Meemken v. O'HARA

66 N.W.2d 601, 243 Minn. 138, 1954 Minn. LEXIS 695
CourtSupreme Court of Minnesota
DecidedNovember 5, 1954
Docket36,294
StatusPublished
Cited by13 cases

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Meemken v. O'HARA, 66 N.W.2d 601, 243 Minn. 138, 1954 Minn. LEXIS 695 (Mich. 1954).

Opinion

Dell, Chief Justice.

This is an action for damages arising out of a breach of promise to marry claimed to have been made in the spring of 1952. There was a verdict for the plaintiff for $10,000. Defendant appeals from an order denying his alternative motion for judgment notwithstanding the verdict or a new trial.

Only those facts will be stated which we deem necessary to a. consideration of the issues involved, and pursuant to the well-established rule they will be stated in the light most favorable to-the verdict. 2 The plaintiff, 34 years of age, first met the defendant in August 1945 in St. Cloud, Minnesota, at which time she was-married and living with her husband. Defendant began taking plaintiff out regularly that fall, and from then on they had sexual relations on numerous occasions. In the fall of 1946 the plaintiff became pregnant. As a result of the pregnancy Virginia was born. Defendant occasionally gave plaintiff money, including some at the time of the birth of her child. After Virginia was born the parties continued their association and for periods of time saw each other daily. In March 1949 plaintiff left her husband and moved into an apartment in St. Cloud with her two children. While the defendant did not live in the apartment with the plaintiff, he paid the rent, furnished the groceries, and gave her $50 a month. A few months later defendant moved in with the plaintiff and her children at another home in St. Cloud. After again moving and living together elsewhere defendant finally built a house in St. Cloud. Plaintiff and defendant together selected the lot and planned the house. In December 1949 plaintiff, her children, the defendant, and defendant’s child, Darlene, by a previous marriage moved into the home. Defendant paid all of the expenses of operating the home except *141 that plaintiff paid for the telephone. While living together plaintiff and defendant repeatedly had sexual relations and for the most part shared the same bed.

In April 1950 plaintiff was divorced from her husband as a result of an action commenced by her in March 1949. In the fall of 1950 plaintiff again became pregnant as a result of which David was born. Thereupon defendant increased the monthly payment to plaintiff from $50 to $65.

Plaintiff testified that the defendant asked her to marry him in the spring of 1952 and that she accepted. She said that the wedding was to take place in California during Christmastime of that year. While plaintiff claims that other promises of marriage were also made, they are not involved in this action. Defendant denied that he promised to marry the plaintiff at all.

In 1953, following an argument, defendant asked plaintiff to leave the home but she refused. She was forced to do so under a court order in March 1953. Defendant has since married another woman. With minor variances the parties agree that the defendant’s net worth is approximately $20,000 and that he has an annual income of approximately $7,000.

Considerable evidence was admitted over the objection of the defendant regarding sexual relations between the parties from 1945 to the time of the alleged promise to marry in 1952. The defendant assigns as error the rulings of the court admitting this evidence, contending first that evidence of illicit sexual relations is not relevant to prove a contract of marriage and, secondly, that much of the testimony concerns acts too remote in time to be material.

Generally evidence tending to show the relationship and conduct of the parties has probative force and is properly received in evidence to aid the jury in its determination of whether promises to marry were exchanged. 3 Although the precise point has not clearly *142 been, considered by this court, 4 there are cases from other jurisdictions holding that testimony of illicit intercourse is properly for consideration of the jury along with other evidence showing the conduct and relationship of the parties. 5 In the instant case the evidence complained of was expressly limited by the court to this purpose.

Cases expressing a contrary view do so, at least ostensibly, on the theory that evidence of the conduct of' the parties, to be admissible, must be open and public as well as an ordinary and usual incident to a promise of marriage. 6 We fail to see any sound reason for so limiting the evidence. While this court does not condone the conduct of the parties here, that is not a sufficient basis for arbitrarily denying the jury the benefit of facts from which it may, together with other evidence, reasonably and fairly draw an inference of a promise to marry.

A more compelling reason for refusing such evidence appears from Wrynn v. Downey, 27 R. I. 454, 466, 63 A. 401, 405, 4 L.R.A.(N.S.) 615, relied on by the defendant, where the court stated:

“* * -* But it can not be seriously urged that such circumstances [illicit intercourse] are ever introduced by a plaintiff except with the object of increasing damages. The record plainly shows that such was the intent in this case. A meritorious case could hardly *143 arise where the contract and the breach of it could not be proven by other evidence.”

It cannot be denied that in some cases there may be danger of evidence of illicit relations having an unjustly inflammatory effect upon the jury. But oral contracts of marriage are seldom made in the presence of witnesses, and the aggrieved party must, of necessity, frequently rely on the circumstances surrounding the relationship to assist in proving the existence of the contract. The record before us fails to show any ulterior motive in introducing the questioned evidence and, in the absence of a showing to the contrary, it must be assumed that the plaintiff offered it in good faith and for the proper purpose. Nor do we feel that the fact that the testimony of illicit intercourse related back to a period seven years prior to the alleged promise to marry renders it inadmissible on the ground of remoteness. It is generally agreed that evidence of the relations of the parties from the inception of the courtship may be admitted to show the probability of the promise, 7 and in many cases the time involved has extended over a long period. 8 In this case the relationship was of a continuous nature, and it was proper for the jury to consider the circumstances under which it was conceived as well as its progress. While the plaintiff was married at the time she first met defendant and consequently was unable to enter into a valid contract to marry, this court held in Hahn v. Bettingen, 84 Minn. 512, 88 N. W. 10, that the relationship and conduct of the parties might, nevertheless, be introduced since it was relevant in showing the existence of a promise to marry at a subsequent time when plaintiff did have capacity to so contract. 9

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