Naftali Abayev v. Stella Abramov

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided March 1, 2024·No. A-1675-22·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1675-22

NAFTALI ABAYEV, Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

STELLA ABRAMOV, f/k/a STELLA ABAYEV,

Defendant-Respondent.

Argued February 14, 2024 – Decided March 1, 2024 Before Judges Firko and Vanek.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Monmouth County, Docket No. FM-13-0744-17.

Naftali Abayev, appellant, argued the cause pro se.

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM Plaintiff Naftali Abayev, who is self-represented, appeals from a January 27, 2023 Family Part order denying his request for make-up parenting time with

the parties' then fifteen-year-old daughter Leah. Because we conclude the motion judge did not abuse her discretion by determining plaintiff could not identify any specific instances of lost parenting time, and the evidence supports that determination, we affirm. Plaintiff also appeals from the award of counsel fees to defendant. We reverse and remand the award of counsel fees because the motion judge did not address the factors required by Rules 5:3-5(c), 4:42-9, and RPC 1.5(a).

I.

We summarize the facts developed from the record. Plaintiff and defendant Stella Abramov, formerly known as Stella Abayev, were married in 1994, divorced in 2017, and have three children: Mark, David, and Leah. Mark and David are emancipated. Leah is now sixteen years old and resides with defendant.

The parties' judgment of divorce (JOD) incorporated a marital settlement agreement (MSA). The JOD and MSA are not contained in plaintiff's appendix, but a single page parenting time schedule entitled, "Holidays and Special Days" was provided, which sets forth holidays that shall be alternated between the parties each year. The winter break is not mentioned in the document. Pertinent here, however, is a January 18, 2022 order that provides, "The parties shall

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evenly share parenting time over the winter recess." However, the order did not address the specific date or time for Leah's transfer from one party to the other .

The parties have engaged in ongoing and contentious litigation over parenting time issues involving Leah since their divorce. The record shows on July 18, 2022, plaintiff filed a motion seeking "future ma[k]e up parenting time," which defendant opposed. It is unclear from the record whether plaintiff sought to make up future parenting time during the winter recess. In any event, on October 7, 2022, a prior judge rendered an oral opinion denying the motion. Plaintiff did not provide a copy of the transcript in his appendix. A memorializing order was entered that day.

Four days later, plaintiff filed a motion to change visitation arrangements, primarily seeking four weeks of summer parenting time with Leah instead of three weeks, which he claimed to have. On November 4, 2022, the prior judge entered an order referring the matter to Custody and Parenting Time Mediation pursuant to Rule 1:40-5 within thirty days to address these and other parenting time issues.1

1 Ultimately, the mediation took place on February 1, 2023, after the order under review was entered. The parties did not reach a resolution and returned to the court on February 10, 2023. On February 16, 2023, the court entered an order denying plaintiff's motion.

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On December 28, 2022, plaintiff filed an emergent order to show cause (OTSC) seeking parenting time with Leah during the winter recess. The next day, another judge entered an order 2 based on her conclusion that:

Plaintiff's application for [e]mergent [r]elief by way of an [OTSC] is DENIED and is without merit. Plaintiff sought enforcement of parenting time and alleged defendant had withheld the child. Plaintiff did not disclose to the court that he, in fact, had the child since 9:00 a.m. this morning. There was no exact time specified for the split of winter break, defendant informed plaintiff when she could get the child to the drop-off. Plaintiff should have withdrawn the application after he received the child. Defendant's counsel may file for counsel fees with any future application. There was no need for a court appearance today. The matter does not meet the standards per Crowe v. De Gioia, 90 N.J. 126 (1982).

Thereafter, plaintiff immediately filed a motion seeking make-up parenting time with Leah. He claimed he lost approximately fifteen hours of parenting time between the evening of December 28 overnight to the morning of December 29, 2022, because defendant withheld Leah from him for no valid reason. Plaintiff also claimed defendant disregards court orders and makes excuses for missing scheduled parenting time. Since the JOD was entered,

2 The order contains a clerical error as it states a non-dissolution docket number, FD-13-0744-17, instead of the correct dissolution docket number, FM-13-0744- 17.

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plaintiff alleged he missed more than twenty days of parenting time. Defendant opposed the motion.

On January 27, 2023, the motion judge conducted oral argument. At the hearing, the motion judge preliminarily noted that plaintiff has parenting time with Leah on alternating weekends from Friday overnight to Sunday. He picks up Leah from defendant's home and drops her off at the Cranford police station. On some occasions, plaintiff has parenting time on Saturday overnight to after sundown on Sunday when defendant observes Shabbat.

Plaintiff argued defendant violated the January 2022 order, which states the parties shall equally share parenting time during the winter break. Defendant's counsel countered that plaintiff could have driven to defendant's residence to pick up Leah, and he chose not to. Defendant's counsel also argued that no make-up parenting time is warranted because on the missed days, Leah was either sick, had other plans, or was on a religious retreat.

Defendant's counsel also asserted that plaintiff was opposed to Leah joining her school's softball team and wants her to play soccer instead. Defendant's counsel argued that plaintiff threatened to call the school and sue defendant for "criminal negligence" if she did not cancel softball and select "a more proper" and "less dangerous sport."

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In her oral decision following arguments that day, the motion judge observed plaintiff did not provide "any specifics" to support his motion for make-up parenting time, "other than this possible fifteen hours," and found "there's nothing specified or proven." The motion judge determined " [t]he evidence is clearly lacking in that regard." Regarding sports, the motion judge noted that plaintiff no longer objected to Leah playing softball. The motion judge directed the parties to cooperate and endeavor "not to schedule things during each other's parenting time." The motion judge ruled that she would grant defendant's request for an award of counsel fees pertaining to the OTSC after reviewing the certification of services, which is not provided in the record.

A memorializing order was entered the same day incorporating the motion judge's oral decision. The order also specified that the parties split the winter break, and each party had five days with the child, defendant having December 24, 25, 26, 27, and 28, and plaintiff having December 29, 30, 31, January 1, and 2. The motion judge determined there was no violation of a custody or parenting time order and compensatory time was not warranted under Rule 5:3-7(a), which provides for certain remedies on violation of orders relating to parenting time.

The order stated that plaintiff gave "no reasonable explanation for his objection" to Leah playing school softball and indicated Leah is old enough to

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