N.M. VS. J.M. (FM-15-1431-13, OCEAN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedApril 17, 2020
DocketA-0068-18T3
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-0068-18T3

N.M.,

Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

J.M.,1

Defendant-Respondent. _________________________

Submitted November 12, 2019 – Decided April 17, 2020

Before Judges Rothstadt, Moynihan and Mitterhoff.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Ocean County, Docket No. FM-15-1431-13.

Adinolfi, Molotsky, Burick & Falkenstein PA, attorneys for appellant (Julie Roberson Burick, of counsel and on the briefs; Kevin A. Falkenstein, on the briefs).

Pavliv & Rihacek, LLC, attorneys for respondent (John T. Rihacek, of counsel and on the brief).

1 To protect the identities of the parties' children, we refer to the parties by their initials and to the children as the daughter and the son throughout this opinion. PER CURIAM

Plaintiff N.M. appeals from paragraph two of a July 26, 2018 order, which

provides that she and defendant J.M. shall continue to have joint legal custody

of their two minor children. This matter has a long and tortured history that

ultimately led to a plenary hearing to determine, among other things, whether

plaintiff should have sole legal custody of the parties' children. After hearing

testimony from the parties and their children, the judge found that there was "no

reasonable prospect within the foreseeable future that the parties will be able to

agree, communicate and cooperate," and the parties failed to appreciate that this

issue negatively impacted their children. The judge applied the appropriate

statutory factors and concluded that based on the law, joint custody appeared to

be "totally inappropriate." Yet, he ordered that the parties continue to have joint

custody because he worried that awarding plaintiff sole custody would further

erode defendant's relationship with the children.

On appeal, plaintiff argues that the order for joint legal custody is not

supported by the judge's findings. We agree. Accordingly, we reverse

paragraph two of the July 26, 2018 order and remand to the Family Part for entry

of an order awarding plaintiff sole legal custody of the parties' children.

A-0068-18T3 2 We discern the following facts from the record. During the parties'

marriage, they had two children: a daughter, born in 2003, and a son, born in

2007. In January 2011, the parties were divorced in the State of Nevada. The

divorce decree recognized the parties' intent to relocate to the State of New

Jersey. Plaintiff was permitted to immediately move to New Jersey with the

children, and defendant planned to follow. If defendant failed to relocate,

plaintiff would become the children's primary physical custodian. The divorce

decree further revealed the parties' intent to share "equal or close to equal

[parenting] time . . . with the children."

Ultimately, plaintiff permanently relocated to New Jersey but defendant

did not. According to defendant, he moved to New Jersey in February 2011 and

shared a home with a friend, but he returned to Nevada during the summer of

2012 to work on his Nevada property, although he still kept his New Jersey

home. Therefore, under the terms of the divorce decree, plaintiff became the

primary physical custodian, and on September 25, 2012, the Eighth Judicial

District of the State of Nevada entered a stipulation and order to that effect. The

order also detailed defendant's parenting time schedule and addressed matters

related to communication between the parties and their children and the care and

A-0068-18T3 3 support of their children. Less than a year later, New Jersey assumed

jurisdiction over the matter.

Throughout 2014 and 2015, the Family Part entered numerous orders

addressing defendant's parenting time, which included placing limitations on it.

For example, the parties' daughter was not allowed to stay overnight at

defendant's New Jersey home, and certain individuals were not permitted to be

around when defendant had parenting time with the children. In addition,

defendant was not permitted to use marijuana, even for medical purposes, for a

specified period of time before his parenting time with the children.

Accordingly, he was required to undergo hair follicle testing before and after his

parenting time.

On September 11, 2015, a judge issued an order setting forth a telephonic

communication schedule for defendant and the children, allowing fifteen-minute

phone calls, three days a week and ordering plaintiff to record the conversations.

The judge also instructed both parties to refrain from discussing the litigation

with their children and making negative comments to the children about the

other parent.

On October 21, 2015, the judge issued two more orders. The first order

provided additional instructions about defendant's parenting time and hair

A-0068-18T3 4 follicle testing. The judge also restricted defendant from being present in

plaintiff's neighborhood, other than during scheduled parenting time. The

second order further addressed defendant's parenting time schedule, requiring

that parenting time be supervised by defendant's girlfriend, and it directed

defendant to cease making negative and inappropriate comments to the children

about plaintiff or risk termination of joint legal custody. The judge also

appointed a guardian ad litem (the guardian) to "review the matter with regard

to parenting time and issues between the parties." On March 21, 2016, the

guardian submitted his report to the judge after interviewing the parties, the

children, plaintiff's husband, and the daughter's therapist.

On June 28, 2016, the judge entered another order addressing defendant's

parenting time. Defendant, while not in compliance with prior orders, was

permitted parenting time at that time because he was in New Jersey. The judge

again ordered defendant to cease speaking about plaintiff with the chi ldren or

risk suspension of parenting time. The judge further ordered defendant to notify

plaintiff of any medical issues with the children that arose during his parenting

time and reminded him to refrain from using alcohol or drugs during his

A-0068-18T3 5 In December 2016, the parties' daughter suffered a breakdown and was

involuntarily committed an inpatient facility called the Carrier Clinic, pursuant

to court order. The need for a court order arose because defendant would not

consent to the daughter's commitment. Within a week, plaintiff was granted

authorization to make medical decisions for the daughter. Regarding visitation

at the hospital, both parties were ordered to comply with the treating physicians'

recommendations.

The following January, defendant's parenting time with both children was

suspended. In May 2017, a different judge maintained that this suspension was

proper, after defendant's hair follicle tests produced "exceptionally high" results.

The judge also set a schedule for defendant to Skype with the children three days

a week.

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