Nemerov v. Nemerov, No. 32 17 65 (Sep. 25, 1997)

1997 Conn. Super. Ct. 8698
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedSeptember 25, 1997
DocketNo. 32 17 65
StatusUnpublished

This text of 1997 Conn. Super. Ct. 8698 (Nemerov v. Nemerov, No. 32 17 65 (Sep. 25, 1997)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Nemerov v. Nemerov, No. 32 17 65 (Sep. 25, 1997), 1997 Conn. Super. Ct. 8698 (Colo. Ct. App. 1997).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION The instant proceeding is a dissolution of a certain marriage CT Page 8699 between the parties which occurred on August 5, 1972 in Huntington, New York. The plaintiff has resided continually within this jurisdiction for at least twelve months prior to the filing of the complaint, and all statutory stays have expired. Two children were born of this union, Sara W., who was born on February 19, 1976, and has attained her majority, and Jennifer Whitney Nemerov, who was born on August 3, 1980. No other minor children have been born to the plaintiff since the date of her marriage. No federal state or local agency, trust or foundation is contributing to the support of either party. The court finds that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, and a decree may enter on the grounds of irretrievable breakdown.

The defendant is fifty-one years old and apparently enjoys good health, is employed as a toy salesman with a company known as T.L. Toys Hong Kong LTD at an annual salary, including a bonus, of fifty to sixty thousand ($50,000 to $60,000) dollars, together with an expense account.1 In addition to this, he had his own toy company in 1995 that he called the Hartley Marketing LLC which had catalogues and which was apparently operated from his home. The 1995 tax return showed a net income of sixteen thousand nine hundred eighty-eight ($16,988) dollars from that secondary source of employment. The court finds that his earning capacity, conservatively stated, is at least seventy-five thousand ($75,000) dollars per year.

The plaintiff, whose maiden name was Sass, is forty-seven years old and is not in the best of health.2 She suffers from Graves disease which seems to affect the hands and fingers much like arthritis, her eyesight, and her short term memory. She recites that her entire body aches, her teeth ache and she is aware of pressure behind her eyes which pushes them outward. She is presently employed at Macy's at the Danbury Fair Mall. She demonstrates an earning capacity of approximately twenty-two thousand five hundred ($22,500) dollars per year.

It appears as though the emancipated daughter, Sara, was and is not a matter of unusual concern for her parents. Her father, during the pendency of this litigation, purchased a Saab automobile for her. Whether that was a new car or pre-owned vehicle is not disclosed by the evidence. However, Jennifer has some very serious problems. She suffers from a major depression, has attempted suicide, for which she has been hospitalized, and is constantly medicated. Her disorder has been described as life threatening, and she must maintain the medication to sustain her CT Page 8700 health. She has been treated by psychiatrists and is currently in therapy with a registered therapist. There are past due bills from the hospital, the psychiatrist, and also from the therapist. Those bills amount to four thousand seven hundred forty-six ($4746) dollars.

The evidence adduced at trial portrays the defendant as a womanizer and someone who inflicted physical and emotional damage upon the plaintiff.3 The court finds that evidence credible and based thereon finds the primary responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage to be that of the defendant.

Our Supreme Court has warned against overemphasizing the issue of fault and has placed it in the proper prospective by defining that concept as being one of the many criteria which must be applied in entering orders in a decree of dissolution. See Sands v. Sands, 188 Conn. 98, 102.

In making or modifying any order with respect to custody or visitation, the court should be guided by the best interests of the child. See Simons v. Simons, 172 Conn. 341, 342; Krasnow v.Krasnow, 140 Conn. 254, 260; Spicer v. Spicer, 173 Conn. 161,162. The rights, wishes and desires of the parents, while a consideration, must be subordinated to those best interests. SeeRidgeway v. Ridgeway, 180 Conn. 533, 541; Palmieri v. Palmieri,171 Conn. 289, 290; In re Appeal of Kindis, 162 Conn. 239, 242. This performance or lack thereof is hardly consistent with the best interests of the child. An award of custody, individually or jointly, with the defendant under these circumstances cannot be justified in logic or in law.

The minor child, Jennifer, has lived with the plaintiff since the inception of the dissolution, and the parties have executed a stipulation with respect to custody, awarding sole custody to the plaintiff. The defendant did not pursue any custodial claims at trial. While not obligated to follow that stipulation, the court does award custody to the plaintiff and awards the defendant reasonable, liberal and flexible rights of visitation. However, those visitation rights are subject to reasonable notice to the plaintiff, and those rights of visitation shall occur within a fifty mile radius of the plaintiff's then residence absent her consent to extend that distance on each specific occasion. The conduct of the defendant dictates this award.

The defendant has refused to pay medical bills for CT Page 8701 psychiatric and psychotherapy for the minor child, has advised her not to take the medications prescribed for her disorder, has denigrated the therapist and directed her not to attend any more therapy sessions.4 His child support payments have been minimal and there is an arrearage as of July 24, 1997 of nine thousand five hundred fifty ($9550) dollars.

The defendant is ordered to pay to the plaintiff, as and for child support, the sum of one hundred seventy-five ($175) dollars per week until such time as she attains the age of majority, dies, marries or otherwise becomes emancipated. This award comports with child support guidelines. For purposes of definition of the term majority, the court considers what might be called classic majority (eighteen) or statutory majority (nineteen), in the event that she has not completed high school by her nineteenth birthday. He is also directed to maintain medical insurance for the benefit of the minor child until such time as she attains the age of majority, dies, remarries or otherwise becomes emancipated. Once again, for purposes of definition of the term majority, the court considers classic majority at eighteen or contractual majority (twenty-three) in the event she attends under-graduate school and the medical insurance carrier provides for that additional coverage under its policy. In addition thereto, the plaintiff as a custodial parent is awarded and is directed to utilize each and every right provided to the custodial parent with respect to medical insurance as set forth in § 46b-84 under subsection (d) of the General Statutes, and any and all of its other subsections. The parties are ordered to equally share the cost of all unreimbursed medical, psychological, psychiatric, therapeutic, hospital and related necessary services incurred for the benefit of the minor child.

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