included: (1) a 2011 confrontation where she alleged P.H. came home drunk and followed her around their home, ripping a landline phone out of the wall when she threatened to call the police; (2) a 2013 incident where J.H. learned that P.H. had installed concealed surveillance cameras in their shared bedroom; (3) a 2016 confrontation where P.H. confronted her angrily and physically threw her into a wall while she was looking at papers on his desk; and (4) a 2022 incident where P.H. chased down a delivery driver, stopping the driver at a traffic light and

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asking for the driver's identity. She secured an amended TRO on December 23, 2022.

On January 17, 2023, P.H. sought a TRO against J.H. and appeared before a DVHO. The DVHO declined to recommend granting the TRO and advised P.H. that "you can appeal my decision. You'll go before one of our Superior Court judges." The officer advised P.H. that, on appeal, the Superior Court judge would "apply the same case law I applied." The record of P.H.'s colloquy with the DVHO shows that he declined to file an appeal at that moment, stating that he "[did] not want to waste the court's time."

On the first day of trial, February 2, 2023, counsel appeared before the trial court and recounted his pre-trial efforts to clarify P.H.'s right to appeal the DVHO's decision. Counsel stated:

[m]y client left . . . court around 5:20[p.m] . . . January 17th. I appeared on January 18th and communicated with domestic violence intake officers. The first officer with whom I spoke indicated to me that we had a unique circumstance in that my client was going to be permitted to proceed with his appeal.

The trial court replied:

I spoke with [the TRO appeal court], because [it] was referenced within court papers, that the issue had been brought to [the court's] attention, and . . . [it] had determined that . . . notification of appeal had been adequately given to [P.H.], and [P.H.] had decided not

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to take the appeal . . . . [The court] . . . decided that an appeal, therefore, should not occur after the initial decision of your client not to appeal. And I know you have argued already up to this point in time that that's not a complete or fair or an accurate characterization [of] your client's decision making. But [the TRO appeal court] determined that your client should not, after the date of January 18th, be permitted to take [an]

appeal after he had already [decided] on the 17th not to appeal . . . .

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