Pepe v. Pepe, No. Fa90 0276205s (Feb. 18, 1992)

1992 Conn. Super. Ct. 1304, 7 Conn. Super. Ct. 351
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedFebruary 18, 1992
DocketNo. FA90 0276205S
StatusUnpublished

This text of 1992 Conn. Super. Ct. 1304 (Pepe v. Pepe, No. Fa90 0276205s (Feb. 18, 1992)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Pepe v. Pepe, No. Fa90 0276205s (Feb. 18, 1992), 1992 Conn. Super. Ct. 1304, 7 Conn. Super. Ct. 351 (Colo. Ct. App. 1992).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION The parties were married on August 24, 1974, in Trumbull, Connecticut. The wife's maiden name was Jill Kaufman. The plaintiff and defendant have continuously resided in the State of Connecticut for more than one year next preceding the date of the filing of this complaint. The parties have three minor children issue of this marriage, to wit: Eric Pepe born May 29, 1977, Evan Pepe born January 3, 1980, and Christopher Pepe born December 6, 1982. No other minor children have been born to the wife since the date of the marriage. The State of Connecticut is not now or has not in the past contributed to the support of the parties or their family.

The husband and wife are both 41 years of age and in good health. The wife is a former school teacher and has a Master's Degree in counseling but has not worked since the oldest child was born in 1977. The wife has been the primary caretaker of the children and the care giver.

The husband graduated from the University of Bridgeport with a BS in business with a major in marketing and a minor in economics in 1972. He started work at an early age in is father's shop. He was a tool room attendant; he learned how to make tools; he became a materials handler; he was press setup man; he supervised the press room; he designed tools and dies; he brought into the business computer aided machines, and became involved in operations and sales which included sales, purchasing and designing. During the time that he was married, the company became more valuable, and his participation and value to the company became more substantial. The company he worked for was the Arcade Tool and Die Company. CT Page 1305

In 1982 the defendant had earned income of $128,400.00. In 1985 he had earned income of $234,921.00. In 1987 he had earned income of $197,005.00. In 1988 he had earned income of $385,718.00. In 1989 he had earned income of $603,844.00. In 1990 his income was $354,724.00, all as the result of unearned income. The business was sold August 15, 1989, and substantial funds were placed in a trust fund which was established on December 28, 1988, as shown on plaintiff's exhibit 2. The schedule of assets in that trust, as of January 14, 1992, is shown on plaintiff's exhibit 14 and is $1,866,546.00.

The husband has indicated that he has no earned income and does not desire to work at this time. He described himself as having no present intention to seek a job. There are two and a half years left on the noncompete clause in the tool and die business agreement. He is thinking that that area is looking bigger, as he described it, "on the horizon" and may go back into that business which he knows.

Despite the gigantic earnings of the husband, the parties had no savings at the time the business was sold. It is clear that because of the husband's lavish spending habits the trust was established in order to protect the husband from himself.

The children of the marriage are substantially protected by trust funds set up for the benefit of the children by Frank W. Pepe, Sr. Exhibit D shows there are in excess of a million dollars in total for the three boys, each of them approximating an equal share of that million dollars.

The wife testified that the marriage broke down irretrievably because of the husband's alcohol and drug consumption, his gambling, his lack of interest in the family, and his physical and emotional abuse. The court, after having heard the evidence, finds that the husband's conduct was the cause of the breakdown of the marriage.

Throughout the marriage, the husband drank excessively. Towards the end of the marriage, he did not come home from work to eat dinner. There were signs throughout the marriage that he was drinking, agitated, aggressive and not in a good mood. He had been intoxicated in front of the children's coaches, referees and other parents. There was an incident where he carried a baseball bat on his shoulder throughout one baseball season to intimidate the other coaches. (The husband is a man of large, physical stature.)

The husband would have a few joints of marijuana CT Page 1306 cigarettes before he left for work. The husband started "coke" (cocaine) approximately ten or eleven years ago. He even did it during the day. Large sums of money from the household went into the cocaine. "Coke" controlled his life as was testified to by his wife. It became more important than his job and his family. Exhibit ten shows checks that were used for cocaine purchases consisting of 43 checks ranging in sums from approximately $500.00 to $2,100.00. The husband admitted that at times during the marriage he was doing a thousand dollars a week in cocaine and $700.00 a week at Jai Alai bets at the same time. He admitted to $52,000.00 worth of cocaine abuse on an annual basis at times and $35,000.00 a year in Jai Alai bets. Jai Alai slips were introduced into evidence as exhibits 11 and 11a. Exhibit 11 shows $300.00 worth of bets and exhibit 11a shows $500.00 worth of bets in one day. The husband did not want to do family things and did not attend Little League banquets or Cub Scouts activities.

The husband took a loan on his insurance policy for drugs. He rented a summer house to receive money for drugs. The family tried to get him to stop drug use. He attended lots of programs including Cocaine Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous. In 1986 a drug intervention was arranged but it did not work. The husband always said drugs were a part of his life, and he would cut down but not stop.

The wife indicated she made efforts to save the marriage because she loved him but the marriage could not survive.

In addition, there were incidents of physical violence. In 1989 or 1990, when they were out together and she felt he could not drive, she tried to take the car keys. He pushed her against the wall at that time and tried to choke her and she ran outside to get away. Another incident began where there was verbal abuse and finally physical violence where he pushed her against the wall and choked her. It got to the point where he was not going to work until 11:00 a.m. He was hanging out in places like Tuesday's Den and did drugs in the upstairs bedroom.

The defendant had no relationship with his children. In September of 1990 he left the house. The last time he saw the children was December of 1990. He has not requested to see the children since. Five months after the husband left the wife, the children called their father to get him involved in visitation but he did not follow up. The children have a good relationship with the father's parents, their grandparents. They received no Christmas gifts in 1991 from their father. CT Page 1307

The wife is worried about the husband being alone with the children after this long absence. There was a strong, negative reaction from the children when it was discussed about giving the father their sports .schedule. The wife feels trust needs to be built up which is not there. It is clear that he needs to be drug and alcohol free.

The husband has presently been paying $4,400.00 per month temporary alimony payments. Those amounts have been received directly from the trust fund. The wife believes that, as a result of the husband's drug abuse during the course of the marriage and gambling abuse, that somewhere between $500,000.00 and a million dollars was lost (spent) on those two items.

This case came to this court as a limited contested matter. The court finds it has jurisdiction. The court has listened to the parties and listened to their witnesses and reviewed all the exhibits in the case. In addition, the court has taken into consideration all the criteria set forth in Connecticut General Statutes 46b-81

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