M.J.M. v. M.E.P.
Opinion
RECORD IMPOUNDED
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-1161-23
M.J.M.,1 Plaintiff-Respondent,
v. M.E.P.,
Defendant-Appellant.
Submitted March 4, 2025 – Decided April 25, 2025 Before Judges Gilson and Augostini.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Passaic County, Docket No. FV-16-2677-23.
Lento Law Group, PC, attorneys for appellant (Samuel D. Jackson and Lawrence A. Katz, on the brief).
The Morgan Law Firm, LLC, attorney for respondent (Alexandra Morgan, of counsel and on the brief).
PER CURIAM
1 We use initials and fictitious names to protect the confidentiality of the record and the privacy interest. See R. 1:38-3(d)(12).
Defendant M.E.P. appeals from an October 31, 2023 final restraining order (FRO) entered against her in favor of her former boyfriend , plaintiff M.J.M., pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35, based on the predicate acts of harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4, cyber-harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4.1, and contempt of a domestic violence restraining order, N.J.S.A. 2C:29-9. For the reasons that follow, we affirm the FRO.
I.
The parties were in a dating relationship for approximately six years that ended in June 2021. In July 2022, plaintiff obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant, alleging terroristic threats, criminal trespass, and harassment. Shortly thereafter, plaintiff voluntarily withdrew the TRO.
On June 6, 2023, plaintiff obtained a second TRO against defendant, alleging terroristic threats, N.J.S.A. 2C:12-3, and harassment. The case was scheduled for a hearing on June 14, 2023. However, on that date, because defendant had not been served with the TRO, the court entered an indefinite TRO subject to the matter being rescheduled for an FRO hearing once defendant was served with the TRO. Shortly thereafter, defendant retained an attorney to
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represent her on the matter, and counsel filed a notice of appearance on June 16, 2023.
The matter was rescheduled for an FRO hearing on October 24, 2023.
Plaintiff, his attorney, and defense counsel appeared; defendant did not appear. Defense counsel represented that defendant was "made aware of the existence of a restraining order." Defense counsel stated that he had been retained to represent defendant on the domestic violence complaint and to accept service of the TRO on defendant's behalf.
Defense counsel advised the court that defendant was unable to be present for trial on that day, and requested a brief, one week adjournment. According to defense counsel, defendant was unable to appear because of her "mental health related to grieving the loss of an uncle . . . ." Defense counsel requested the matter be rescheduled for October 31, 2023. Counsel represented that defendant "knows that [it] will likely not be adjourned after Halloween." Accepting counsel's representations, the court granted the adjournment request, noting that the court had "no information" to confirm the relative's death or defendant's treatment for mental health issues.
The following week, when the matter was rescheduled for the FRO hearing, defendant again failed to appear. However, defendant sent to the court
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"a multi-page typed written single spaced, margins pushed out to the corners, double sided letter." The court did not read the letter but provided it to defense counsel.
Defense counsel advised the court that moments before the hearing began, defendant contacted him but he was unable to confirm whether defendant intended to appear for the hearing. Defense counsel advised the court that he had told defendant "via email and text messages" that she needed to be present for the hearing. Satisfied that defendant received notice of the FRO hearing, the court stated that it would proceed with the hearing and permit defense counsel to participate in the trial in a limited manner by making arguments and cross examining the witnesses but not offering affirmative evidence because defendant was in default.
Plaintiff testified during the hearing and offered several exhibits, consisting of text and Facebook messages plaintiff identified as having been sent to him by defendant. Following their break-up in June 2021, plaintiff explained that the parties had very limited communication and he had not seen defendant since their relationship ended.
Despite their relationship having ended, plaintiff stated that defendant persisted in sending him "hundreds if not thousands of text messages" and
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making "hundreds" of phone calls to him. Plaintiff explained defendant would not stop contacting him. In these messages, defendant threatened his and his girlfriend's lives and threatened to come to his home and to his job. According to plaintiff, defendant "has stated that she's out to ruin my life."
Plaintiff testified that on June 3, 2023, 2 defendant called and texted plaintiff non-stop from fake numbers. Plaintiff described repeatedly blocking numbers and defendant calling from a new number. Plaintiff received at least seventy-four text messages from defendant on June 3rd, "bashing me, calling me all kinds of names, seeing who I am currently dating." Plaintiff identified one of the text messages he received on June 3rd from defendant telling him "[y]ou're going to pay." Plaintiff further explained that during the parties' relationship, they had a child together who was stillborn. According to plaintiff, defendant is "fixated" on this issue, blaming plaintiff for the child's stillbirth .
Two days later, on June 6, 2023, defendant obtained a TRO. After obtaining the TRO, plaintiff continued to receive communications from defendant. For example, plaintiff identified a derogatory communication he received from defendant on June 13th, which included a picture of plaintiff and
2 Plaintiff's testimony was supported by the text messages in the record. In the TRO, however, the date of the predicate acts is June 4, 2023.
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his current girlfriend. During this time, defendant created fake Facebook profiles as well to communicate with plaintiff.
Plaintiff identified these various fake Facebook profiles of individuals whom he did not know but believed defendant created to communicate with him. Plaintiff explained that he was able to identify the profiles as having been created by defendant based on the "language style" used, the references to people plaintiff knew, and the similarity of the repeated threats. Plaintiff identified a Facebook profile for an individual by the name of Marie Martin, with the profile picture of defendant attached. The message dated June 13th, which was attached to this fake profile, stated:
Oopsy in the shredder, so oops can't go anywhere, lol, lol.
Is paper not going -- not going, it's worthless paper, lol. I put it in the shredder.
Plaintiff believed this message referred to the TRO with which plaintiff had been served.
Plaintiff also identified a message dated July 12th from a number he did not recognize, but which he believed was referring to plaintiff's present girlfriend. Plaintiff explained that the message conveyed defendant's belief that his present girlfriend was pregnant, and defendant wanted her to "bleed out." In another message, defendant identified pictures of himself, and his current A-1161-23
girlfriend attached to the profile, as well as a message threatening to attend "the wedding and the birth." The message further threatened, "[y]ou will never escape. I will always watch you." Plaintiff feared for his safety based on such messages and described the threatening communications as "escalating."
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