Mohammed v. Williams

67 Va. Cir. 196, 2005 Va. Cir. LEXIS 10
CourtRoanoke County Circuit Court
DecidedMarch 24, 2005
DocketCase No. CH03-691
StatusPublished

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Bluebook
Mohammed v. Williams, 67 Va. Cir. 196, 2005 Va. Cir. LEXIS 10 (Va. Super. Ct. 2005).

Opinion

By Judge Robert p. Doherty, Jr.

The evidence in this custody case has been presented throughout many hours of testimony, in six separate hearings, over nine months. At the start of the hearings the three children, all boys, were ages 10,7, and 2. The youngest child is developmentally delayed and is a “special needs” child. The other two children appear to be both mentally and physically gifted. Mother and Father are physicians. Father specializes in cardiology and Mother in obstetrics and gynecology.

After Mother and Father completed their medical education and training, they moved with their two sons to Roanoke, Virginia, where both parents obtained employment in their respective fields of medicine. In August of 2001, their youngest son was born. About that time, Mother changed her employment to a part time schedule so that she could spend more time caring for the children. On December 27,2002, Father moved out of their house and into an apartment. For the next approximate eighteen months, despite the fact that Mother filed suit for divorce in November 2003, Father continued to return to the marital home almost daily to see the children and to have meals with them. In June 2004, Mother took all three children and moved to her hometown of Tenafly, New Jersey. The Court made no custody determination [197]*197prior to her move. She obtained employment at a local hospital in Northern New Jersey but recently changed jobs so that she would have more time to spend with the children. Father continues to be employed in Roanoke. He travels to New Jersey on alternate weekends, usually by plane, where he rents a motel room and visits with the children. He also talks to the children by cell phone numerous times each day and communicates with them by e-mail.

Both Mother and Father are requesting custody of all three children. In the alternative, Father has asked that Mother be required to return to the Roanoke Valley with the children so that he can see them more frequently and be more active in their daily lives. For the reasons set forth herein, the Court finds in favor of the Mother.

Custody; Relocation

Although Mother relocated with her three children from Virginia to New Jersey during the pendency of her divorce case, this is not a true relocation case in the same sense as are Sullivan v. Knick, 38 Va. App. 773, 568 S.E.2d 430 (2002), and Sullivan v. Jones, 42 Va. App. 794, 595 S.E.2d 36 (2004). Those cases stand for the proposition that, once the Court makes an initial custody determination, relocation will not be allowed unless changed circumstances exist and unless the relocation or move to another state is shown to be in the best interest of the children. In this case, an original custody decision has yet to be made. The fact that Mother has relocated with the children to another state is simply one of the factors under § 20-124.3, Code of Virginia (1950), as amended, which the Court must consider in determining custody. The actual issue before the Court at this time is whether it is in the best interest of the children to place their custody with their Mother or with their Father. Petry v. Petry, 41 Va. App. 782, 790, 589 S.E.2d 458 (2003). In reaching the custody decision in this case, the Court has considered all of the factors set forth in Va. Code § 20-124.3.

Each party has testified concerning the same or similar incidents in the lives of their children and in their own lives. And yet individually, each has seen these events differently. There is no question that both believe that what they are saying is true. Needless to say, their perceptions differ. Conflicts in the evidence exist. The Court, having had the advantage of observing the parties and their reactions over many hours of testimony and in some very stressful moments, resolves the majority of those conflicts in favor of the Mother.

The Father is devoted to his children and spends all of the time with them that the Court allows. He has traveled to New Jersey every other [198]*198weekend for approximately six months to visit them. He is in constant contact with them by telephone, attends as many of their school and sports functions as he can, and he encourages them in their physical and educational endeavors. When they resided in the Roanoke Valley, he attended all of then-games and practices, coached some of their sports teams, visited the children for lunch at their school, and on at least one occasion, prepared and presented a health and medical lesson to their class. As the primary breadwinner, in a veiy demanding profession, he was unable to spend as much time with the children as did their mother. After the separation of the parties, Father continued, or attempted to continue, to return to the former marital residence each evening to eat and play with the children. During his visits with the children in New Jersey, the Father has shown that he is attentive to the special needs of the youngest child, and he includes him in many of the activities with his other two sons; Although no child support arrangements have been made, Father spends a great deal of his income on visits with the children. He makes a monthly payment on the vacant former marital residence and refuses to sell it, in the hope that it will be available as a home for him and his children if he is successful in this custody case. He has made arrangements for the two oldest boys to be re-enrolled in the private school they previously attended in the Roanoke Valley, and he has arranged for them to attend summertime sports camps. The Father is an extremely capable person. He has made carefully thought out plans and schedules that look forward to a time when he hopes to be able to provide all of the children’s daily care. The Court believes his testimony that, if he is granted custody, he will arrange for a full time nanny to care for the children while he works and that he will provide for then-remaining care himself.

The Mother has been the primary care giver for the children throughout their entire lives. They rely on her constant presence. She has always taken care of their daily needs. She has placed the welfare of her children before her career, having gone to a part time status when the youngest child was born, not working at all for a number of months during her transition to New Jersey, and most recently changing jobs so that she would have more time to spend with the children. While in the Roanoke Valley, Mother took the children to all of their medical appointments and arranged for and monitored the special therapy needed by their youngest child. Although that child did well with the limited therapy he was receiving in Virginia, he is doing much better now with the greatly expanded physical, occupational, and educational therapy provided through his New Jersey schooling.

Insofar as the relocation by Mother with the children to her home town of Tenafly, New Jersey, is concerned, the Court recognizes that Mother [199]*199unilaterally made that decision so that she would be closer to friends and family who could provide assistance to her in caring for the children, assistance she was not getting from Father in Roanoke. She made that decision after the Father moved out of the home where she and the children resided.

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Related

Sullivan v. Jones
595 S.E.2d 36 (Court of Appeals of Virginia, 2004)
Fowlkes v. Fowlkes
590 S.E.2d 53 (Court of Appeals of Virginia, 2003)
Petry v. Petry
589 S.E.2d 458 (Court of Appeals of Virginia, 2003)
Sullivan v. Knick
568 S.E.2d 430 (Court of Appeals of Virginia, 2002)
Dietz v. Dietz
436 S.E.2d 463 (Court of Appeals of Virginia, 1993)
Campbell v. Corpening
334 S.E.2d 589 (Supreme Court of Virginia, 1985)

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