Motes v. Motes

2026 Ohio 307
Ohio Court of Appeals·Decided February 2, 2026·No. CA2025-05-047·Published

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS

TWELFTH APPELLATE DISTRICT OF OHIO BUTLER COUNTY

MATTHEW NEAL MOTES, :

CASE NO. CA2025-05-047

Appellant, :

OPINION AND

vs. : JUDGMENT ENTRY 2/2/2026

MELISSA SUE MOTES, :

Appellee. :

:

APPEAL FROM BUTLER COUNTY COURT OF COMMON PLEAS DOMESTIC RELATIONS DIVISION Case No. DR14030274

Matthew Neal Motes, pro se. Ched H. Peck, for appellee.

OPINION

SIEBERT, J.

{¶ 1} Appellant, Matthew Motes ("Father"), appeals a decision of the Butler County Common Pleas Court, Domestic Relations Division, regarding parenting time

matters involving his son. Upon review, we conclude that the modification of parenting time is generally a matter entrusted to the discretion of the trier of fact. However, we find that remand is warranted in this instance for the limited purpose of addressing Mother's overnight work schedule and its impact on the parenting time arrangement.

I. Facts and Procedural History Summary of Events

{¶ 2} Father and Melissa Motes ("Mother") married in 2010 and are the parents of one child, M.M., born in March 2011. The parties divorced in 2015, at which time Mother was designated as M.M's residential and custodial parent.

{¶ 3} Since the divorce, the parties have been involved in extensive post-decree litigation, resulting in modifications of the original decree. Father has served as M.M.'s legal custodian and residential parent since January 28, 2020. He has moved for contempt based on Mother's failure to facilitate parenting time. Father has also raised concerns regarding Mother's erratic behavior and suspected drug abuse.

{¶ 4} In August 2022, the trial court ordered Mother to complete a psychological evaluation within six months. Although Mother claimed she complied with the order, she did not. Consequently, in February 2023, the trial court suspended Mother's parenting time. Despite the suspension, Father continued to allow M.M. to visit Mother. During this period, however, Mother engaged in repeated outbursts and sent numerous inappropriate text messages to M.M. The messages were often sent late at night or during school hours and included statements such as:

Your dad wants you out of my life and the court is helping him.

Why am I paying all this money whenever you could just choose to come over. . . Call me. . . He is playing you

It worries me how much they are playing with your head. I want to protect you but I don't know how.

Please say a prayer that Jesus helps us in court on Tuesday.

That's it. I'm not freaking calling or texting anymore. . . your being like your dad.

You're a freaking brat. . . I'm so disappointed in you.

It's real nice your over there playing house with everybody else and being everyone else's son but mine.

{¶ 5} The record reflects that on December 14, 2023, Mother completed the court-ordered psychological evaluation with Dr. Jeffrey Baker, who concluded that she did not suffer from any mental disorder. On April 9, 2024, Mother filed a motion to reinstate her parenting time.1 The matter proceeded to a hearing held over two days.

Evidentiary Hearing

{¶ 6} Dr. Baker is a clinical and forensic psychologist. He testified that his evaluation included a review of the case file and relevant court orders, a clinical interview with Mother, administration of the Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory-3 ("MMPI- 3"), the Adverse Childhood Experiences Questionnaire, as well as interviews with collateral sources. Based on this evaluation, Dr. Baker determined that Mother does not suffer from any mental health disorder. Mother's MMPI-3 produced a valid profile and revealed no indicators of substance abuse or schizophrenia.

{¶ 7} Dr. Baker further testified that, if he were to make recommendations, he would suggest that Mother work with a clinician who follows Dr. John Gottman's methodology to improve relationship management and conflict resolution.2

{¶ 8} Mother testified that she received Dr. Baker's recommendations and was

1. We note that although this matter originated with Mother's motion to reinstate parenting time, the trial court's final order included a modification of the parenting schedule.

2. Dr. Baker stated that Dr. John Gottman is a recognized expert from the University of Washington who specializes in relationships and conflict management.

willing to comply with any court order necessary to resume parenting time with M.M. She stated that she would submit court-ordered drug screens and acknowledged that her failure to timely complete the psychological evaluation was her own error. When asked what parenting schedule would be in M.M.'s best interest, Mother proposed having parenting time from Thursday after school until Saturday morning, consistent with her work schedule of Sunday through Wednesday from 7:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m.

{¶ 9} On cross-examination, Mother was confronted with the text messages she had sent to M.M. She testified that she now recognizes the messages were inappropriate but explained that being separated from her child caused her to feel as though the "world was against her." She stated that she believed the only way to alleviate those feelings was to regain parenting time.

{¶ 10} Samantha Motes ("Stepmother") testified that she has been married to Father for five years, has known M.M. since he was six years old, and assists in his care, including transportation to school. She testified that M.M.'s behavior has improved with reduced time with Mother, noting he is calmer, emotionally stable, and performing well in school.

{¶ 11} Father testified that he has a strong relationship with M.M. He stated that prior parenting time orders were difficult to manage because Mother routinely disregarded the schedule. Father also testified that M.M. misses too much school and extracurricular activities while in Mother's care.

{¶ 12} Father expressed concerns with Dr. Baker's evaluation, testifying that Dr.

Baker did not contact him and relied on inaccurate information from Mother's family. Father stated that his concerns regarding Mother's behavior were not reflected in the evaluation and that the underlying issues remained unaddressed. Father testified that the parties have been engaged in litigation for approximately seven years, that Mother

continues the same pattern of behavior and noncompliance with court orders, and that she does not appear to be making efforts to improve the situation for M.M. Finally, Father testified that it is in M.M.'s best interest to maintain the existing parenting arrangement— one overnight every two weeks—which has been in place for approximately one and one- half years, explaining that flexibility is necessary due to M.M.'s sports schedule and that forced visitation negatively impacts M.M.

Trial Court's Decision

{¶ 13} The magistrate took the matter under advisement and issued a written decision ("Magistrate's Decision") which granted Mother parenting time every other weekend from Friday at 5:00 p.m. until Saturday at 8:00 p.m. (with variations during summers and holidays) and required Mother to ensure M.M. still was taken to any of his extracurricular activities. But the Magistrate's Decision prohibited Mother from approaching, speaking to, or sitting near Father or his family, or from addressing parenting issues with Father during any of M.M.'s extracurricular activities. The Magistrate's Decision took Mother's third shift work into account, providing for changes if she stopped working third shift. But the Magistrate's Decision also placed additional burdens and guardrails on Mother.

{¶ 14} The Magistrate's Decision ordered Mother to submit to drug testing and provided for additional parenting time upon verification that Mother was engaged in a service provider consistent with Dr. Baker's recommendations. Absent an emergency, Mother could only initiate a call to M.M. once per day, and she was prohibited from initiating any communications with M.M. during school hours or between 9:30 p.m. and 7:00 a.m.3 Any communications between Mother and M.M. that fit within those orders

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