M.K. VS. Q.E. (FV-09-2308-19, HUDSON COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided February 10, 2021·No. A-0618-19·Unpublished

Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-0618-19

M.K.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. Q.E.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted January 25, 2021 – Decided February 10, 2021 Before Judges Rothstadt and Mayer.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Hudson County, Docket No. FV-09-2308-19.

The Anthony Pope Law Firm, PC, attorneys for appellant (Annette Verdesco, on the brief).

Schultz & Associates, LLC, attorneys for respondent (Anthony W. Dunleavy, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

1 We use initials in accordance with Rule 1:38-3(d)(10).

Defendant appeals from a September 11, 2019 final restraining order (FRO) entered in favor of plaintiff under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35, and an October 2, 2019 amended FRO awarding fees and costs to plaintiff's counsel. We affirm both orders.

The parties married in May 2015 and divorced in December 2018. They have joint custody of their four-year old child. In accordance with the parenting time arrangement, defendant has alternate weekends with the child and "the right of first refusal to care for their son whenever the plaintiff travels for business." Because plaintiff traveled frequently, defendant enjoyed significant parenting time with the child.

The incident precipitating plaintiff's application for a temporary restraining order (TRO) occurred on June 1, 2019. On that date, defendant sent a video message to plaintiff "lasting over [thirty] seconds in which he repeatedly berates her and says she is a horrible person and repeatedly calls her" crude and vulgar names.

Four days later, plaintiff applied for a TRO, alleging defendant committed the predicate act of cyber harassment. She obtained an amended TRO on June 18, 2019, which included prior acts of domestic violence committed by defendant from March 2019 through the date of the TRO.

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The domestic violence trial took place before Judge Bernadette N.

DeCastro on June 26, July 11, and August 29, 2019. On the second day of trial, plaintiff moved to amend the TRO to include the predicate act of harassment, and defense counsel objected. Judge DeCastro granted the motion, explaining a "clerical error" caused harassment to be omitted from the TRO. After the judge allowed the amendment, plaintiff's counsel inquired if defense counsel needed additional time to prepare a defense. Because the trial was not scheduled to resume until two weeks later, defendant's attorney responded he had sufficient time to address the added harassment claim.

Plaintiff and defendant were the only witnesses who testified at the domestic violence trial. In addition, text messages, videos, and pictures sent by defendant to plaintiff were admitted as evidence during the trial. After completion of the trial testimony, on September 11, 2019, Judge DeCastro entered an FRO against defendant, finding he committed the predicate act of harassment. In addition to placing her reasons on the record on September 11, the judge issued a written decision on that same date.

In her written decision, Judge DeCastro set forth detailed fact-findings regarding the images and text messages sent by defendant in support of her

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harassment determination. In addition, she rendered credibility determinations based on her opportunity to see and hear the witnesses.

Judge DeCastro found defendant caused communications to be sent to plaintiff "early in the morning hour as well as late at night" that "both annoyed and alarmed the plaintiff." The prior incidents described by plaintiff during her testimony included ranting and harassing messages from defendant using "extremely coarse language, berating [plaintiff] for keeping their son away from him, telling her she's ugly, she's a transgender[,] and a man and that no one likes her."

The parties are familiar with the trial testimony, and we need not detail the ugly, vulgar, offensive, and crude text messages and images sent to plaintiff by defendant. We incorporate the factual findings regarding those text messages and images sent to plaintiff between March 11, 2019 and June 5, 2019 as stated in Judge DeCastro's thorough and meticulous September 11, 2019 written decision.

According to plaintiff, defendant's messages and pictures caused her to be "alarmed," "horrified," and "upset" because many of the heinous and insidious messages were sent while defendant was caring for their son. At the same time, plaintiff explained she felt defeated and powerless to stop the barrage of vile

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communications from defendant. Although plaintiff threatened to block defendant's messages if he did not "stop using abusive words[,]" defendant was undeterred and continued to send raging messages.

Plaintiff testified she lived in fear defendant would text her in the middle of the night and was afraid to wake up to his despicable messages. Plaintiff told the judge the messages were mentally exhausting, nerve racking, alarming, and offensive. The messages sent by defendant while plaintiff was at work were hostile, not only to plaintiff but to her friends and co-workers as well. Plaintiff feared defendant's messages would negatively affect her career.

Judge DeCastro found defendant "defensive" when he first testified.

Defendant did not dispute he sent the text messages and images to plaintiff. Rather, defendant claimed "the course, vulgar[,] and disgusting language he used was the pattern of language used between the parties during the marriage[,]" and that "plaintiff was not bothered by [the] sort of language and innuendoes" in his video and texts. In support of his position, defendant submitted a video of the parties arguing during the marriage. However, Judge DeCastro found "the sort of language depicted in the verbal argument hardly rose to the level of vulgar, offensive, racist[,] and homophobic content that

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defendant used in the barrage of text messages that he sent to the plaintiff since March 2019."

Judge DeCastro rejected defendant's contention the messages were the result of his frustration regarding parenting time with the child . The judge explained, "[t]he parties had a very detailed parenting agreement and [defendant] did not submit any proof that [plaintiff] interfered with this parenting time agreement." If plaintiff was interfering with defendant's parenting time, the judge stated, "[T]he remedy was for [defendant] to file a post[-]judgment motion under the FM docket. Resorting to obnoxious, vulgar, insulting[,] and alarming texts was not the remedy. None of [defendant's] testimony regarding his frustration with parenting time excuse[d] the barrage of harassing text messages." Based on admissions made during his testimony, Judge DeCastro found defendant "was trying to get [plaintiff's] attention by sending these messages to her" and "he did it to annoy [plaintiff]."

Judge DeCastro remarked defendant's demeanor during cross-examination on the second day of trial was "markedly different." At that time, defendant conceded plaintiff was a good mother and his calling her stupid, a whore, and other vulgar names was wrong. He also admitted "he sent the texts and video message to plaintiff to get a reaction from [plaintiff]" and "he ha[d]

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uncontrollable anger and 'rages.'"2 Defendant also acknowledged "his behavior was very immature and disgusting and it was wrong for him to have sent the doctored photograph of plaintiff and her co-worker . . . ." Defendant told the judge "he [would] never, ever do it again." Yet, defendant attempted to excuse his behavior by telling the judge that plaintiff said awful things to him as well.

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