Neri v. Neri, No. 091888 (Mar. 25, 1991)

1991 Conn. Super. Ct. 2658
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedMarch 25, 1991
DocketNo. 091888 092724
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Neri v. Neri, No. 091888 (Mar. 25, 1991), 1991 Conn. Super. Ct. 2658 (Colo. Ct. App. 1991).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION These cases are related matters. The first action, No. 091888, is a suit to dissolve the parties' marriage in which the husband is the plaintiff. The second action, No. 092724, is a suit for a restraining order initiated by the wife. Orders issued in the second case have precluded the husband's occupancy of the marital residence during the pendency of the dissolution action. The parties have agreed that the two cases should be considered together. For the sake of clarity, the husband will be referred to as "plaintiff" and the wife as "defendant" throughout this memorandum.

I.
The plaintiff is 42 years old and the defendant is 35. They were married in Waterbury on June 29, 19841 and have always resided in Connecticut. The marriage is a second one for both parties in that their previous unions were terminated by divorce. No children have been born of the marriage. The plaintiff has four children by his prior marriage whereas the wife has none.

In the dissolution action, the plaintiff in his amended complaint and the defendant in her cross complaint have alleged that the marriage has broken down irretrievably with no hope of reconciliation. Further, each party, in their respective pleadings, claimed that the other had committed acts of adultery and acts amounting to intolerable cruelty.2

Both parties testified to the irretrievable breakdown of their marriage; a finding to this effect is made and the marriage is dissolved. See General Statutes Section 46b-51. Before going into the proof offered on the "fault" grounds which can be important in a determination of alimony and property awards, see Id. Sections 46b-81(c), 46b-82, there is one aspect of the dissolution action that deserves mention. The parties had lived together for several years before they married. At the trial, however, each claimed that the other was incapable of sexual relations because of a physical disability.3 No medical evidence was offered to substantiate these claims and they are regarded as nonproven especially in view of the charges of adultery.

Adultery requires proof by a fair preponderance of the evidence that the other spouse has engaged in extra-marital sexual relations. Brodsky v. Brodsky, 153 Conn. 299, 300, 301 (1966). CT Page 2660 Although adulterous acts are most often proved by circumstantial evidence, the circumstances must be such as to lead the "guarded discretion" of the trier to a conclusion of guilt. Turgeon v. Turgeon, 190 Conn. 269, 278 (1983). The term "guarded discretion" means that the court should not allow the intense interests of the parties to color the facts. Where the circumstances lead reasonably to innocent interpretations, adultery should not be found. On the other hand, a conclusion of adultery should not be avoided when a sound and unprejudiced judgment leads to that conclusion. Neff v. Neff, 96 Conn. 273, 276 (1921).

To support his allegation of adultery, the plaintiff relied upon the defendant's relationship with Michael S. who works for the private investigating firm that she hired in September, 1989, after being served with the complaint. In his case-in-chief, the plaintiff established the presence of Michael S. in the marital residence on many occasions even to being with the defendant in her bedroom in the evening hours with the lights off; that one time the defendant went to the home of Michael S. in Rockville; and that Michael S. had charged several telephone calls to the defendant, her mother and her girlfriend on the parties' credit card. At a post-trial hearing held on January 25, 1991 in response to a motion and affidavits filed by the plaintiff, he presented additional evidence concerning supposed overnight stays by Michael S. at the marital residence.

There is no disagreement with the plaintiff's contention that the defendant's behavior following the separation of the parties is a factor that the court can consider in determining the causes of the breakdown of the marriage. See Ferrucci v. Ferrucci,11 Conn. App. 369, 370-71, cert. denied 205 Conn. 805 (1987). Where the court and the plaintiff part company, however, concerns what inferences on the issue of adultery are to be drawn from the evidence that he produced.

To counter the plaintiff's evidence, the defendant proved that she engaged Michael S.'s firm to spy on him. The plaintiff worked and, at times, slept in a workshop-garage located on the same premises as the marital residence. Her bedroom was a place from which the plaintiff's activities at the garage could be and were observed. The defendant's one visit to Michael S.'s home was incidental to an unsuccessful search for a witness in nearby Manchester. And the credit card telephone calls had been made by Michael S. in response to calls made by the defendant.

Both Michael S. and the defendant denied the existence of any romantic relationship. With respect to the evidence presented at the additional hearing, the court finds that Michael S. came to the marital residence, at the defendant's request, to discuss her complaints of harassing telephone calls. Further, the recitations CT Page 2661 in the plaintiff's post-trial affidavit as to admissions by Michael S. of overnight stays at the residence were not proven at the hearing.

The court concludes that the plaintiff's evidence, at best circumstantial in nature, does not warrant an inference of adultery by the defendant.

A contrary conclusion is reached regarding the defendant's accusation of adultery by the plaintiff. On several occasions, Michael S. followed the plaintiff to a parking lot on West Main Street, Waterbury, where the defendant left his vehicle and entered a car driven by a woman who was identified as Elizabeth G. From the parking lot, the plaintiff and Elizabeth G. drove to her home. Stakeouts by Michael S. established that on these occasions the plaintiff and Elizabeth G. emerged from her apartment at 6:30 a.m. and drove to the parking lot where he had left his vehicle. Moreover, the plaintiff admitted that he was romantically involved with Elizabeth G. and that he had had sexual relations with her. The plaintiff's admission alone would be sufficient evidence for the court's conclusion. Senderoff v. Senderoff, 133 Conn. 300,302-03 (1946).

Intolerable cruelty, the other accusation that each party has made against the other, requires not only proof of acts of cruelty but also proof that in their cumulative effect these acts were intolerable in the sense that they rendered the continuance of the marriage unbearable. Sentivany v. Sentivany, 145 Conn. 380,383-84 (1958).

The plaintiff claimed that causes for the breakdown of the marriage were the difficulties in having sexual relations because of the defendant's physical condition and the attitude of his children toward her. Noted earlier was the court's conclusion that neither party had proved a claim of sexual impotency on the part of the other.

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Related

Sentivany v. Sentivany
143 A.2d 458 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1958)
Brodsky v. Brodsky
216 A.2d 180 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1966)
Turgeon v. Turgeon
460 A.2d 1260 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1983)
Garrison v. Garrison
460 A.2d 945 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1983)
Neff v. Neff
114 A. 126 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1921)
Senderoff v. Senderoff
50 A.2d 422 (Supreme Court of Connecticut, 1946)
Ferrucci v. Ferrucci
527 A.2d 1207 (Connecticut Appellate Court, 1987)

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