Means v. Means, No. 107289 (May 22, 1996)

1996 Conn. Super. Ct. 4010-KK, 17 Conn. L. Rptr. 26
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedMay 22, 1996
DocketNo. 107289
StatusUnpublished
Cited by1 cases

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Bluebook
Means v. Means, No. 107289 (May 22, 1996), 1996 Conn. Super. Ct. 4010-KK, 17 Conn. L. Rptr. 26 (Colo. Ct. App. 1996).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION The plaintiff husband commenced this action for a dissolution of marriage on the ground of irretrievable breakdown, by complaint returnable March 14, 1995. He also sought a property settlement and other relief, as on file. The defendant wife admitted the allegations. In her cross complaint, she too seeks a dissolution on the same ground, together with custody and support of the parties' minor children, alimony, and other relief, as on file.

At trial, each spouse testified and submitted financial affidavits, child support and arrearage guideline worksheets and written proposed orders and claims for relief. Numerous documentary materials, including wage and earning statements, tax returns and appraisal reports were introduced into evidence, and counsel made oral argument.

From the evidence, I find as follows.

The parties were married April 2, 1983, at Norwich, Connecticut. The husband has resided continuously in this state for at least one year prior to the date of the complaint. Only two minor children were born to the wife since the marriage, both of whom are issue of the marriage: Genyce D. Means, born July 27, 1980, and Daniel D. Means, born March 15, 1988. Neither spouse or children are recipients of public assistance. All statutory stays have expired. The court has jurisdiction. CT Page 4010-LL

The husband is 45 years old, a high school graduate with two years of college, and a CLU designation. He is in good health. He has worked since 1979 in the life insurance industry. In 1992, he left his sales manager job at John Hancock due to an office closing. He now works as a salesman for Allstate. In 1995, he earned approximately $35,000 gross income, including bonuses, or about $673 per week. His gross annual earnings in 1994 were $46,625; in 1993, $44,086. He has health insurance benefits and pension and profit sharing plans available through his employment.

The wife is 36, a high school graduate, with two years of bible school. She recently was ordained as a minister. She had a real estate agent's license for a brief period. She allowed it to lapse. She suffers from hypothyroidism for which she takes medication daily, and recently underwent a hysterectomy. Her condition does not appear to affect her ability to work.

In the early years of the marriage, she provided day care in her home for other people's children. She is now employed as a part-time church administrator and part-time minister. She earns $285 per week gross, $251 per week net; in addition, she receives $69 per week rental income.

The parties met when the wife was 15. She was pregnant by another man; the husband accepted the child as his own, and they enjoy a good father-daughter relationship. That daughter left the family dwelling and has moved in with the husband.

The husband essentially claims that the wife had excessive spending habits, no communication with him and a close relationship with a woman friend which caused the shattering of the marriage. The husband believes that the relationship is lesbian; the wife heatedly denies it. Whatever the bond was, it contributed to the marital destruction. The wife claims that he intimidated her, that he was domineering and controlling, that she couldn't discuss anything with him on a rational basis, and that her woman friend was merely that, a friend. The wife attempted to obtain a restraining order against the husband, which was denied after a hearing. She believes that each is 50 percent responsible for the marital breakdown. CT Page 4010-MM

For a time, the parties slept in separate rooms. They participated in counseling, which proved unsuccessful. The husband left the marital dwelling in the spring of 1995.

It is abundantly clear that the marriage has irretrievably broken down. I have considered the credibility of the parties, their attitude, conduct and demeanor, and conclude that a somewhat larger portion of the responsibility for the shattering of the parties' marriage must rest with the wife.

The parties have accumulated the following described assets, as disclosed on their respective financial affidavits.

Their jointly-owned marital dwelling, 95 Starr Street, Norwich, Connecticut, which I find has a value of $116,000, but an equity of no more than $12,000-$13,000 after subtracting the mortgage balance of $99,000 and past due property taxes of about $4,000. The husband owned a home prior to the marriage which was sold; the proceeds of about $30,000 were used for a down payment on the present marital home, furniture and furnishings.

The husband describes on his financial affidavit a profit sharing plan with $4,700 with Allstate; a pension plan of $12,301 with Allstate, not fully vested, and his John Hancock pension plan which has a present value of $31,336. He also lists a 1994 Pontiac which he drives worth $10,000 with no equity and a 1991 Hyundai worth $4,000 which the wife drives. They report no bank accounts or other liquid funds, and modest amounts of tangible personalty.

The husband was the principal breadwinner during the marriage, and his income accounted for the lion's share of the accumulation of the marital assets. Although the wife worked throughout the marriage, her income was never substantial. The husband's earnings and earning capacity always were and still are greater than that of the wife.

The wife was the homemaker and primary care giver to the children. While the husband's monetary contributions to the marriage were greater than the wife's, her nonmonetary contributions were greater than his.

I make the following additional findings. The parties CT Page 4010-NN successfully completed the Parenting Education Program, General Statutes § 46b-69b. The couple entered into an agreement that they be awarded joint legal custody of their two minor children, with physical custody in mother and reasonable rights of visitation to father. They also agreed that the father would maintain his present job-related health insurance for the children, and that the parents would equally share the unreimbursed, uncovered health-related expenses for the children. I find this agreement fair and equitable under the circumstances and in the best interests of the children, and I approve it.

The husband in 1992 and 1993 withdrew in excess of $35,000 from his pension/profit sharing plans. I find it established that a significant portion of the net proceeds of these withdrawals (after income taxes and surrender charges) were used to pay the wife's credit card charge account obligations. However, the husband was a willing participant in this improvident dissipation of funds and must bear a portion of the responsibility for it.

I also find that the wife refused to cooperate and join with the husband in a joint federal income tax return for 1994, and that this resulted in the imposition of $1,600 of unnecessary additional income taxes upon the husband.

Although I find credible that the husband's 1993 state income tax refund was intercepted, there is insufficient evidence that the wife was responsible for the tax liability the refund was applied to.

The parties consumed a considerable portion of this trial disputing whether the husband had an employee or independent contractor relationship with Allstate. I find from the evidence that he is an employee. As such, I agree with the defendant that his business expenses may not be deducted from gross income under a literal reading of the child support and arrearage guidelines.1

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