Myers v. Myers

4 Va. Cir. 252, 1985 Va. Cir. LEXIS 14

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Myers v. Myers, 4 Va. Cir. 252, 1985 Va. Cir. LEXIS 14 (Fla. Super. Ct. 1985).

Opinion

By JUDGE S. W. COLEMAN, III

The parties in this divorce proceeding have each filed their respective bill of complaint and cross-bill seeking a dissolution of their marriage of ten years. The parties were married on July 6, 1974, and separated April 15, 1982. Each party alleges that the other wilfully deserted and abandoned the other. The defendant Donald Wayne Myers had been previously married and has a son, David Wayne Myers, who was legally adopted by his second wife, Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers. The previous marriage of Donald Wayne Myers ended when his wife died in childbirth with the son, David Wayne Myers. Both parties are seeking custody of the child who is eleven years of age. The parties request equitable distribution of marital [253]*253property and an award of spousal and child support, attorney's fees and court costs.

Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers is the extension agent for Lee County and has been gainfully employed for a number of years prior to her marriage. Donald Wayne Myers is a farmer and owner of an interest in a cemetery which he manages. Mr. Myers suffers from a physical disability resulting from injuries received in an accident. He indicates that over the years he has attempted to supplement his income by trading and doing custom farm work and grading. Both his farming operation and interest in the cemetery were conveyed to him from his parents.

As to the grounds for divorce, shortly after the marriage the parties moved into a residence in close proximity to the husband's parents. Since the death of Mr. Myers’s former wife, his parents had provided the primary care for the infant child David Wayne Myers and had also provided many of the needs of Donald Wayne Myers. It is apparent that the situation and relationship between the two families was a matter of great concern to Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers although the record does not suggest that there was any open disharmony. She apparently felt that she was not able to develop the relationship with her adopted child that she desired and that the daily association by Donald Wayne Myers with his parents was not conducive to their development of a strong marital relationship. It appears that the parties never openly and directly confronted the situation but Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers did on several occasions unsuccessfully attempt to suggest to her husband that they relocate in the county not immediately adjacent to his parents. In the latter part of 1981 Donald Wayne Myers became seriously ill and had to be hospitalized for an extended period of time. Mrs. Myers suggested that during his period of recovery that they rent an apartment closer to her place of employment where she could be available to check on and care for him after his release from the hospital. Such was done and both parties resided in the apartment during Mr. Myers recuperation. Although it is not explicit in the record, it appears that Mrs. Myers held out the hope that such living arrangement would be satisfactory and that the parties would continue to reside there. Nevertheless, after Mr. Myers reached a satisfactory point of recovery he indicated that he desired to return to their former residence and the farm which [254]*254he owned and other residence nearby. Mrs. Myers refused to return and remained in the apartment. Although the record is not explicit, it does appear that her remaining in the apartment appeared to be an effort on her behalf to compel her husband to make some other living arrangement apart from his family which she perceived as an impediment to a healthy marital relationship. For a period of time both parties remained firm in their resolve. Eventually, after seeing that her efforts were unsuccessful, Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers decided to resume the marital relationship and expressed her intention to move back to their former marital residence with her husband and adopted child. Donald Wayne Myers refused to permit her to do so. His acts and actions of his parents made it abundantly clear that she would not be permitted to return. "No trespass" signs were erected and she was forbidden to return.

It is unnecessary for the court to decide whether Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers was justified in her complaints about the living arrangements and relationship with her husband’s parents. Likewise, it is unnecessary to decide whether Donald Wayne Myers acted properly or improperly in either remaining in the situation or refusing to make other living arrangements. It is sufficient to say that the situation was a problem in the marriage which they were not able to resolve but which would have given neither legal justification under the circumstances to have deserted or abandoned the marital relationship. Although Donald Wayne Myers did move from the apartment last occupied by the parties and return to his former residence, I do not deem such to be wilful desertion and abandonment because it seems implicit from the circumstances that the parties contemplated such would only be a temporary arrangement. While Mrs. Myers may have hoped that such would become permanent and offer a solution to her problems, such did not develop. While the continued persistence of Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers to refuse to return to their former marital residence may have shown an intention on her part to permanently abandon the marital relationship, such did not occur. It would appear that her remaining in the apartment for a period of time was a further effort on her part to prevail upon her husband to make other living arrangements. However, when it became apparent that he had no intention of doing so, Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers relented and attempted to resume her marriage and [255]*255return to her husband, adopted child and former marital residence. Upon doing so Donald Wayne Myers and his family prevented her return. "No trespass" signs were erected and when she attempted to enter the property or home she was confronted by her husband or in-laws and prohibited from returning. Such conduct by Donald Wayne Myers was not legally justified since he did not have good cause to deny his wife’s return to the marital relationship. Accordingly, it is the conclusion of the court that the refusal of Donald Wayne Myers to permit Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers to return to their marital home constituted constructive desertion and abandonment by Donald Wayne Myers pursuant to the provisions of § 20-91(6) of the Code. Such desertion has continued for a period of one year and entitles Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers to a decree of divorce from the bond of matrimony.

Child Custody

The contest for custody of the child is between the biological father and adoptive mother. Neither consanguinity nor adoption are or should be controlling factors; however, such can be considered along with all other surrounding circumstances to determine what is in the present and future best interest and welfare of the child. The court has considered a myriad of circumstances in the case at bar but will mention only those salient facts which has led to the conclusion reached. It is the opinion of the court that both parents and homes would provide a suitable atmosphere for the rearing of David Wayne Myers. The mother’s educational and employment background are positive factors which the court has considered. She possesses many personal traits and qualities that are positive factors in parenting. Peggy Ruth Fannon Myers is an industrious, well-organized, well-groomed and highly motivated individual who seems very stable and secure with her own image.

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