Peter Zabaski v. Mary Ann Zabaski

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedDecember 11, 2002
DocketM2001-02013-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT NASHVILLE September 6, 2002 Session

PETER JOHN ZABASKI v. MARY ANN DALE ZABASKI

Appeal from the Circuit Court for Davidson County No. 00D-130 Marietta M. Shipley, Judge

No. M2001-02013-COA-R3-CV - Filed December 11, 2002

The trial court granted a divorce to the parents of an only child with a history of severe medical problems, and awarded them joint custody. The wife contends on appeal that the trial court’s order of custody and visitation was not in the child’s best interest. She also argues that the court erred by setting the husband’s child support obligation too low, and by failing to award her alimony in futuro. We affirm the trial court.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed and Remanded

BEN H. CANTRELL, P.J., M.S., delivered the opinion of the court, in which PATRICIA J. COTTRELL , J. and THOMAS W. GRAHAM, SP. J., joined.

Mary Frances Lyle and David Lyle, Nashville, Tennessee, for the appellant, Mary Ann Dale Zabaski.

Thomas F. Bloom, Nashville, Tennessee, for the appellee, Peter John Zabaski.

OPINION

I. A BELOVED CHILD

Peter John Zabaski and Mary Ann Dale Zabaski married on August 7, 1982. Their son Alex was born on January 11, 1992, when Mr. Zabaski was forty-three, and Ms. Zabaski was thirty-nine. Alex came into the world with numerous congenital defects, including transposed arteries and a cleft palate. The child underwent his first heart surgery when he was ten days old, and has since undergone fourteen other surgeries. Because of Alex’s needs, the mother gave up her interior design business to dedicate herself to his care and upbringing. The father, a successful businessman, continued to work to support the family. He testified that he also took an active role in the child’s upbringing, while the mother claimed that his participation was minimal prior to the institution of divorce proceedings. Despite his medical problems, the proof shows that Alex has become a well-adjusted and confident child. At the time of trial, he was a fourth grader at the Ensworth School. He was doing very well academically, participated in sports, and had many friends. The mother argues that his success is largely due to her total devotion to his needs. The father argues that his contribution has also been important, particularly in the area of teaching his son organizational skills, promptness and self-control, and helping him academically.

While the parents may not have been in total agreement on some child-rearing questions, they were usually able to work out their differences. Unfortunately, they found it more difficult to agree about areas not directly related to child-rearing, especially money, about which they frequently argued. Their conflicts intensified in 1999, which was a difficult year for Mr. Zabaski. His mother passed away in July of that year. In December, the company he worked for was sold to another company, and he was told that he would have to move to Dallas if he wished to keep working. Mr. Zabaski had accumulated nearly $3 million through years of effort, and he chose not to make the move.

On January 14, 2000, Peter Zabaski filed a complaint for divorce. The complaint alleged irreconcilable differences and inappropriate conduct as grounds, without further elaboration. The wife’s answer, filed on March 3, 2000 denied the grounds, but alleged as an affirmative defense, again without elaboration, that the ill conduct of the husband was a justifiable cause of the conduct he complained of. Mary Ann Zabaski did not file a counter-claim for divorce.

Despite the filing of the divorce complaint, both parties continued to live with their son in their 7,300 square foot home on Belle Meade Boulevard. In June of 2001, the parties signed a contract for the sale of the marital home. After the preliminary hearing on the complaint and the closing on the sale, Mary Ann Zabaski and Alex moved into a recently renovated, but somewhat smaller (2,026 square foot) house on Parmer Avenue that the parties owned, and Mr. Zabaski moved into a rented apartment.

II. PROCEEDINGS IN THE TRIAL COURT

The court conducted a preliminary hearing on June 15, 2001. The Zabaskis’ attorneys explained to the court that their clients had reached agreement on the division of the financial assets of the marriage. Among other things, they decided to equally divide the net proceeds of over $1 million that would result from the sale of the marital home. Mr. Zabaski agreed to quitclaim to his wife his interest in the Parmer Avenue house, a Belle Meade residence which was valued at $280,000, and the court agreed to allow him to withdraw $280,000 from his Trustmark Financial account to compensate for his surrender of the house to his wife.

The court also agreed to name Cathy Griffin as a mediator, to help the parties reach agreement on a child-rearing arrangement that would be in the best interest of Alex. Ms. Griffin was a counselor who had worked with the Zabaskis for several years. The court awarded Mary Ann

-2- Zabaski pendente lite custody of Alex, with reasonable visitation for her husband, and ordered him to pay all utilities on the Parmer Avenue house, as well as pendente lite support of $350 per week.

The court held a hearing on July 24, 2001. The testimony of the parties and of Ms. Griffin made it quite evident that the parties exhibited very different temperaments, and almost opposite approaches to daily life. It appears that Mary Anne Zabaski is spontaneous and creative, but heedless of financial constraints and incapable of being on time, while Peter Zabaski is hard-working, highly organized, and punctual, but has been impatient and prone to anger. Ms. Griffin testified that these differences did not necessarily work to Alex’s disadvantage, and that the child had managed to blend the positive traits of both of his parents. She testified that Ms. Zabaski nurtured his creative fun- loving side, while Mr. Zabaski taught strong values and maintained discipline.

Mary Anne Zabaski asked for sole custody of Alex, with normal visitation for the father. Peter Zabaski asked the court to order joint custody of Alex, with equal time for both parents. He submitted two alternate parenting plans: one would switch custody weekly, the other would have both parties exercising custody for half of each school week, with alternating custody on weekends.

Ms. Griffin declined to make a recommendation, because she considered that to be outside the purview of her role as mediator. She stated, however, that despite their other conflicts, both parents had always managed to cooperate very well on matters involving their child, and had done an excellent job of raising him. She also said that both parties needed to have lives and interests of their own, and that it was not in the child’s best interest for either of them to be solely focused on his welfare. She further observed that Alex was an extremely resilient child, but expressed concern that moving too frequently from one parent to another could lead to difficulties.

There was extensive testimony as to the financial affairs of the parties, which we need not discuss in any detail in this section. Peter Zabaski argued that he should not have to pay any alimony or child support, in light of the income from the investments that his wife would be receiving as her share of the marital property, and of his proposal that Alex spend as much time with him as with the mother. Ms. Zabaski argued that she needed much more support than the marital investment property would generate, because of the standard of living she and Alex had grown accustomed to, and the need to keep up with the very wealthy families of the child’s classmates.

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