M.L. v. C.H. (FD-04-1706-20, CAMDEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-3625-20
M.L.,1
Plaintiff-Appellant/
Cross-Respondent,
v. C.H.,
Defendant-Respondent/
Cross-Appellant.
Submitted March 3, 2022 – Decided March 11, 2022 Before Judges Haas and Mawla.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County, Docket No. FD-04-1706-20.
Sherman, Silverstein, Kohl, Rose & Podolsky, PA, attorneys for appellant/cross-respondent (Kristofer B.
Chiesa, on the briefs).
1 We use the parties' initials pursuant to Rule 1:38-3(d)(3).
Tonacchio, Spina & Compitello, attorneys for respondent/cross-appellant (Jeremy S. Price, on the brief).
PER CURIAM Plaintiff M.L. appeals and defendant C.H. cross-appeals from a July 13, 2021 order adjudicating disputes over custody, parenting time, tax exemption designation, and child support related to their son. We reverse and remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.
We glean from the record that the parties have been to court several times since the birth of their son in 2019. Plaintiff is employed as a corrections officer and does not work from Wednesdays to Sundays, and defendant is employed part-time at a convenience store with a flexible work schedule.
On August 13, 2020, the parties appeared before the trial judge at a telephonic hearing to have the court adjudicate custody and parenting time following a failed mediation. The child was then nearly ten months old, and according to the record, plaintiff enjoyed one day of parenting time with him per week.
Defendant argued plaintiff should not get more parenting time because the child was experiencing digestive problems and had a special diet. She asserted the child could not adequately communicate in the event he was in pain, and it
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was in his best interests that she care for him given her experience and the child's young age. She argued plaintiff's lifestyle, including alleged substance abuse and the lack of amenities in his home, such as a baby crib, made it unsafe for him to have parenting time.
Plaintiff argued defendant used the child's condition as a means of depriving him access and did not share doctor's appointments with him to exclude him from his son's life. Plaintiff denied any substance abuse and noted he is drug tested by his employer. He pointed out defendant saw the crib when she went to his home, and his mother was an experienced nurse capable of assisting him with the child's health issues.
The trial judge noted the medical evidence defendant supplied showed the child had a "constipation issue." He found the condition was neither party's fault; nor was it a condition either of them could not handle. There was no evidence plaintiff could not care for the child or that "the child would be necessarily safer with [defendant] . . . ." The judge noted each party had equal rights and he was "not going to . . . freeze [plaintiff] out until some point somebody decides the child is old enough to safely be with [plaintiff]." He concluded the child needed stability in his life and "has to have quality time with
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[plaintiff] and [defendant]" and plaintiff was "entitled to a reasonable amount of time, including overnights."
The judge granted plaintiff parenting time on alternating weekends from Saturday to Sunday and one midweek overnight every week from Wednesday to Thursday. He envisioned increased parenting time as the child got older and added: "[T]he age of the child I think warrants the stability of this arrangement and limited time for the reasons that I've stated." On August 18, 2020, the judge issued a written order, which differed from his oral findings, stating the midweek overnight would occur every other Wednesday.
In May 2021, plaintiff filed a motion for enforcement and modification of the August order. In pertinent part, he sought the following relief: increasing parenting time to fifty-fifty; alternating the child as a dependent on the parties' income tax returns; and two non-consecutive weeks of vacation time with the child for each party.
Plaintiff argued it was time to increase his parenting time because the child was older and defendant refused to cooperate. He certified defendant permitted midweek parenting time only on an alternating week basis despite the judge's oral ruling midweek parenting time would occur weekly. Citing his availability due to his work schedule, he proposed parenting time every
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Wednesday to Saturday and an overnight every other Saturday to Sunday. As for enforcement, plaintiff noted defendant continued to exclude him from the child's medical appointments and failed to communicate regarding the child's dietary needs. He argued the parties should alternate claiming the child as a dependent because defendant claimed the child on her taxes for two years and he anticipated receiving more overnights.
Defendant filed a notice of cross-motion asking the court to deny plaintiff's requests and sought an order "[e]nforcing a prior request for support heretofore before [the trial judge] but never adjudicated." Her certific ation disputed each assertion in plaintiff's certification. She argued plaintiff should not have more parenting time because the child was "diagnosed on the early level of spectrum of autism and it is recommended by his doctors that a strict regimentation without change would be effective in attempting to stop this before it becomes uncontrollable." Defendant opposed overnight parenting time claiming, "the child comes home without medical care, without his medication being provided and unfortunately, in a very tense and nervous situation which takes me several hours to calm him." She claimed the child was too young to increase parenting time and that any increase, including vacation parenting time, should occur when he "reaches a school age[.]"
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Defendant claimed she shared the child's medical appointment information with plaintiff and he failed to attend the appointments. She opposed alternating the exemption because plaintiff did not pay child support and because she needed it more than him.
Plaintiff's reply certification noted defendant provided no documentation substantiating the child's alleged autism diagnosis. He had "no issue paying [c]hild [s]upport pursuant to the Child Support Guidelines" and attached his paystubs and W-2.
The trial judge heard the matter on July 12, 2021. He noted there was no question he ordered midweek parenting time to occur every week. His review of the record showed the child's digestive issues were being addressed and found as follows:
But I am recognizing [defendant] is bringing [the] child to appointments and the like and I think the parenting time schedule needs to reflect that.
. . . [B]ut the child will be three soon. There's issues here. But I haven't seen anything that tells me that . . .
this is something that [plaintiff] is incapable of handling or [defendant], for that matter. Does that automatically mean that it's a [fifty-fifty]? No.
Because we have [to] take into consideration . . . the best interest of the child . . . [and] make sure that we maybe even get to the bottom of the issues with the child. There's talk of speech problems, food problems, the pre-autistic . . . component that's been argued by
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[defendant]. So, . . . we really need to better understand exactly what's going on there.
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