Miles v. Gernstein

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedMarch 28, 2025
DocketC099438
StatusPublished

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Opinion

Filed 3/28/25 CERTIFIED FOR PUBLICATION

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA THIRD APPELLATE DISTRICT (Sacramento) ----

SARAH ANN MILES, C099438

Plaintiff and Appellant, (Super. Ct. No. 21FL02359)

v.

JEFFREY GERNSTEIN,

Defendant and Respondent.

APPEAL from a judgment of the Superior Court of Sacramento County, Bunmi O. Awoniyi, Judge. Affirmed.

Law Office of Stephanie J. Finelli and Stephanie J. Finelli for Plaintiff and Appellant.

Shannon Minter for National Center for Lesbian Rights and Men Having Babies as Amici Curiae on behalf of Plaintiff and Appellant.

Jarrette & Walmsley, Robert R. Walmsley and Marlea F. Jarrette for Defendant and Respondent.

1 Appellant Sarah Ann Miles appeals from a judgment that found (1) an oral traditional surrogacy agreement that she entered into with respondent Jeffrey Gerstein controls the relationship between her and the child born following that agreement; and (2) she is not a parent to the child under that agreement. Both parties performed under the terms of the agreement until the child was seven years old. In those seven years, Gerstein, whose sperm was used to conceive the child, acted as the child’s sole parent. In this decision, a “traditional surrogacy” is an arrangement where a woman conceives (1) without sexual intercourse; (2) using her ova; (3) using the sperm of the intended legal father or sperm arranged by the intended legal parents; and (4) with the mutual intention that she will not be a legal parent of the child. Traditional surrogacy contrasts with “gestational surrogacy,” where the woman who gestates the child does not use her ova and, therefore, has no genetic relationship to the child. We find under the facts of this case the oral agreement is enforceable and affirm the judgment.

FACTS AND HISTORY OF THE PROCEEDINGS Based on the testimony in the trial court and the trial court’s unchallenged credibility determinations, the facts are as follows:

Formation of the Agreement

Gerstein is a single gay man and Miles is a single lesbian. Miles and Gerstein met in 2002 or 2003 when Miles and her daughter, Madeleine, moved next door to Gerstein. Thereafter Miles and Gerstein became friends. Gerstein began thinking about becoming a parent while he was in his teens and in 2010, he began to explore his options in that regard in earnest. He spoke with gay people with children to see how they became parents, he bought books regarding surrogacy and adoption, he spoke with an adoption agency, and he spoke with lawyers and physicians after which Gerstein decided to pursue a surrogacy.

2 Gerstein told Miles he was researching ways to become a parent and, in early 2012, Miles offered to be a surrogate for Gerstein. Throughout 2012, Gerstein and Miles discussed the prospect of her being his surrogate. Gerstein wanted to use a separate ova donor, but Miles was not receptive to that. According to Gerstein, Miles did not want hormone treatments. Initially, Gerstein was concerned about Miles using her own ova, but, given his trust in Miles and her reassurances she did not want to be a mother to the child, Gerstein went forward with Miles using her ova. Specifically, Gerstein testified: “ . . . [s]o I was given all—you know, the reassurance, and I felt that I could trust what she said, which was that she did not want to be a mom. She did not want to be, you know, a mom to another child. She had a—she had a child, at that time, and she was—you know, did not want to repeat that process yet again.” Miles and Gerstein reached a final agreement in November 2012. Gerstein would be responsible for all pregnancy-related expenses up to six months post-delivery. They agreed if there were significant complications with the developing baby, Miles would terminate the pregnancy. They agreed Miles would take supplements, avoid teratogenic medications, and limit her alcohol and marijuana use while pregnant. The parties agreed that soon after the baby was born it would live with Gerstein permanently. They agreed Miles would initially breastfeed the child then move to pumping. The parties agreed Gerstein would be the sole parent to the child, and Miles would not be the child’s mother. Again, Gerstein testified that, specifically: “The terms or the agreement that we came to was that—first and foremost—was that I was going to be the parent to—to the child; that Ms. Miles was not going to be Mom to the child. I was going to be a single parent. That—and all the things that went into that. All the decision-making.

3 “I mean, I could list it. But we very specifically, you know, came up with the various avenues of decision-making that one makes as a parent, but that I was going to be the sole parent, make all decisions for—for the child, child would live with me, as—as I was going to be the—the—a single parent to—to the child.” As a sole parent, Gerstein was to be responsible for all decision-making regarding how the child was raised including decisions regarding the child’s medical care and education and Gerstein was to assume all financial responsibility for the child. According to Gerstein, he and Miles agreed the child would call Miles “Sarah,” not “Mom.” Gerstein anticipated there would be some contact between Miles and the child after it was born. They were neighbors, and when they interacted as friends the child might be present. He expected Miles might join in celebrations like birthdays as a friend. But, according to Gerstein, it was understood that invitations would be at his discretion, and Miles would defer to him regarding the amount of contact she had with the child. At trial, Miles acknowledged the parties did not make a specific agreement regarding what her contact with the child would look like. The parties agreed to remain transparent with the child regarding how it was conceived. Gerstein did not enter a written contract with Miles because he had no reason to think she would not honor her agreement, and “this wasn’t . . . a business transaction.” It was an agreement with a close friend about a child. According to Gerstein, at one point Miles said she wanted an agreement to ensure Gerstein would not give the baby back to her.

Pregnancy, Birth, and Infancy

Miles and Gerstein began trying to conceive in January 2013. When Miles determined she was most fertile, she would tell Gerstein and Gerstein would then provide

4 Miles a sperm specimen which Miles used to inseminate herself. Gerstein is a doctor of psychiatry and Miles is a registered nurse who spent approximately six years working as a birthing doula, but the parties did not use the services of other medical professionals to achieve conception. After a few tries, Miles became pregnant. Gerstein paid Miles approximately $28,000 total during and shortly after the pregnancy. Multiple witnesses testified Miles referred to herself as a surrogate for Gerstein before and while she was pregnant. They testified Miles said she had already raised her child and had no interest in being a parent to the child she was carrying for Gerstein. They testified about a baby shower where Miles was in attendance, but the guests were Gerstein’s friends and family, and the gifts were for him. One friend testified that Miles offered to serve as a surrogate for him and his partner too. In December 2013, Miles gave birth to a baby girl at home using a midwife who Gerstein paid. Gerstein was in the room when the child, E., was born. Miles is identified as E.’s mother on E.’s birth certificate. According to Gerstein, though the parties agreed Miles would not be recognized as or assume the role of E.’s mother, Miles asked to be named on the birth certificate to prevent the line for “mother” being blank. Although Gerstein was not comfortable with this, he agreed it might matter to E. someday and agreed to it. Gerstein signed the birth certificate.

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