P.F.-T. v. M.T.

CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedJanuary 13, 2023
Docket2210366
StatusPublished

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Opinion

Rel: January 13, 2023

Notice: This opinion is subject to formal revision before publication in the advance sheets of Southern Reporter. Readers are requested to notify the Reporter of Decisions, Alabama Appellate Courts, 300 Dexter Avenue, Montgomery, Alabama 36104-3741 ((334) 229-0650), of any typographical or other errors, in order that corrections may be made before the opinion is published in Southern Reporter.

ALABAMA COURT OF CIVIL APPEALS OCTOBER TERM, 2022-2023 _________________________

2210366 _________________________

P.F.-T.

v.

M.T.

Appeal from Montgomery Circuit Court (DR-21-900034)

PER CURIAM.

This appeal involves issues of child custody arising from the

dissolution of a same-sex marriage. P.F.-T. ("the spouse") appeals from a

divorce judgment entered by the Montgomery Circuit Court ("the trial

court") divorcing her from M.T. ("the mother") and denying her an award 2210366

of custody of M.A.T., the mother's child ("the child"), born in March 2013.

We affirm.

Procedural History

In January 2021, the mother filed a petition requesting that the

trial court divorce the parties based on incompatibility of temperament.

The spouse filed an answer to the mother's divorce petition in which she

addressed the mother's allegations and alleged that the child had been

intended to be the child of both parties. After the mother filed an

amended divorce petition, the spouse filed an amended answer and a

counterclaim for a divorce in which, among other things, she sought an

award of custody of the child.

The trial court held a trial in November 2021, and the parties

submitted briefs for the trial court's consideration. In December 2021, the

trial court entered a judgment that, in pertinent part, divorced the

parties based on incompatibility of temperament and denied the spouse's

request for custody of the child. The spouse timely filed a notice of appeal.

Facts

The parties began a romantic relationship in 2008. The mother,

who was then a member of the armed services of the United States, was

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deployed to Iraq in 2009; when she returned in 2010, she and the spouse

began residing together in North Carolina. The mother testified that she

had been attempting to conceive a child before meeting the spouse. When

she became romantically involved with the spouse, the mother testified

that she had no intent of sharing a child with anybody because, she said,

she "didn't need anybody to help [her] raise that child; [she] just wanted

a child." The mother further testified that the spouse had "c[o]me along

at the beginning" when "[the mother] [was] trying to have a child, and it

was nice …."

The spouse testified that she and the mother began looking for

sperm banks and registered sperm donors together but found that

process to be very expensive. She and the mother testified that the

mother had tried unsuccessfully to become pregnant with one individual

before the beginning of her relationship with the spouse. After they began

their relationship, the mother and the spouse invited a male

acquaintance to move into their residence and impregnate the mother,

but the mother's attempts at becoming pregnant with that male friend

were also unsuccessful. Another friend of the mother, J.B., offered to help

her get pregnant. With the spouse's consent, the mother accepted J.B.'s

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offer and had sexual intercourse with him and became pregnant. The

spouse testified that she had had no issue with the mother's having

sexual intercourse with J.B., because, she said, she wanted to have a

child with the mother and to be a family together.

During the mother's pregnancy, the spouse attended doctor's

appointments and prenatal classes with the mother, the parties had a

baby shower, and the parties participated in a maternity photo shoot. In

March 2013, the mother gave birth to the child and the spouse was

present. The spouse's name was not put on the birth certificate at that

time, nor was it subsequently added.

In July 2014, the parties were married in the District of Columbia

because that jurisdiction was one of few in the United States that then

allowed same-sex marriage. The mother testified that, if she had been

allowed, she might have married the spouse sooner. After giving birth to

the child, the mother returned to work while the spouse, who was not

working at the time, stayed at home and took care of the child. The child

referred to the mother as "mommy" and to the spouse as "other mommy."

The mother testified that the spouse was listed as the child's guardian in

school and medical records because, she testified, there was only one

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space for "mother." According to her testimony, the mother believes that

child views the spouse as a parent and considers the spouse's family as

his family.

In 2016, the spouse left the marital residence in North Carolina and

went to Alabama to take care of her mother. That same year, the mother

and the child followed the spouse to Alabama. The parties and the child

lived together in Alabama until the parties separated in 2019. The spouse

moved in with a man, B.W.M., and became pregnant with B.W.M.'s child.

When asked about this at trial, the spouse testified that she did not

consider this adultery even though it occurred during the parties'

marriage because, she stated, the parties had been in an "open

relationship."

After the parties' separation, the spouse would spend time with the

child at the mother and child's residence in Alabama and care for the

child every other weekend. The mother testified that she was angry at

the spouse and did not want the child to spend time with the spouse. Her

anger, she said, arose from the spouse leaving her to be with B.W.M. after

the mother would not agree to an arrangement whereby the spouse would

become pregnant with B.W.M.'s child and have him serve as a father

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figure to the spouse’s child. The spouse testified that she had regularly

spent time with the child until the child turned seven years old, which is

when the mother began prohibiting the spouse from visiting with the

child.

Analysis

On appeal, the spouse contends that the trial court erred when it

refused to consider her a presumptive parent of the child and award her

custody of or visitation with the child. She argues that the presumptions

of paternity set forth in § 26-17-204, Ala. Code 1975, as part of the

Alabama Uniform Parentage Act ("the AUPA"), § 26-17-101 et seq., Ala.

Code 1975, should extend to women same-sex and marriages. That

section provides, in pertinent part:

"A man is presumed to be the father of a child if

"…

"(5) while the child is under the age of majority, he receives the child into his home and openly holds out the child as his natural child or otherwise openly holds out the child as his natural child and establishes a significant parental relationship with the child by providing emotional and financial support for the child."

§ 26-17-204(a)(5), Ala. Code 1975.

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The spouse concedes that § 26-17-204, on its face, does not apply to

her because she is a woman who was in a same-sex marriage, noting in

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