McKendry v. McKendry

202 Misc. 312, 108 N.Y.S.2d 297, 1951 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2504
New York Supreme Court·Decided November 16, 1951·Published·Cited by 5 cases

Opinion

O ’Brien, J.

Plaintiff asks for a judgment of separation based on defendant’s abandonment of her and his failure to support her. The complaint alleges that both plaintiff and defendant, at the time of the commencement of the action and for some years prior thereto, were residents of the State of New York. The amended answer specifically admits that plaintiff is a resident of New York. It fails to admit but does not expressly deny that defendant was and is such resident.

Since the marriage of the parties (May 9, 1928) occurred in the town of Pittsford in the State of New York and the plaintiff concededly was a resident of New York State when the action was commenced such action for separation was maintainable here. (Civ. Prac. Act, § 1165-a.)

Plaintiff and defendant were residents of New York State for most of their married life. There was a period of about one and one half years (ending in May, 1928) during which they were physically present in Florida. Whether during that period the State of Florida or New York State was their domicile it is not now necessary to determine. In May, 1948, they returned to New York State and took up quarters at the home of plaintiff’s sister on Colebourne Road, Rochester, New York. Plaintiff has remained at that location in this State ever since. Defendant left this State in January, 1950, and having arrived in Florida claims and asserts that Florida is his residence and has been so at least since January, 1950.

The merits of the plaintiff’s claim on which much evidence has been heard are soon determined. For some years these two parties had become less and less congenial and compatible with each other. It is not necessary at this time to determine the underlying cause or reason and indeed the court is not sure that it has sufficient insight to arrive at such a determination. Neither such incompatibility, however, nor any of the incidents related at the trial were sufficient to justify a separation between them. In this connection the court declines to find as requested by the defendant that plaintiff was guilty of abnormal sex conduct or sex perversion. On this phase of the case we con-[314]*314elude that the defendant has not established this charge which is alleged as a separate defense in the defendant’s “ Further Amended Answer ”.

As has been said the plaintiff remained in the Oolebourne Eoad house ever since arriving there in May, 1948. The defendant left that home, in September, 1948. He contends that the quarters there provided for him were not comfortable. This may well be the truth. When he left the defendant secured an apartment on Monroe Avenue in the same city. From that time on husband and wife continued to see each other at intervals but their visits became less frequent. They finally had a discussion in the fall of 1949. It was about this time the plaintiff gave the defendant his camera which he had requested and he claims that she told him not to come back. I do not believe nor accept this statement as true.

During the period from September, 1948, when the defendant left the Oolebourne Eoad house to the time in January, 1950, when he left the State of New York and journeyed to Florida I find that he never offered to provide a home for the plaintiff and himself although she requested him to do so. If conditions in the Oolebourne Eoad home were unacceptable to him it was his duty to provide a separate establishment where he and the plaintiff could live together. Sometime in advance of his journey to Florida in January, 1950, the defendant told plaintiff that he was going away and “ would establish a divorce ”. It is noted that he did not invite the plaintiff to accompany him to Florida nor even discuss with her that possibility.

The court is satisfied that the defendant was bored with the plaintiff’s society and tired of her and the responsibility which married life involved and that when he left the Oolebourne Eoad house in September, 1948, he abandoned the plaintiff with the intention of never returning to her and has not since supported her. I do not find any misconduct on the part of the wife which justified such act on the part of the defendant.

On the showing which plaintiff has made here she would clearly be entitled to a judgment for separation with appropriate provisions for her support provided this court had power to grant such relief.

The husband contends that this court is precluded from granting affirmative relief to the wife by reason of the fact that he secured a divorce in the State of Florida in an action in which he was plaintiff and, which, so he claims dissolves the marriage between the parties and is entitled to full faith and credit and recognition in the State of New York.

[315]*315For a consideration of the problems which are raised by this contention some recital of some of the proceedings which have occurred in this action preceding the trial may be appropriate.

Beginning in the month of January, after the husband left New York State discussions occurred between attorney William L. Clay of New York State who represented the husband and attorney Percival W. Gillette whom the wife had retained as her counsel. These conferences were not productive of any result.

In February, 1950, there was correspondence between Mr. Gillette representing the wife and attorney John G. Simms in Miami, Florida, representing the husband. Apparently no agreement was reached as a result of this correspondence. On April 27, 1950, the plaintiff verified a complaint in the above-entitled action for separation. Thereafter an order of sequestration was made. Attempts to serve the summons upon the defendant personally in Florida were made and failed. An order was made on June 6, 1950, authorizing service of the summons by publication and publication was immediately commenced. On June 5, 1950, the husband’s attorney in Miami, Florida, mailed to the wife in New York State a copy of the husband’s bill of complaint for divorce entitled in the Circuit Court of the Eleventh Judicial Circuit of Florida in and for Dade County. She received the summons and the accompanying notice on June 7th.

The defendant contends that since his bill of complaint for divorce in Florida was verified on May 29, 1950, and a copy of it mailed on June 5, 1950, his action was first commenced. The plaintiff’s complaint in the New York State separation action was verified on April 27,1950, but publication, authorized on June 6, 1950, was not complete for a considerable time thereafter. I hold that the fact that the Florida divorce action was first commenced, if it be a fact, is not controlling on the question as to whether the resulting decree in the Florida action will be recognized here. It is noted that the defendant has appeared generally in the separation action by attorney and was personally present in court at the time the action was tried. There was an informal appearance on behalf of defendant as early as June 22, 1950, at which time Messrs. Sutherland and Sutherland, attorneys in Rochester, New York, wrote a letter to plaintiff’s attorney. In this letter reference was made to the pending New York separation action and the letter stated that such attorneys would appear for the defendant in the action. They made such formal appearance on or about September 13, [316]*3161950. Later, approximately in October, 1950, attorney William L. Clay was substituted for Sutherland and Sutherland as attorney for the defendant.

On June 27,1950, on the application of the plaintiff an order was made by Honorable H.

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