Neibauer v. Neibauer, No. Fa 99-0118957 (Oct. 22, 2001)

2001 Conn. Super. Ct. 14813
Connecticut Superior Court·Decided October 22, 2001·No. No. FA 99-0118957·Unpublished

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION
On November 30, 1999, the plaintiff wife filed a complaint requesting "a legal separation; alimony; fair and equitable property settlement; an allowance to prosecute; and such other relief as the Court injustice and equity believe appropriate." On November 17, 1999, the defendant husband appeared by counsel; filed an answer admitting paragraph 1 through 6 of plaintiffs complaint and filed a cross complaint requesting "a legal separation; an equitable division of the jointly-owned property; an assignment of all or part of the estate of the Plaintiff, including an assignment of the Plaintiffs interest in certain real property located at 2 Duck River Lane, Old Lyme, Connecticut, pursuant to Connecticut General CT Page 14814 Statute 46b-81; and such other and further relief as the Court may deem equitable."

On February 28, 2000, the defendant filed a request for leave to amend a cross complaint and amended cross complaint substantially similar to his original cross complaint with the one exception being his request for "a dissolution of marriage." No objection was filed within the time frame set forth in Connecticut Practice Book § 10-60 and consequently the amendment shall be deemed to have been filed by consent.

On March 6, 2000, the court (McLachlan, J.), after a pendente lite hearing on plaintiffs motion for alimony and allocation of debt., pendente lite, ordered the defendant to "continue to pay mortgage, real estate taxes, fuel for house, utilities, car related expenses, gas . . ." In addition, the defendant was ordered to pay alimony in the amount of $450.00 per week.

On February 22, 2001, the plaintiff filed a 56b-15 application for relief from abuse against the defendant, which was granted by the court, McLachlan, J., and scheduled for a hearing on March 8, 2001. On March 8, 2001, by agreement, said restraining order was continued six months.

On May 21, 2001, the plaintiff filed a motion for contempt, pendente lite, alleging that the defendant failed to pay her approximately $5,100.00 in alimony. On June 4, 2001 pursuant to a court order (Kenefick, J.), the defendant paid the plaintiff $2,735.00 leaving a balance owed of $2,365.00 and the plaintiffs motion for contempt was continued one week. On June 4, 2001, the defendant filed a motion for contempt, pendente lite, alleging that the plaintiff violated the "automatic court orders" by using in excess of $10,000.00 from the Neibauer Family Trust. On July 1, 2001, the parties stipulated and the court (Robaina, J.) ordered, inter alia, that the pending motions for contempt shall be deferred to time of trial. Both parties appeared with counsel at trial on September 5 through 7, 2001 and presented testimony and exhibits. The court, after hearing and reviewing the evidence, together with the post trial filings of the parties, finds the following facts.

The wife whose birth name was Eva I. Worts married the defendant husband in Marblehead, Massachusetts on May 29, 1976. Both parties have resided continuously in the state more than one year before the filing of their respective complaints. All statutory stays have expired. This court has jurisdiction of this matter. This is the second marriage for both parties. The plaintiffs first husband died as a result of an airplane crash while flying for TWA. The defendant was a widower. At the time of the marriage between the plaintiff and the defendant, each party had two CT Page 14815 children. The plaintiffs children were Devon, age 4 and Haley, age 2. The defendant's children were Elizabeth, age 11 and Jennifer, age 9. All four received Social Security benefits from their deceased parents. The plaintiffs children's Social Security benefits were used initially to meet their everyday needs. At a later date, when those benefits were no longer needed for life's necessities, they were invested and funded, to a large degree, their education. The Social Security benefits received by Elizabeth and Jennifer, although much smaller, were similarly invested for their benefit after a time. There are no children of this marriage.

The plaintiff is 58 years old and takes a variety of medications including Fermhet, Paxil, Synthroid and Depacote for the treatment of various health problems such as seizures, depression and hormone deficiencies. Although her prognosis is uncertain, she presents as a hale individual and in no apparent distress. She received a Bachelor of Science degree in music education from Penn State University in 1965 and has engaged during the course of the marriage in part-time employment in real estate and retail. She currently is employed on a very part-time basis at an Essex boutique and occasionally plays trumpet with the band "Tuxedo Junction." She plans to attain full-time employment. The evidence demonstrates, and the court finds, that the plaintiff has an earning capacity of $20,000.00 per annum.

The defendant is 64 years old and is presently retired. The defendant receives roughly $2,500.00 a month from Social Security and his naval pension. He is currently taking courses to fulfill the requirements of a baccalaureate degree from Connecticut College. He was by profession a pilot. He left active duty in the U.S. Navy in 1962 and was employed by Allegheny Airlines and its successors until his forced retirement upon becoming 60 years old in 1997. From 1962 to 1978, the defendant served in the U.S. Naval Reserves, one weekend per month and for a period of two weeks each summer.

Both parties brought considerable assets into the marriage. The wife brought primarily her late husband's estate proceeds and life insurance benefits; the husband., nearly all of his naval pension and his Allegheny pension valued at $170,000.00 at that time. The value of the wife's pre-marital assets was greater than that of the husband's. Subsequent to their marriage, the parties consolidated their households and lived together as a merged family raising the four children. The husband was the primary wage earner and to a large extent, the sole wage earner. This is not to suggest that the wife made no contributions. She was the daily care giver for the children until they went away to school. She performed the normal chores associated with running a household of six. Her worker's compensation benefit of $380.00 per month went toward family expenses for 15 years. During the course of this long-term marriage, a CT Page 14816 financial olio was created. Her pre-marital assets were used to buy a portion of vacation and income producing properties. His earnings supported the entire household. Monies were invested; gains were achieved and losses sustained. The court views its task as unscrambling this omelet in a fair and equitable maimer. The court finds after hearing and reviewing the evidence and taking into consideration the parties' pre-marital assets, post-marriage employment and nonfinancial contributions, investments, and capital expenditures that the parties contributed to their current assets on a 50/50 basis.

The wife claims that the husband was abusive, controlling and insensitive. The husband portrays his wife as an ungrateful spendthrift. Neither are blameless nor entirely blameworthy.

Both parties were contemptuous of court orders; the defendant is in arrears on the pendente lite alimony and the plaintiff violated the Automatic Order One, by excessive charging on the Paine Webber MasterCard:

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Neibauer v. Neibauer, No. Fa 99-0118957 (Oct. 22, 2001), 2001 Conn. Super. Ct. 14813 (Colo. Ct. App. 2001).

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