Parentage Of A.h., Christian Gruber, V. Melissa Leighanne Headrick, Apppellant

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided October 10, 2023·No. 57171-4·Published

Opinion

Filed

Washington State

Court of Appeals

Division Two

October 10, 2023

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

DIVISION II

In the Matter of the De Facto Parentage of: No. 57171-4-II

A.H., PUBLISHED OPINION

Minor child.

GLASGOW, C.J. — Melissa Headrick, AH’s mother, was in a relationship with Christian Gruber that began when she was pregnant at 18 and he was 38. Gruber is not AH’s birth parent. After the relationship ended, Gruber petitioned for de facto parentage of AH, meaning a determination that he was AH’s legal parent with the accompanying rights and responsibilities.

At a hearing, the trial court did not appoint a guardian ad litem for AH. Before the parties presented their witness testimony or arguments, the trial court stated that it thought Gruber had met his burden of proof to establish himself as a de facto parent. The trial court allowed Headrick to testify and Gruber to cross-examine her, but it did not require Gruber to testify or be cross- examined. Ultimately, the trial court concluded that Gruber was AH’s de facto parent.

Headrick appeals the order awarding Gruber the rights of a legal parent and the trial court’s findings of fact and conclusions of law about de facto parentage. Along with raising constitutional challenges to RCW 26.26A.440, the de facto parentage statute, Headrick argues that the trial court erred in its interpretation and implementation of the statute. Specifically, she contends that the trial court applied an unconstitutional process by depriving Headrick of the opportunity to cross- examine Gruber and that it failed to resolve material factual questions concerning Gruber’s

standing to bring a petition concerning his de facto parentage. Headrick also assigns error to the trial court’s failure to appoint a guardian ad litem for AH.

We hold that RCW 26.26A.440 requires any de facto parentage proceeding involving a material factual dispute to include testimony from the petitioner so that the trial court can evaluate their credibility based on their testimony and to ensure an opportunity for the legal parent to cross- examine the petitioner. We therefore reverse the trial court’s adjudication of Gruber as AH’s de facto parent and remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion. The trial court must vacate the order granting Gruber de facto parent status. We recognize that there may have been subsequent trial court orders establishing residential time for AH. Any current residential provision for the child remains as a temporary order until the parties return to the trial court and have a new order entered consistent with this opinion. On remand, the trial court must also revisit the appointment of a guardian ad litem for AH and consider on the record whether appointment is necessary to adequately represent AH’s interests.

FACTS

I. BACKGROUND AND DE FACTO PARENTAGE PETITION Gruber and Headrick began dating while she was pregnant with AH. At the time, Headrick was 18 years old and Gruber was 38 years old. Gruber moved in with Hedrick when AH was about three years old. Gruber and Headrick had a polyamorous relationship, so later on, Headrick’s new partner moved into the home Headrick shared with Gruber. Gruber and Headrick’s relationship ended when AH was about nine years old.

After Gruber and Headrick broke up, Headrick wanted to move out of state so she could live close to family. On her own, Headrick could not afford to buy a home in Clark County, where

she and Gruber had resided together. But as soon as Gruber and Headrick broke up, Gruber filed a petition for de facto parentage of AH. Headrick stayed in Clark County to respond to the petition.

To become AH’s de facto parent, Gruber had to prove a series of statutory elements by a preponderance of the evidence: that he “resided with the child as a regular member of the child’s household for a significant period”; that he “engaged in consistent caretaking of the child”; that he undertook the “full and permanent responsibilities of a parent of the child without expectation of financial compensation”; that he “held out the child” as his own; that he “established a bonded and dependent relationship with the child which [was] parental in nature”; that Headrick “fostered or supported the bonded and dependent relationship”; and that continuing his relationship with AH was in AH’s best interest. RCW 26.26A.440(4)(a)-(g).

In his petition, Gruber alleged that while AH was living with him, he provided “emotional and material support,” including play, at-home educational support, feeding, “clothing, being a source of advice and helping problem-solve, listening, noticing changes and adverse emotional circumstances, framing difficult life situations, protecting, and loving” AH. Ex. 1, at 15. He further alleged that when Headrick had health challenges that made her briefly absent from the home, he “was present for” and “comforted” AH while preserving a healthy relationship between Headrick and AH. Id. at 16.

Along with the petition, Gruber also filed documents showing his relationship with AH.

These documents included an authorization to disclose AH’s immunization records to him; evidence that he was listed as AH’s guardian with AH’s school; a digital calendar invitation to attend a doctor appointment for AH; and emails with AH’s school principal, school counselor, and teacher, including an email about attending a parent-teacher conference. He also submitted a

document in which Headrick identified Gruber as the person who should become AH’s guardian and care for AH if Headrick were to pass away before AH turned 18. Finally, Gruber submitted transcripts of two videos in which he and Headrick proclaimed that he would be AH’s father and in which AH referred to him as “daddy.” Exs. 8-9.

II. DE FACTO PARENTAGE PROCEEDING Headrick filed a response to Gruber’s petition denying that Gruber engaged in consistent caretaking of AH, that Gruber established a bonded and dependent parental relationship with AH, and that continuing the relationship between Gruber and AH was in AH’s best interests. The trial court then held a hearing. The trial court asked if either party wanted the court to appoint a guardian ad litem for AH. Headrick’s attorney responded, “Absolutely, Your Honor.” Verbatim Rep. of Proc. (VRP) (May 20, 2022) at 13. Gruber’s attorney said, “My problem is that I don’t know how this child has been coached. . . . And then, that leaves me and my client dead in the water which would be very unfair.” Id. The trial court said it agreed with Gruber’s attorney, adding that it was “clear” Headrick had “been trying to disenfranchise the child from Mr. Gruber.” VRP (May 20, 2022) at 14. And the trial court told Gruber’s attorney, “I think you’ve met your burden. I think you met your burden before we started this case.” VRP (May 20, 2022) at 15.

The trial court then said it would have Headrick’s attorney argue first. It explained that while normally, a petitioner goes first, it felt that Gruber had already met his burden, so “that would be a better place to start.” VRP (May 20, 2022) at 17. Gruber’s attorney said that if the trial court felt that Gruber had proved his case, she would not call Gruber to testify.

Headrick’s attorney did not object, and he began his direct examination of Headrick. She testified that she attended school while Gruber supported her and AH financially. But otherwise,

“he wasn’t there” when it came to supporting AH. VRP (May 20, 2022) at 20. Rather, he was in his room almost constantly, working, gaming, or talking to other people. Headrick said, “To get him to come out of his room, we had to . . . really twist his arm.” Id. She said that the only thing Gruber “offered to take up on his own was” waking AH up and taking AH to school, but her partner had to step in because Gruber “couldn’t do it.” VRP (May 20, 2022) at 26.

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