Melissa Henry (Shoptaw) v. Shawn Henry

Court of Appeals of Arkansas·Decided April 1, 2026·Published·Cited by 1 cases

Opinion

Cite as 2026 Ark. App. 199 ARKANSAS COURT OF APPEALS DIVISION II No. CV-25-99

Opinion Delivered April 1, 2026

MELISSA HENRY (SHOPTAW) APPEAL FROM THE SALINE APPELLANT COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT [NO. 63DR-20-1034] V. HONORABLE KEN CASADY, JUDGE SHAWN HENRY APPELLEE AFFIRMED

BART F. VIRDEN, Judge

Appellant Melissa Henry (now Shoptaw) appeals from the Saline County Circuit

Court’s order finding sufficient changed circumstances to warrant a modification of appellee

Shawn Henry’s visitation with the parties’ minor child (“MC”). Melissa argues that the trial

court erred in finding that the parties had joint custody of MC and modifying their custody

agreement without requiring a material change of her circumstances; that even a modification

of visitation requires a material change of circumstances; that a modification of Shawn’s

visitation was a de facto change of custody without a material change of circumstances; and

that, alternatively, it was not in MC’s best interest to increase Shawn’s visitation. We affirm.

I. Background

The parties were married in July 2012; MC was born in 2016; and the parties divorced

by decree entered on March 31, 2021. By agreement of the parties, the decree provides that Melissa is the fit and proper person to have care, custody, and control of MC subject to

Shawn’s reasonable parenting time. The decree further provides that the parties shall share

joint legal custody of MC with Melissa being the primary custodial parent. The decree

expressly states that

[j]oint custody means that before a decision is made the parties are charged with consulting one another on the issue, taking into consideration as to what is in the best interest of the child and not what is best for either party. In the event that the parties are unable to reach a mutual agreement, then [Melissa] shall have final decision-making authority. Each party will make the day-to-day decisions regarding the child while he is in that party’s physical care.

The decree provides that Shawn’s parenting time includes every other weekend from

Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Sunday at 6:00 p.m. During the week, Shawn will have one night

of visitation beginning when school recesses for the day until 7:30 p.m. The decree provides

that the parties agree that the visitation night will depend on Shawn’s work schedule but

acknowledge that the night will fall between Tuesday and Thursday and that they will be

flexible due to Shawn’s work schedule. There is also a division of holidays, and Shawn is to

have three weeks of summer visitation. The decree provides that regular weekend and

weeknight visitation will be suspended for the summer visitation period and will resume

when school begins and that, if Shawn needs childcare during his weeks in the summer,

Melissa will provide that care.

On May 12, 2023, Shawn filed a “Motion to Modify Custody” alleging that Melissa

frequently interferes with his visitation in that she calls MC during his visits, which upsets

MC and undermines what Shawn is doing with him, and tells MC that he does not have to

2 stay with him (Shawn) and that she can come and get him (MC). Shawn also alleged that on

Christmas 2022, Melissa attempted to schedule a trip during his visitation, and when he

would not agree to give up his time with MC, she withdrew the extra parenting time he had

been receiving. Shawn alleged that Melissa threatens to withhold visitation if he does not

provide all of the transportation for visitation. Shawn further alleged that Melissa has made

unfounded allegations that his fiancée, Tonya, mistreats MC and that MC is “scared of her.”

Shawn alleged that Melissa has unilaterally withheld visitation and that she has lied about

MC being in therapy, manipulates and coaches MC into distress, and bribes MC with toys.

Shawn stated that he has recently relocated to Benton in order to be closer to MC. According

to Shawn, all of these facts and others constitute a material change in circumstances that

justify a modification of custody. Shawn requested that he be awarded primary custody of

MC, or joint and equal custody of MC, or expanded and specific visitation up to equal time

with MC.

An attorney ad litem (AAL), Cynthia Moody, was appointed, and her

recommendation was that the parties should continue to share joint custody of MC but that

there is no need for a “primary” designation because that has not worked well. She opined

that Shawn’s parenting time should be increased to every Thursday overnight and that she

would not oppose an equal division of time. Moody reported that “[t]he bottom line is, [MC]

wants more time with his father and ultimately feels like ‘the same time with each of them’

would be, in his words, ‘fair.’”

II. Hearing Testimony

3 Shawn testified that he has been employed as a nurse anesthetist since the divorce

and that he has lived in Alexander since May 2023. Shawn said that he did not see MC for

three or four weeks after the decree was entered in 2021 because Melissa claimed that MC,

then four years old, did not want to see him. Shawn said that he initially had trouble picking

up MC from school for his midweek visitation because Melissa said that the school could

not offer any additional parking passes. He said that he believed her given that she worked

at the school but that he later requested and received a parking pass. Shawn said that Melissa

requires that he notify her by Sunday at 9:00 p.m. which midweek night he wants for

visitation with MC, and if he fails to notify her, she denies him the visit. He said that he has

heard Melissa tell MC that he does not have to stay with him (Shawn) if he does not want

to. Shawn testified that Melissa told him that the decree does not say anything about

transportation, so she has no responsibility to transport MC for visitation.

Shawn testified that he told Melissa that Tonya, his then live-in girlfriend, would be

caring for MC while he was at work during visitation and that Melissa rejected that plan and

told him that she would have the police come and get MC. Shawn said that the police did

come to his home that night but did not take MC. Shawn said that Melissa claimed that MC

had told her that Tonya had been mean to him during visitation. Shawn said that Melissa,

however, had not liked Tonya since the day they met because Tonya is not a “professional”

and has tattoos. He said that Tonya is a full-time double-major student. He said that he and

Tonya have been together nearly two years but that Melissa’s opinion has not changed.

4 Shawn said that MC likes Tonya and that they have fun. He said that Melissa does not want

Tonya caring for MC even now that they are married.

Shawn admitted that in July 2023, he had too much to drink and injured himself

when he slipped while stepping out of a kiddie pool. He said that he had had only one drink

at that time and was just clumsy. Shawn admitted that he had a problem with binge drinking

and that in January 2022, he was troubled by how much he drank and went to Alcoholics

Anonymous. Shawn said that he considers himself sober now. He said, however, that he has

a medical marijuana card and that he takes ketamine treatments for PTSD and anxiety.

Shawn testified that Melissa recently enrolled MC in Cub Scouts but failed to tell

him about it. He said that Melissa refused to join Our Family Wizard, a coparenting website

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