McCormick v. Ethridge

15 So. 3d 524, 2008 Ala. Civ. App. LEXIS 648, 2008 WL 4603397
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Alabama
DecidedOctober 17, 2008
Docket2070405
StatusPublished
Cited by26 cases

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McCormick v. Ethridge, 15 So. 3d 524, 2008 Ala. Civ. App. LEXIS 648, 2008 WL 4603397 (Ala. Ct. App. 2008).

Opinion

MOORE, Judge.

On June 15, 2000, the Autauga Circuit Court (“the trial court”) entered a divorce judgment divorcing Lori Jane Ethridge McCormick (“the mother”) and William Curtis Ethridge (“the father”) and incorporating an agreement entered between the parties. Although a copy of the parties’ divorce judgment is not part of the record *527 in this appeal, that judgment and its subsequent modifications evidently awarded the parties joint legal custody and awarded the father primary physical custody of the parties’ only child. The judgment also apparently required the mother to pay certain medical expenses for the benefit of the child.

On June 13, 2006, the mother filed a petition to modify the custody provisions of the divorce judgment. Thereafter, the parties filed various motions, none of which concerned the alleged failure of the mother to pay medical expenses. The trial court conducted an ore tenus hearing on the mother’s petition on August 30, 2007, at which, over the objection of the mother, the trial court admitted an itemization of expenses incurred by the father in seeking and obtaining medical treatment for the child. On September 7, 2007, the trial court entered a final judgment denying the mother’s petition and awarding the father $4,282.50 pursuant to the medical-expense provisions of the divorce judgment. Following the denial of her postjudgment motion, the mother timely appealed.

On appeal, the mother argues that the trial court exceeded its discretion in denying her petition; that the trial court failed to apply § 30-3-130 et seq., Ala.Code 1975 (“the Custody and Domestic or Family Abuse Act”), in making its custody determination; and that the trial court erred in allowing the father to present evidence in support of an unpleaded claim for medical expenses and in finding that all of those expenses were recoverable under the divorce judgment.

The Petition for Modification of Custody

After custody has been awarded in a divorce judgment, the noncustodial parent seeking a change of custody must demonstrate (1) “that he or she is a fit custodian”; (2) “that material changes which affect the child’s welfare have occurred”; and (3) “that the positive good brought about by the change in custody will more than offset the disruptive effect of uprooting the child.” Kunkel v. Kunkel, 547 So.2d 555, 560 (Ala.Civ.App.1989) (citing, among other cases, Ex parte McLendon, 455 So.2d 863, 865-66 (Ala.1984) (setting forth three factors a noncustodial parent must demonstrate in order to modify custody)).

The parties do not appear to be in dispute over the mother’s fitness to parent the child. Although it appears that at the time the 2000 divorce judgment was entered the mother was mired in a substance-abuse problem and agreed to give custody of the child to the father because of that problem, the father does not disagree that she has since overcome that problem, remarried, obtained steady employment, given birth to another child whom she is raising with her current husband, and established a suitable home for her children. The father does not express any disagreement with the trial court’s finding that the mother is “a capable and loving parent who would be a suitable custodian for the child.” However, “[i]t is not enough that the parent show that she has remarried, reformed her lifestyle, and improved her financial position.” Ex parte McLendon, 455 So.2d at 866. A noncustodial parent must still prove the other two McLendon factors. Id.

The parties are in dispute as to the second McLendon factor—whether there have been material changes affecting the child’s welfare since the entry of the 2000 divorce judgment. The mother maintains that, since the parties’ divorce, the father has developed an alcohol problem, has cohabited or engaged in sexual relations with a series of women, and has committed acts of domestic violence, all of which the mother says have adversely affected the welfare *528 of the child. The father denies that he has an alcohol problem, denies that he committed any acts of “domestic or family abuse,” as that term is defined under § 30-3-130, Ala.Code 1975, and denies that any of his relationships with women have negatively impacted the child.

In its final judgment, the trial court found that the mother “has failed in her substantial burden to show a material change in circumstances which would justify a change in custody in this case.” In particular, the trial court found that

“[although the father has, on occasion and for extended periods of time, had overnight guests of the opposite sex, there is no evidence that these relationships have affected the child to any degree. It is clear from the evidence that this child almost certainly does not recognize or appreciate the existence of any romantic relationship that might exist between his father and others.”

It has been said in past Alabama custody cases that indiscreet heterosexual conduct of a parent may be considered, but only to the extent that the conduct detrimentally affects the child. See, e.g., Phillips v. Phillips, 622 So.2d 410, 412 (Ala.Civ.App.1993). Whether Alabama continues to adhere to that standard is questionable, see Ex paite 730 So.2d 1190, 1194 (Ala.1998) (indicating that noncustodial parent did not have to prove harm to child caused by custodial parent’s homosexual conduct, but only that change in custody would meet McLendon standard); however, the mother does not question the application of that standard. She argues instead that the evidence does not support the trial court’s findings. We disagree.

At trial, the father admitted that he has been in four long-term relationships since his divorce from the mother. He further admitted that he had engaged in sexual relations with his paramours while the child was in the same house. From February 2005 to December 2005, the father allowed his former fiancée and her two children to reside in the house with him and the child without the benefit of marriage. The former fiancée testified that on one occasion the child had entered the father’s bedroom through a door that had been left inadvertently unlocked and had observed the father and the fiancée while engaged in an intimate act. The father testified that he did not believe the child had actually witnessed any sexual activity as alleged. The guardian ad litem for the child testified that she had surveyed the bedroom and had questioned the former fiancée’s version of the events based on the layout of the room.

The record discloses that the child suffers from autism, which renders him unable to communicate verbally. The father testified at length regarding the effects of the autism on the child’s comprehension abilities. The mother somewhat disagreed with the father’s assessment, but she admitted that the mental ability of the child is impaired. The mother called an expert, who estimated that the child’s autism was in the average range. The father testified that if the child had accidentally witnessed any of the father’s sexual conduct, the child would have been unable to understand what he was observing.

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