P.B. v. L.B.

19 Misc. 3d 186
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedJanuary 16, 2008
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Bluebook
P.B. v. L.B., 19 Misc. 3d 186 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 2008).

Opinion

OPINION OF THE COURT

Debra Silber, J.

“[I]n New York State they have a strange law that says you can’t get a divorce unless you can prove adultery. That is weird [187]*187because the Ten Commandments say, ‘Thou shalt not commit adultery/ but New York State says you have to . . . it’s like a toss-up between God and [Governor] Rockefeller.” (Woody Allen.)

In a matter involving a different comedian, whose marriage was also no longer in the “Honeymooners” stage (Gleason v Gleason, 26 NY2d 28 [1970]), Judge Fuld of the New York Court of Appeals, writing for the majority, noted that, in 1966, the New York State Legislature repealed the State’s ancient divorce laws, which for almost 200 years had sanctioned divorce solely for adultery and enacted the Divorce Reform Law (L 1966, ch 254, eff Sept. 1, 1967) authorizing divorce on several other grounds. In addition to four enumerated grounds based on “fault,” the new section 170 of the Domestic Relations Law specified two “nonfault” grounds predicated on a couple’s living apart for a period of two years (subsequently reduced to one year [L 1970, ch 835, § 2]) after the granting of a separation judgment or decree (subd [5]), or the execution of a written separation agreement (subd [6]).

Outlining the public policy which underlies the concept of what we now call a “conversion divorce,” Judge Fuld noted that, if a reconciliation has not been effected within the statutory period following the separation, “the Legislature has concluded, and reasonably so, that the parties are irreconcilable and the marriage dead.” (Gleason v Gleason at 35.) Judge Fuld found that the legislative design was to render separation decrees and agreements a basis for divorce, and the “deliberate failure” of the legislators to provide any defenses to these grounds evinced and confirmed their intention of abandoning the traditional fault approach to divorce and permitting the termination of marriages if there was no longer a viable marriage. (Id.) The vital and operative requirement was that the parties live apart for at least the statutory period pursuant to a separation decree or agreement for which there is satisfactory proof of substantial performance. As Judge Fuld noted, the real purpose of the no-fault provisions was to sanction divorce on grounds unrelated to misconduct; the separation decree or agreement was simply intended as evidence of the authenticity and reality of the separation.

Implicit in the statutory scheme is the legislative recognition that it is socially and morally undesirable to compel parties to a dead marriage to retain an illusory and deceptive status and that the best interests not only of the parties but of society [188]*188itself will be furthered by enabling them “to extricate themselves from a perpetual state of marital limbo.” (Id., quoting Adelman v Adelman, 58 Misc 2d 803, 805 [Sup Ct, Queens County 1969].) In New York State, public policy encourages the dissolution of “dead” marriages. (Berman v Berman, 72 AD2d 425 [1st Dept 1980]; Covington v Walker, 3 NY3d 287 [2004].)

In the instant matter, defendant wife has filed a motion seeking dismissal of plaintiffs action for divorce. The parties were married in September of 1996. In July of 2005, the parties executed a written agreement of separation, and filed it with the Clerk of Richmond County. On page 14 of the separation agreement appears the following language: “It is agreed that the husband shall not pursue a divorce against the wife for a period of five years from the signing of this agreement except by prior written consent of the wife.” On March 22, 2007, more than a year since its execution, plaintiff filed for divorce by summons with notice, on the stated grounds of abandonment, constructive abandonment, cruel and inhuman treatment and living apart for more than one year after execution of a separation agreement. In arguing that the matter be dismissed, defendant cites the above-described bar to filing for divorce as contained in the separation agreement, and states she has never given her husband the written consent required under the agreement. This is not disputed by the plaintiff. She also asks for attorney’s fees, stating that, under the circumstances, the action for divorce is frivolous.

As noted, in arguing that the matter be dismissed, defendant cites the separation agreement, and states she has never given her husband the written consent required in the agreement. In response, plaintiff husband’s attorney argues that his client executed the separation agreement without the advice or assistance of counsel. Despite the arguments of defendant’s counsel that this assertion is hearsay, this fact is made explicit on page 11 of the separation agreement where it states, “The Husband has been advised to obtain counsel in order to represent her [sic] in all matters relating to this Separation Agreement.”

Plaintiffs counsel further argues that the provision requiring plaintiff to wait five years before filing for divorce is, in effect, an improper injunction and restraint without a court order and that it violates existing law and section 6301 of the Civil Practice Law and Rules (as an injunction may only be issued in a pending action). (Granelli v Granelli, 134 AD2d 930 [4th Dept 1987].) He also argues that the agreement is void as against public [189]*189policy , as plaintiff cannot contract away an inalienable right. (See Matter of Liberman, 279 NY 458 [1939] [which did not allow a trust to restrain the right of its beneficiary to marry the person of one’s choice].) He further argues that the provision in the contract is without consideration.

In reply, the defendant points out that the right to divorce in New York is not absolute (Domestic Relations Law § 170). Defendant argues that there is a public policy favoring contractual arrangements. She notes that New York has a strong public policy favoring individuals deciding their own arrangements through contractual arrangements (Matter of Greiff, 92 NY2d 341 [1998]) and that Domestic Relations Law § 236 (B) (3) authorizes spouses to contract out of the statutory system in the event that the marriage ends. (Matisoff v Dobi, 90 NY2d 127, 132 [1997].) Moreover, she points out that a party seeking to set aside a separation agreement has the burden to prove fraud, duress, or overreaching, or that the agreement or stipulation is unconscionable. (Wilson v Neppell, 253 AD2d 493 [2d Dept 1998].) The court finds the provision in question is unconscionable.

The defendant’s motion is denied in its entirety. The provision in the separation agreement on which defendant relies is (1) void for being against public policy and unconscionable, and (2) void for attempting to circumvent the legislative prerequisite to divorce by separation for a minimum of one year to a minimum of five years by contract.

Marriage and divorce are matters which the State is deeply concerned about. (Christian v Christian, 42 NY2d 63 [1977].) Ordinarily, it is not the function of the law to protect people from their own foolishness, but a different standard is applied to marriage and divorce. (See Ezratty v Ezratty, 114 Misc 2d 22, 23 [Sup Ct, NY County 1982].) Generally, separation agreements which are written, signed and properly acknowledged are binding on the parties unless and until they are set aside. (See Schmelzel v Schmelzel,

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