Meyer v. Gribben

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedJanuary 21, 2026
Docket25-88
StatusUnpublished
AuthorJudge Tobias Hampson

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Opinion

An unpublished opinion of the North Carolina Court of Appeals does not constitute controlling legal authority. Citation is disfavored, but may be permitted in accordance with the provisions of Rule 30(e)(3) of the North Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA 25-88

Filed 21 January 2026

Union County, No. 19CVD001638-890

JUSTIN FREDERICK MEYER, Plaintiff,

v.

COLLEEN CATHERINE GRIBBEN, Defendant.

Appeal by Defendant from Order entered 18 July 2024 by Judge Christopher

A. Gray in Union County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 11 September

2025.

Justin Frederick Meyer, pro se Plaintiff-Appellee.

Sodoma Law, by Rebecca K. Watts, for Defendant-Appellant.

HAMPSON, Judge.

Factual and Procedural Background

Colleen Gribben (Defendant) appeals from an Order on Permanent Child

Custody awarding Justin Meyer (Plaintiff) legal custody and primary physical

custody of the parties’ two minor children. The Record before us tends to reflect the

following: MEYER V. GRIBBEN

Opinion of the Court

Plaintiff and Defendant began a relationship in 2014. They lived together from

2014 until 3 June 2019, when they separated. They are the biological parents of two

minor children.

On 5 June 2019, Plaintiff filed a Complaint for Child Custody and an Ex Parte

Motion for Emergency Custody in Union County District Court. The trial court

granted Plaintiff emergency custody the same day. In August 2019, Plaintiff and

Defendant agreed to a consent order on temporary emergency custody. In October

2019, the parties participated in mediation but did not resolve the issue of permanent

custody.

After a hearing in November 2019, the trial court entered a Temporary

Custody Order in December 2019. This Order gave primary physical custody to

Plaintiff, joint legal custody to the parties, and visitation rights to Defendant. The

visitation schedule provided Defendant with a weekly dinner visit and custody of the

children on alternating weekends.

The first permanent custody trial was held on 14 and 15 June 2021 before

Judge William Helms, III. Upon its conclusion, Judge Helms made verbal comments

from the bench indicating what he intended to enter as an order. However, Judge

Helms never entered an order prior to his retirement.1

1 After learning of Judge Helms’s retirement, the parties met with Chief District Court Judge

Erin Hucks to discuss the status of the case. Chief Judge Hucks determined Judge Helms had not made sufficient findings that would permit her to enter an order on permanent custody.

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In the proceedings below, Defendant claimed that around August 2021 the

parties began to follow a new custody schedule in keeping with Judge Helms’s verbal

comments about the schedule he intended to set out in his written order (the

“alternate custody schedule”).2 According to Defendant, this arrangement gave her

more visitation time than she had had under the terms of the December 2019

Temporary Custody Order. Defendant claimed the parties followed this alternate

schedule from late July 2021 until April 2024, when they had a dispute about

exchanging the children at the end of their spring break.

A second permanent custody trial was held on 10 and 11 July 2024. The trial

court declared the June 2021 trial before Judge Helms a mistrial because an order

was never entered. Evidence consisted of testimony from Plaintiff, testimony from

Defendant, and various documents referenced in their testimony.

Plaintiff testified that his decision to seek emergency custody in June 2019 was

precipitated by concerns about the impact on the minor children of Defendant’s

“heavy” alcohol use, mental health issues, and various forms of improper parenting.

For example, Plaintiff testified, and Defendant confirmed, that Defendant had driven

drunk with the children in the car. Evidence indicated Defendant had entered an

inpatient facility on 4 June 2019 for a twenty-eight day alcohol recovery treatment

program. Since that date, Plaintiff had been “primarily responsible for the daily care

2 Plaintiff disputes Defendant’s claims about the alleged alternate custody schedule.

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of the minor children.”

On cross-examination, defense counsel asked Plaintiff about the custody

schedules the parties followed subsequent to the entry of the December 2019

Temporary Custody Order:

[Defense Counsel]: Okay. Um, at some point in 2021, did you and [Defendant] begin following a different schedule, other than this one in two thousand – from 2019?

[Plaintiff’s Counsel]: I would object to all of this testimony, Your Honor, because what you have is a judge who is no longer a judge basically extorting that being done, and he never followed up with an order. Because I – I don’t see how this can be pertinent at all when, as you said before, I’m going to have to declare a mistrial.

[Trial Court]: At this point, [defense counsel] just asked if the parties for some reason operated under some different arrangement by consent. You certainly – so the objection is overruled, but you can certainly flesh that out.

[Plaintiff’s Counsel]: Your Honor, it would be our contention it wasn’t by consent.

[Trial Court]: [T]hat may be the case. I don’t think [defense counsel has] quite gone far enough down that path yet.

Defense counsel then asked Plaintiff, “So at some point in 2021 you and

[Defendant] began following a different custody schedule, correct?”; Plaintiff

answered, “Correct.”

Defense counsel asked Plaintiff additional questions about the custody

schedule set out in the December 2019 Temporary Custody Order, before returning

to the topic of a change in the schedule in 2021:

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[Defense Counsel]: [S]o tell me at what point in time in 2021 that you and [Defendant] began following a different schedule, if you can recall?

[Plaintiff’s Counsel]: Objection again, Your Honor.

[Trial Court]: Overruled.

[Defense Counsel]: Do you recall when that occurred? When you followed a different schedule?

[Plaintiff]: Um, after school began.

[Defense Counsel]: [G]oing back to 2021, do you recall about what – what time period when Union Academy started school?

[Plaintiff]: That’s August – August 1st.

[Defense Counsel]: Okay. And so what was the custodial arrangement at that time?

[Plaintiff’s Counsel]: Objection. The order speaks for itself. We’re getting into things, we have a valid order. That temporary order is such – in fact, that temporary order might be a permanent order by operation of law right now.

[Trial Court]: Well, that’s – that’s also possible, but overruled. The order does speak for itself, but . . . if it was the case that the parties operated under a different schedule by mutual consent, then I think [defense counsel] is allowed to ask questions about that.

[Defense Counsel]: Okay. What schedule were you following starting for the 2021, um, school year of Union Academy?

[Plaintiff]: Um, it was starting – starting the school year. This was after the summer had gone – had gone by. Uh, under – under the duress of a vindictive judge, I followed a . . . verbal outline of what he said was gonna be or potentially be . . . the week before school started. And uh, the – the outline of that is, uh Thursday –

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Plaintiff’s counsel objected again, “because [Plaintiff] said [the custody

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