Nelson v. Standefer

390 P.2d 838, 87 Idaho 83, 1964 Ida. LEXIS 218
CourtIdaho Supreme Court
DecidedMarch 25, 1964
Docket9228
StatusPublished
Cited by11 cases

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Nelson v. Standefer, 390 P.2d 838, 87 Idaho 83, 1964 Ida. LEXIS 218 (Idaho 1964).

Opinion

*86 McQUADE, Justice.

The petitioner-appellant, Patsy Carol Nelson, instituted habeas corpus proceedings to obtain custody of her minor daughter from Roland C. Standefer and Doris L. Standefer, respondents herein. Respondents are the parents of petitioner and the maternal grandparents of the child involved in this dispute.

At the conclusion of the hearing held on this case, the trial court quashed petitioner’s writ of habeas corpus, dismissed her petition and granted the custody of the minor child to the respondents. The trial court found that petitioner was unfit by reason of neglect and immoral conduct to exercise her natural rights of custody and control of the said minor child. Findings were also entered to the effect that respondents were fit and proper persons to have the custody and control of the minor child.

Petitioner appealed to this court from the judgment quashing the writ of habeas corpus and dismissing her petition. She assigns as error the fact that the trial judge found that she was not a fit and proper person to have the care, custody and control of her minor child, and that respondents-, were fit and proper persons to have the-care, custody and control of the minor-child.

At the time the hearing was held on-this matter, petitioner was twenty-two years, old. This first child was conceived while-she was in the United States Marine Corps. Because of her pregnancy, she received a general discharge and went to the home of her parents to live. The child was born out of wedlock on December 28, 1959.

From December, 1959, until November,. 1961, petitioner and her child lived with the respondents. The testimony is conflicting-as to how petitioner treated her child during-this two year period. Respondents testified, that petitioner was much more interested in. television and having dates with men than she was in the welfare of her own child. Mrs. Standefer testified that petitioner-failed to attend to either the material or-spiritual needs of her child. Her testimony in reference to this matter is as follows ::

“Q. Did your daughter neglect this child when she lived with you ?
“A. Yes.
“Q. How did she do that?
“A. Well, wouldn’t wash her clothes-, like I told her to, and when she did wash them she would let them lay around, she would not clean the bed *87 room up for purposes to sleep in the bedroom, I have had to tell her to •change her pants, she would not iron her dresses to take her to the baby sitter when she did go to work.
“Q. In other words, she did not give it the love and attention a mother should ?
“A. No, sir.”

Petitioner, on the other hand, testified that she took good care of her child. She stated that she purchased the child’s milk and clothes, paid room and board and helped respondents keep their house clean. She further testified that she worked a great deal and paid a baby sitter to stay with the child.

In so far as petitioner’s conduct is con■cerned, respondents testified that she had numerous dates with both a man in his forties and a younger married man. Mrs. Standefer testified that she was “pretty -sure” that petitioner had illicit sexual relations with these men at least four or five times.

Petitioner admitted having illicit sexual relations with the married man but stated that such relations were had only under a promise of marriage. She admitted dating the older man; however, she denied having illicit sexual relations with him. Petitioner .also testified that she had very few dates After the birth of her child.

As a result of her illicit sexual relations, petitioner again became pregnant. She married Robert Gerald Nelson on November 19, 1961. At the time of her marriage, she was three months pregnant by another man. Petitioner and her husband set up housekeeping in another apartment, and the child went to live with them.

From the very first, petitioner and her husband encountered serious difficulties. He was unable to keep a job and they apparently suffered from a lack of funds. Respondents helped support petitioner and her family during this period.

Respondents testified that petitioner allowed her child to live under filthy, unsanitary conditions. Respondents were particularly descriptive in their assertions that the child was allowed to play and sleep with an unhousebroken dog. Both Mr. and Mrs. Standefer complained of the house odor created by the dog.

Petitioner, however, testified that she was a good housekeeper. She further denied respondents’ testimony that the dog was allowed to sleep with the child.

Considerable testimony was elicited at the trial to the effect that petitioner’s husband had, on two occasions, severely beaten the minor child. Both petitioner and her husband admitted that these beatings had taken place. There is some small dispute as to the severity of the beatings; however, insofar as this subject is concerned, pertinent *88 testimony was elicited from Robert Nelson, petitioner’s husband, on cross-examination as follows:

“Q. Mr. Nelson, did you ever beat this child?
“A. No. I spanked her extremely hard.
“Q. How hard did you spank her? It was pretty hard, wasn’t it? You left your finger marks of your hand?
“A. Yes.
“Q. Do you really think a little child less than two years old is going to learn anything from the beating?
“A. No, she would not mind me or my wife.
“Q. What do you mean, she would not mind, do you expect a little girl to know what is going on?
“A. She knows how to go to the potty and she sits in her chair.
“Q. Do you feel that really was sufficient to beat the child until it was raw?
“A. I did not mean it to be that way.
“Q. It does not mean it is right ?
“A. No.
“Q. You admit it was wrong?
“A. I do admit it was wrong.
“Q. How many times did you beat the child?
“A. Twice.
“Q. You admit twice?
“A. Yes.

On March 26, 1962, after having exclusive custody of her child for only four months,, petitioner turned over the care and custody of her child to the respondents. Her reasons for relinquishing the child were that she was about to have a baby and further that, “When my husband quit his job at Gem State we were running low on food and fuel and because we did not want her to be in a cold house and afraid of her catching cold we let my mother take her to. her house.”

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